My visa just expired.My whole life is here now...I have a good friend of mine,who I really trust and I know him for 6 years.He offered me that he can marry me for papers.Everything would be easy but my boyfriend who I live with for 2 years also wants to marry me for the same reason.My boyfriend and I fight alot and we broke up many times.I love him very much but I am not sure that I can count on him for the next 3 years.He also doesnt approve me getting married to friend of mine.He said if I do that he will leave me.
2006-10-31 05:23:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I spoke to many emigration lawyers and this is the only way I can legalize my stay.
2006-10-31 05:26:12 · update #1
not legal, but if it was go for friend.
2006-10-31 05:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by reene2g 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Marry the one you love.You are looking at a potential divorce either way right?You stand no hope of a marriage if you don't love them.
Also the "friend"might have feeelings for you or something if he offers to marry you so easily.He could really get hurt in this and ruin the friendship if that is the case.
2006-10-31 05:31:27 · answer #2 · answered by Style Girl 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is I'm glad I'm not your boyfriend or your trusted friend.
Marrying either one of them just to gain legal status has nothing to do with the commitments of marriage.
The way I see it is you'd be deceiving both guys and the Country. Which in any case, is wrong.
2006-10-31 05:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you marry someone else he is within his right in leaving you for good. You just don't do that. Of course you should marry someone you love over someone you don't love. Everyone fights sometimes. That is normal in a relationship. Sometimes it gives a relationship passion and making up is GREAT! You are going to have to make this choice. No one can do it for you. Use your woman's intuition.
2006-10-31 05:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Jules 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I dont think you should marry anybody unless you Love them(and they Love you) and want to be with them forever.
2006-10-31 05:26:33 · answer #5 · answered by IW 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are just their bait. Swim away from both and find a nice guy who doesn't need papers.
2006-10-31 05:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Better merry the bf b/c the government will know your other marrage is a fraud.
2006-10-31 05:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Robert Palson 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
research the meaning of marriage and commitment.
2006-10-31 05:58:47 · answer #8 · answered by nwnativeprincess 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go home and think about it for a while
2006-10-31 05:36:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MARRY WHAT YOU HEART TELLS YOU.
2006-10-31 05:43:10 · answer #10 · answered by Yvette A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋