There's something my man does that I'm having a hard time accepting. I don't want to go into detail but it's nothing like leaving his clothes laying around the house or anything like that. It's something that really hurts my feelings. So how do you accept something you just don't like?
2006-10-31 06:14:51 · 8 answers · asked by November 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You dont HAVE to accept it. That is your choice. You need to talk to him about it and say "hey, i don't want to start an argument, but when you do this* it really hurts my feelings so I was hoping you could tell me why you do it or what you mean by it." Maybe if you understand HIS point of view it'll be more positive OR if he knows how you feel then he'll stop. But men can't read your minds, trust me I've dealt with too many lol. So talk to him openly and don't argue. If you two cant openly talk about anything then you aren't having a good relationship anyway.
2006-10-31 06:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by curiousone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask him to change. If not, what he does is going to burn you up, and eventually you will end up disliking him because of it. You don't want to despise him later on down the road, so let him know now. You cannot look past something that is hurting your feelings. He might not even know what he is doing, in that case, it should be solved easily. You sound like you really care about him, so I'm sure talking to him and just mentioning it is the best solution. Good luck.
2006-10-31 14:19:51 · answer #2 · answered by Heather M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it a matter of something you will and can accept or do you plan on changing something about yourself to put up with it?
Sure, you're going to encounter issues with a significant other we may find difficult, but we can let it roll of our sleeves, but if it's something unacceptable and he is not willing to try and change.... Where's the relationship?
If he is willing to work on it, I would be his right arm. If not, I have two legs.
2006-10-31 14:58:57 · answer #3 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really too vague to comment on. I don't like cheating and I don't accept it. I don't like walnut shells on the counter but I just wipe them off. There are some things I will not accept. Neither should you. Pain is one of them.
2006-10-31 14:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to him about it. Sometimes you can't accept some things.
2006-10-31 14:17:13 · answer #5 · answered by divalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he is doing. Some thinge can't be gotten over and some things can. Sorry, but we need more information.
2006-10-31 14:18:54 · answer #6 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yaa we HAVE to accept it...
Because both of us are different human with different mentality and personality...
Even my bf n my thinking differ...habits differ...
But we have to accept it...
2006-10-31 14:20:10 · answer #7 · answered by Sakina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its just something you either will or won't accept!!!
2006-10-31 14:17:37 · answer #8 · answered by mustanglady 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋