My GF and i have been together for 3 years and get along amazingly but when it comes to sex things dont always click.
In 3 years i have yet to see her finish. She is very self consious (yet gorgous) and extremely tenative. Sex is just plain sex most the time( no foreplay or extra caricular) which i have learned to deal with ( im all for it) but seeing a GF become frustrated because she cant finish is getting very hard. Recently sex hasnt lasted very long cause she cant keep "lubed" enough and wont let us use gel because she doesnt like it .. what am i suppose to do here? Its becoming a struggle. At first i thought it was me but than again ive never had this problem before her so it probably isnt..
2006-10-31 05:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by acezr2wild 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
She needs to find out what is wrong - was she ever hurt by someone physically. Sounds very odd that she doesn't want to release. Foreplay is what she needs and lil experimentation with you won't hurt either.
2006-10-31 05:32:48 · answer #1 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably has issues when it comes to sex...perhaps her parents didn't discuss sex with her or told her that sex is suppose to be boring. I would speak to her and ask her how she feels about foreplay and oral sex and her answer can explain a lot of thins. Maybe you both can seek sex counseling hope i was of help keep in mind it takes females longer to get off than man
2006-10-31 13:37:01 · answer #2 · answered by queenzhottie78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok you need to take control and make sure there is foreplay get her really excited but don't rush it, make her really want it. The key here is for YOU to take control obvisously she isn't going to do anything exciting so you must do it for her.
2006-10-31 13:37:00 · answer #3 · answered by all_304 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you try renting a porno? this may stimulate her. Dont get anything to extreme. also have her dress up, try it in different rooms or outdoors. one day , wait for her to come home and as soon as she walks in the door, go up to her and start pulling her clothes off and do her right at the door
2006-10-31 17:13:33 · answer #4 · answered by John S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude - Oral! Go downtown.... or buy some silicon based lube. It has no taste and is slippery as heck.
2006-10-31 13:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy her some toys but make sure they arent bigger than you because you dont want her to leave you,.
2006-10-31 13:30:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋