He is very cute, but couldn't tell a girl that was interested in him from a drag queen(who are actually very cool people). He doesn't know I like him. What do I do?
2006-10-31 06:20:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am guessing that you and he ask each other out all the time to do things as you call him bestfreind. What I think you might be asking is really. "How do I broach the fact that I like him enough to try seeing if we work together?" As his bestfreind you already have a bond that has grown beween you. What you need to do is look at the things that have passed between you. Do you get the feeling that he likes you above freinds also. This is easier than it sounds just be honest with yourself and you know already if asking him out is something that has a chance or he will freak out about it. I like the whole being very silly about feelings and telling someone I like about it. I had a freind we weren't best friends but we were good friends. When I thought about asking her out I brought it up like a silly little boy, " So there is this girl I like and I haven't told her,see and I just don't know." And did all the silly gestures you would do if yyou were 14 (I'm 40), and she got the hint and said that was a real good way to bring it up, as if she had an easy out and no feelings would be hurt if she choose to not to thnik about our relationship that way. We kinda dated for a year but we are still good freinds that can go for a soda. Nobody hurts nobody cries. But look inside yourself and I think you know if it is a good move with a outcome everyone would like, or something that is better left in your head.
2006-10-31 06:43:40 · answer #1 · answered by Casca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing you already hang out together and go places. I think the best way would be to have a talk with him and see if he wants the relationship to go further. Just beware, for many people this is a one way street. Once you cross the line, you can't go back.
2006-10-31 14:24:20 · answer #2 · answered by iknownothing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's a geek, then just tell him that he is your Bitc*, end of story.
JK
You just have to flirt.
No matter how geeky, he will eventually pick up on it.
If that doesn't work then get a little grabby with him.
He will love it!
2006-10-31 14:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by LordzAbove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I asked a guy like that out in a coded message, he enjoyed the message and we went out. The relationship didn't go anywhere though.
2006-10-31 14:23:55 · answer #4 · answered by perfectlypreppy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
take him 2 where a beautiful gurl falls 4 a geek and kinda hint aqbout it afterward 2until he knows
2006-10-31 14:25:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a hug look deep into his eyes and kiss him or if ur not that forward just get into a conversation about relationships and stuff and lead into telling him
2006-10-31 14:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Wills 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ASK him out! TELL HIM THAT HE'S GOING OUT WITH YOU!!! It will scare the crap out of him, but he'll probably love the feeling of breaking out of a shell!
2006-10-31 14:24:41 · answer #7 · answered by ka250 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him and or ask him out....tell him a scenario that u are this "girl" and he is htis "boy" and describe ur situation see what he says
2006-10-31 14:23:07 · answer #8 · answered by ali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HIM WHAT HE THINKS OF YOU
AND THEN SAY ''HEY I'M GOING TO THIS THING SATURDAY WANNA COME''...
2006-10-31 14:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sandy Shamina Hercules 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋