Family & Relationships - 31 October 2006

okay i have an now ex girlfriend we just broke up but she still wants to be friends and take it slow before we have a chance to get back together, I mean we talked about having kids and getting married, i was the first guy she ever gave oral sex to and we were together for 2 years but i had problems and she had problems.And my problem was my anger and her problem was being irresponsible and not wanting to work. But we have been broken up for a couple of months and sense then i have gone to anger managerment and read books about anger and she have become more resposible and gotten a job. I mean i see a change in her and i feel like i have changed. We both tell each other i love u all the time and we still hang out a lot and go to the movies and mall together. Should i just keep hanging with her and better our friendship before we go out again. I mean is starting over as friends a good stragedy to make a relationship work a second time around.

2006-10-31 06:21:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend thinks its fine his ex kids go with us to the movies. they are not even his kids

2006-10-31 06:21:19 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He is very cute, but couldn't tell a girl that was interested in him from a drag queen(who are actually very cool people). He doesn't know I like him. What do I do?

2006-10-31 06:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i never go out and meet new guys, even at school B/c its wrong if i have a bf. I dont have issues w/ my bf having friends either.he met some tutor in class, which has escalated into a social realtionship. they text each other, i asked her to stop, and she still called him.she doesnt know me, but obviously has no respecct for me. he got angry and said i shouldnt ruin his friendships at school, and that i am jealous, im 24 and know better.she sent a text that she was alone all weekend and went to the movies on Sat.,alone!who does that, she wants him to say hed go with her next time write? the point is should i be worried about him, or go and meet her by surprise at school, and really confront her, afterall, i did warn her already. I know its wrong,but i has his calls forwarded to my number, and shes calling. What do i do?

2006-10-31 06:20:51 · 8 answers · asked by lablanca15 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a shy qiet girl and a good girl who is attracted to the bad boy type with a wrapper type look and dress race does not matter.I dont now why i am pretty prepie/casual in my look and most of guys in my area dress prepie.I like the protective vib i get from the bad boy type and i like feeling like i am taken care of and there attitude.

2006-10-31 06:20:29 · 5 answers · asked by shelly m 1 in Singles & Dating

Im looking into being a flasher this year, I have only seen men do it but for a change I would like to be that woman that will flash your eyes out lmao.

2006-10-31 06:20:23 · 9 answers · asked by D'oh! 5 in Singles & Dating

what makes a man fall in love with a woman? .. and im talking about truly in love feelings ..

2006-10-31 06:20:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 06:19:59 · 4 answers · asked by Deandre 1 in Singles & Dating

i messed up bad. i didnt know where me and this guy stood cuz he never would tell me, he told me we were freinds only. so i went out with a freind and i did something i shouldnt have and he found out and now he says he cant trust me i understand that 100% but i am head over heels for him. how can i show him that he is all i think about?

2006-10-31 06:19:24 · 16 answers · asked by emt_907 1 in Singles & Dating

evan though we told them there to young (both 20) they should wait ect (did i mention this girl has been divorced twice at the age of 20) i haven given up trying to discourage them and and i am stuck if i swing my position now they will know i am faking but i love my stepson we are (were) close hes is so much better than her what in the world should me and his dad do go not go should i leap from the pew and choke her what .I do wish him happiness but i know this is gonna end just like her last two marriages when she gets board and finds a new man but my stepson is smitten and thinks this will last forever anybody else in same boat? id sure like some support.

2006-10-31 06:18:50 · 14 answers · asked by auntie s 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-31 06:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by JR11 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like a certain guy and his best friend told me he liked me 2 how should i ask him or should i?????????????

2006-10-31 06:18:27 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a adopted sister,i love her more than everything,but she is a very serious women.if someone hurt her she won't forgive that person.few days ago i just throwed some few words towards her that truly can hurt her.after i realise my mistake i ask apologise from her but she refused to forgive me.she told me to get lost from her life,i explain to her that i love her so much but she's still don't want to listen to me.i just cannot forget her.plz help me..........

2006-10-31 06:18:25 · 17 answers · asked by muksar 1 in Family

2006-10-31 06:17:18 · 7 answers · asked by serena g 1 in Singles & Dating

my son's b-day is today ( halloween ), my daughters is 5 days from now then it's x-mas. i am ready to loose my mind

2006-10-31 06:17:16 · 11 answers · asked by di05712 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

she feel this way? the kid is not mine

2006-10-31 06:17:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom is taking my dad to court for cousty of me im 13 and want to live with her whats are some good questions i can ask to make the judge see i should live with my mom

2006-10-31 06:16:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How do you find out if someone has feelings towards you...without coming out and asking??? His actions somewhat show..but I need more concret evidence. Any suggestions that are realistic???

2006-10-31 06:16:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hit it off huge. Talked all the time, went out all the time, etc. 2 mos. into it, she starts to shy away, but it seemed like we were getting closer. I wouldn't even ask opinions on this, but we are able to talk pretty openly now (dating 6 mos.) and she told me she has always been like this, that she always shies away from the people she really starts to care for. She is a very honest person, so I don't really have any reason to doubt her. She seems torn now and said as much just tonight. We have told each other many times that we love each other. I believe her and know I mean it. So, is she just trying to let me down easy (her heart wants me, her head doesn't or vice versa) or can she really be telling me the truth, that she loves me but doesn't know if I'm what she wants? I am so confused. It's like she loves me so much she wants to end our relationship, or that's what it seems like.

2006-10-31 06:16:12 · 7 answers · asked by randyken 6 in Singles & Dating

if you're looking for polyamoury or just for fun how do you get 3rd+ people without hurting them?

2006-10-31 06:15:54 · 14 answers · asked by Myrrhder 2 in Singles & Dating

Unwed mothers deserted by the "guy" they thought was so cool. People sleeping around as if there were no consequences. Sexually transmitted diseases on the rise, even HPV that causes cancer. HIV that destroys health and kills. And broken marriages because people don't hold marriage sacred. The marriage vows mean NOTHING to some any more. Guys who lay with a woman they just met, women who will let them. "Couples who "move in together" to find out what it is like or to save money. They have the highest divorce rate, IF they ever get married. There seems to be no respect between the sexes any more. What are people thinking? They don't really believe that is the best way to live do they?

Are they just falling into the trap of thinking "everybody is doing it so it must be okay"?

2006-10-31 06:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by mindbender - seeker of truth 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 23 and recently lost my virginity with a very special woman. Weve been together for some time now. I have had the chance in the past with other girls but none of them seemed right, but this one did.

I expected it to be nothing special the first time, and it wasnt. We've done it a few times now and I enjoy it, but I am still very nervous and worried if she shares the same pleasure I do. I still come pretty quick and want her to also. Ive even gone soft in the middle of the act, which was extrememly embarrassing.

She makes me feel very comfortable and seems to understand how I feel. I still feel uncomfortable though. I think the reason I cant do it longer and better is because Im thinking too hard on the matter and not letting myself enjoy it.

Is this something that comes with time? We are still learning each others likes and dislikes and I really want it to be better for her.

Thanks!

2006-10-31 06:15:45 · 8 answers · asked by jbauer 1 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever met one?

2006-10-31 06:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by bertil 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this is kinda silly but I recently saw photos of all of my bf's ex's. One was average looking, maybe a 7 (on a scale 1-10), the other two I would say were like 4-5's, and one of them was like a 2, and I am being nice about that. Then I remember the one who I rated as a 2, was the same girl my bf says he was the most attracted to. So Im thinking, first, I must be ugly (although no one has ever said that to me) and second what the f was he thinking?

2006-10-31 06:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Singles & Dating

What attracts you to a person....
appearance,
ambition,
morality,
etc...

2006-10-31 06:15:18 · 17 answers · asked by Tet 4 in Singles & Dating

There's something my man does that I'm having a hard time accepting. I don't want to go into detail but it's nothing like leaving his clothes laying around the house or anything like that. It's something that really hurts my feelings. So how do you accept something you just don't like?

2006-10-31 06:14:51 · 8 answers · asked by November 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-31 06:14:34 · 5 answers · asked by MICKEY M 3 in Singles & Dating

What I mean is, when I'm around or talking to a guy, can he sense i have a crush on him? How?

2006-10-31 06:14:18 · 11 answers · asked by PrincessButtercup 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend named Jenny. There's this gossip website about the people in our class. Jenny thinks that I wrote the website when, in truth, I really didn't! What should I do? I'm talking to her right now...

2006-10-31 06:14:01 · 15 answers · asked by Abby 2 in Friends

So thats the jest of it I asked her out last year and she was in the process of finishing up a divorce. It scared her off to say the least. We talked about it after a week or so and she told me she needed time to find herself again, which i completely understand coming from the situation she did.

Shes shown interest in little ways and our other friends see it. she stares at me alot, she comes visits me at work. brightens up when we bump into each other whereever, random touches. I know that she is comfortable around me and I feel that she does like me at least a bit. Shes a little shy too so its not like this is stuff that happens with everyone around her.

When we hang out at parties, group functions or if we bump into each other at the bar or whatever we spent the rest of the night hangin out with each other and not with our groups that we came with.

So heres how it is. How do I go about asking her to hang out as just us without making it sound like its a date??? TY

2006-10-31 06:13:58 · 2 answers · asked by lovelornlarry 3 in Singles & Dating