20 y/o in college, this girl seems to like me (talks to me, smiles at me whenever we see eachother in the halls and stuff). She mentioned having a boyfriend that went to college, i'm confused at what to do??
2006-10-31 05:21:08 · 17 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you have home field advantage, meaning you are or can be in constant contact with her. women like attention. try to "be just friends", but never consider her your friend, only you know that, instead you continue to flirt and do nice things that a considerate man would do. she will start liking you and seek your comfort when she breaks up with her long-distant boyfriend.
2006-10-31 05:27:21 · answer #1 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't get what your confused about. Just because a girl talks to you and smiles at you doesn't mean she likes you but it doesn't mean she doesn't like you either. However she did happen to mention she has a boyfriend so I think you should just be her friend for now and if something should happen to her boyfriend then you make your move and ask her out. You don't want to risk anything since she did happen to mention to you that she has a boyfriend.
2006-10-31 13:31:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Either 1 of 2 options. 1, shes trying to make yu jelous, so you try to be better than her boyfriend, or two; she is saying "BACK OFF DUDE!" Next time you see her, pay attention if she is still as nice to you, still talks as much; and if she is, maybe she likes you and is make you feel more for her.
2006-10-31 13:25:39 · answer #3 · answered by J&B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be her friend - keep smiling, tell her " i know you said you have boyfriend, but would you like to get together for lunch or something just to talk?" then you will know how serious her and her bf are, dont be pushy, if she's smiling at you she is probably already interested in you - just be patient - all good things come to those who wait....good luck
2006-10-31 13:27:23 · answer #4 · answered by beachnut222000 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Become friends you know long distant relationships never last long. come one he's in colledge hes gonna be with other girls and when she finds out you will be her big man friend shoulder that she comes and cries on. (win - win situation guy)
2006-10-31 13:26:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep smiling and talking, and you may soon be the boy friend.
2006-10-31 13:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by avery 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get to know her as friends and see what happens from there.
2006-10-31 13:25:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like her you should tell her how you feel, she might dump that loser and go out with you. I'm sure you would be a better boyfriend for her anyway.
2006-10-31 13:26:13 · answer #8 · answered by darkcutie 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just be a friend to her and see where that can lead you but dont take it tooo far because you might be misleading her direction.
2006-10-31 13:27:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
" F " her.... You go for yours dawg! Especially with that head of hair you got!!! Don't let any female dictate what you should do.. Its all about power with these types of females. Don't talk to her ever again!
2006-10-31 13:26:23 · answer #10 · answered by dally d 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋