Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

People always tell me to mind my own business when it comes to these things. But I love my girlfriend, my father, and my mother very much. I'm afraid that I'll break apart the family. I feel bad that my girlfriend dumped me to pursue my father, and that my father is cheating on my mother with a woman 25 years younger than him. What should I do? I don't want to make my mother cry!

2006-10-31 05:51:02 · 15 answers · asked by Suave Latino 1 in Family

if any or all of you, play the nice girl bit when it comes to the bed get all aggressive? if so where you at?

2006-10-31 05:50:44 · 3 answers · asked by James H 1 in Singles & Dating

This person left me and my heart was broken and it took me a lot of efforts to recover. Now she came to tell me she loves me and that it was a mistake, but this is after she went out and spend time with her friends going clubbing and also doing activities with other groups of single people that get together to know each other and of course, find their match, but it seems it didn't work for her and now wants me back.

What I am trying to see if someone has been on a similar situation and if with your experience or knowledge situations like this usually work. Since I loved her so much and I still love her, we started talking and dating taking things slowly, but it is not the same as it was before, for me she is not the same person anymore, she already left me and broke my heart so badly, it's difficult. But if it worth, I will give a try, but I would like to know more about what other people have experienced, any ideas?

2006-10-31 05:50:15 · 10 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating my current boyfriend for 4 months now! he lives with his mentaly challanged mother to take care of her he dislikes her because of somthing that hapend in the past but refuses to tell me about it! another time i asked about his sexual past before me and didnt get much I asked if he had ever slept with another man and he said he would not awnser that latter i found out he had but i still have no idea the what, where or why! his rufusal to talk to me about what i concider important issues has me baffeld he is even evasive about what his spiritual beliefs are! he is very sweet and reliable and is even helping me with my daughter who was just born but is not his her father passed away in march! we have alot friends in commen and everything indcates he is truly a good guy except this one thing and well his hygen! any ideas what is going on? he says he wants to persue this relationship into the long term but I dont know if i should what do you all think?

2006-10-31 05:49:45 · 10 answers · asked by none T 1 in Singles & Dating

What aspects are most important? For him to be strong, loving... ? What exactly is what girls are attracted to, and how can a man be Unpredictable and surprise woman...

2006-10-31 05:49:14 · 6 answers · asked by J&B 3 in Singles & Dating

how a male gynogologist can see what they see all day, some pretty gross I am sure, and than go home to a wife and be interested.

2006-10-31 05:49:06 · 14 answers · asked by sweetsmile 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 05:48:55 · 13 answers · asked by PEGGY R 2 in Singles & Dating

i didnt c anythng against ths in bible.

2006-10-31 05:48:28 · 12 answers · asked by doubtagain 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend is planning on serving her husband with divorce papers, she is having a hard time finding a lawyer that will talk to her around her work schedule. We are anxious to know what the cost is to get divorced in Saint Petersburg FL ... can anyone help?

2006-10-31 05:48:16 · 4 answers · asked by HH72 2 in Marriage & Divorce

We went out for 5 years and a couple of days ago she dumped me for my own father! She was cheating on me with him. It breaks my heart that she would do something like this to me. I love her very much and I can't live without her and I really feel like a shithead right now. What can I do to make me feel better?

2006-10-31 05:47:44 · 29 answers · asked by Suave Latino 1 in Singles & Dating

i didnt c anythng against ths in bible.

2006-10-31 05:47:36 · 10 answers · asked by doubtagain 1 in Singles & Dating

I just wanted to know how people view a exclusive relationship and what all does it invlove. serious answers only please!!!

2006-10-31 05:47:32 · 6 answers · asked by Sexy 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by lacey b 1 in Friends

We've been going out for 3 months and everything's been going smoothly. But after one weekend when she went away on a business conference, she seemed to grow more distant from me. She hasn't been answering my calls or returning them much. One night later after the conference, she comes home late and says she wants to take a break. I don't know what to do because I'm unsure of what she was doing over the weekend or that night and she hasn't been as open with me about it as she has from when we started going out. She isn't ready to talk to me yet about why she wants to take a break and I'm just thoroughly confused. She thinks taking a break will be better for us, and has been dodging my questions about what's going on. I don't know what to do.

2006-10-31 05:46:35 · 14 answers · asked by Bob L 1 in Singles & Dating

been married for 9-10yrs 2 girls, and i love him i stood next to him thinking that one day we will be fine financially and happy, we got marry young and imature but i figure we could grow 2gether and have a wonderful life 2gether. he started going out, he wanted time off, so i figure i would give him a taste of his own medicine and went out a few time myself, but i felt horrible after and got tired of doing it but he kept it many nights all day long. after 4mons i found pamper receipt, i couldnt take it anymore finding girls numbers, him going out and now a pampers receipt, i left to my parents house. Now 2mons since, & i keep looking 4/him, should i fight to regain this marriage, why do i feel my life is him, why am i not worth enought for him, the girls what? he is crue to me, & i still love him why do i stick around for him to fool me with lies & hurtful words, why do i still love him as much as when we 1st met?

2006-10-31 05:46:22 · 16 answers · asked by why 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my son is constantly nagging me to let him go onto habbo, he was on there before & i found an awful lot of bullying,swearing & sexual suggestions going on so i banned him from using it..what does everyone else think?

2006-10-31 05:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by funkystuff 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Porn, that is...i asked a similar question before, but got responses that are off the mark. I wanted to know if there was a title or series of porn movies you enjoy watching with your significant other so that my wife and i can enjoy them together. I know what she's looking for - quasi believable stories, actors/actresses that are normal looking (not those fake blonde bimbo porn regulars), and guys that are good looking and not fat and old. Have any of you seen movies fitting this criteria? IF so, what are they?

2006-10-31 05:45:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do guys hate girls that smoke if they smoke too.....

2006-10-31 05:44:40 · 23 answers · asked by UR COUNTRY BEAUTY 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm so sick of the luvvy dovey, door holding, namby pampy metrosexual ponces......give me a man who is arrogant, will chuck me on the bed and just ram it in hard!!!!!

I'm a nice girl really, just a little sick of the "I don't know, what do you want to do..."I don't know, how do you feel?" - Hurumph!

2006-10-31 05:42:35 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:42:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm planning a wedding reception for a bride and her man. The groom and bride can both ballroom dance and want to include it in their wedding, but the groom is also the ultimate post adolescent gamer. Ballroom dancing is great for many of the women who would want to try it and the older folks, but the groom wants something for his friends who come. His best friends and most of the guys at the reception are also big time gamers. They are older (20s 30s and 40s) and have jobs and are not misfits. They are a little shy when there's nothing to do to keep them entertained. The groom wants them to have a great time but I'm at a loss for coming up with ideas. They probably won't want to dance. The bride is completely down with anything, but I want to keep it tasteful and fun. Any ideas?

2006-10-31 05:41:48 · 9 answers · asked by French4charityimpminusi 2 in Weddings

Mines is when ppl think they are too cool but they really aight and controlling freaks..

2006-10-31 05:41:38 · 25 answers · asked by dudette 3 in Friends

i want my kid to be a junior but i also wanna name him after my exboyfriend but my ex and my man have the same name but i dont know im confused

2006-10-31 05:41:20 · 11 answers · asked by west side rider 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:41:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like, playing football in the mud.
What did you THINK i meant??!! ;o)

2006-10-31 05:40:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately I have been feeling this intense hatred towards my father. He has not done anything to deserve this and yet I cannot seem to get over it. It is so bad that I cannot even look him in the face. What is wrong with me? Is this normal?

2006-10-31 05:39:51 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

asking her out.

2006-10-31 05:39:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you do if you live with someone (roomie) and she is SO negative that you realize that she brings you down and affects your life? How do you deal with that? I have a lease for another year with her and we were once close friends (that's changing) but now she drinks too much and gets mean. She's also so negative and paranoid about her life. It really affects me. How do I deal with this without causing any more problems for myself?

2006-10-31 05:39:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

She is pregnant with another man's baby. You already think she is beautiful. would you still feel this way even in the end of her pregnancy, when she starts getting big, if you like her a lot?

2006-10-31 05:38:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 05:37:56 · 4 answers · asked by eddiep969 1 in Singles & Dating