its really funny beacause my bf and i were in a long distance relationship and i talk to him through phone or chat and once a week i visit him at his place. i just dont understand him coz everytime im at home and talk to him in chat or call him he sounds a little harsh he always tease me or sometimes tells me that he's dating (this, that, this,that) but i know that its not true, and he says that he doesnt love me that he love the other girl but everytime i ask him to visit him at their house he says yes and weird because he is so sweet.. i wonder how to deal with him? is he just being paranoid or what.?. (i cheated on him b4) thanks so much guys
2006-10-31 05:20:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Even without the cheating it's understandable that he would be like this. You guys have dated, its going to be hard for you to be friends because you have a history. He sounds like he wants some rebound love from someone else. Maybe he's not getting any so he settles for whatever he can get from you, even if it's just a little time. It sounds like he's trying to get over you, but you keep coming around. He's still in the angry stages. Seeing you only reminds him of what happened, and that has to makes him angry/sad/even spiteful. I would give him a break and stop seeing him so much, he needs some alone time to recuperate and start on some new things. Then maybe you guys can talk a little.
2006-10-31 05:26:48 · answer #1 · answered by CheezyYumYums 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've seen this happen to other girls who have cheated...their man doesn't satisfy them, for whatever reason, they cheat, then they either tell their man or get caught, and the man uses that mistake to beat them over the head with every chance they get. It's called mental abuse, and you don't have to put up with it. Dump him. Move on. Life's too short to spend trying to fix broken people - find someone who will treat you with dignity and respect, I PROMISE you there's a man like that out there. You're too special to stay in an abusive relationship, no matter what mistakes you've made. Long distance relationships hardly ever last, especially for young people. Real life is not like one of those old romance flicks where people split up in their teens and stay faithful for decades only to reuinite and live happily ever after. Real life is too short for that crap. I'm tellin' you, girl, get some self respect - move on!
2006-10-31 05:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Read what you just wrote. Now think about it. He says he doesnt love you and has another girl but he welcomes you into his home. Now why do you think that is? Booty call. Dump his ***.
2006-10-31 05:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do you want to "deal" with this guy? He's rude, he says he doesn't love you, he plays head games with you, and you're still around. I wonder what's the deal with you?
2006-10-31 05:24:43 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i guess teasing you about another girl is his way of "getting you back" for what you did without actually cheating on you. you should take what he says with a grain of salt and laugh it off.
2006-10-31 05:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by Btieti 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't sound like he is your boyfriend at all. He is telling you that he loves someone else. If you were cheating on him it doesn't sound like you are much of a girlfriend. Please move on.
2006-10-31 05:27:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Get out fast, he ain't worth it if he's going to keep on you like that with the jokes.
2006-10-31 05:23:01 · answer #7 · answered by JenniB 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ask him if he's worried - or when he says hes seeing someone else tell him good for you guess i'll do the same - check for reaction
2006-10-31 05:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont understand the question, you write like a five year old.
2006-10-31 05:23:39 · answer #9 · answered by Texas Made! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like he's starting to play you like you played him.....
2006-10-31 05:30:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋