i messed up bad. i didnt know where me and this guy stood cuz he never would tell me, he told me we were freinds only. so i went out with a freind and i did something i shouldnt have and he found out and now he says he cant trust me i understand that 100% but i am head over heels for him. how can i show him that he is all i think about?
2006-10-31 06:19:24 · 16 answers · asked by emt_907 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What did you do to mess up anyways.....
But honestly dont sweat this he just wanted to be friends with you anyways so he was pretty much telling you that you and him werent going to be anything but friends. By convincing him to trust you isnt going to change that I think this guy is just playing really hard to get so dont get caught up in his game turn it around on him and move on you'll see sooner or later he'll come wanting you back.
2006-10-31 06:28:14 · answer #1 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let him flip the situation. If he gave you no indication he wanted a serious relationship, you did nothing wrong by exploring your other options. Also, if he is truly your friend he will value the friendship above his hurt feelings. Any man that really wants to be with you, will show you and tell you. If you really want to be with him, try to be his friend and rebuild the trust.
2006-10-31 15:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Bella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like he doesn't want to be committed to you but he wants you to be committed to him. If he said that you were just friends than thats all you were when you went out and did whatever you did. Maybe you should think about it alittle do you really want to get involved with a guy who wants a one way relationship.
2006-10-31 14:23:17 · answer #3 · answered by stephanieblue43 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy already told you that you were friends only, that tells me, he just thinks of you as a friend, but seeing as you did something he didn't approve of, you are no longer his friend? You had no intimate ties to him, so why does he think that way?Forget about him! Is he so perfect?
2006-10-31 14:25:13 · answer #4 · answered by Gerry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck.. the man of are dreams well from my experience they sit on the side lines say this and that... wait for results.. but never give u anything to go on..u have absolutely nothing to feel guity about... he wasnt commiting to u anyway...tell him u sorry and if u feel like holding your breath for the next freaking year ..keep waiting..
2006-10-31 14:30:41 · answer #5 · answered by dreamy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya'll weren't "together" so what does it matter. If he got mad cause you went out and had some "fun" with your other friends, AFTER he had said you guys were just friends, he needs to get over it.
If your just friends he can't control what you do!
2006-10-31 14:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start out by being friends with him again. Let him know that you are sorry. Let him know that you will do nothing to hurt him. Let him know that you are truly in love with him and you just want another chance.
2006-10-31 14:26:09 · answer #7 · answered by willie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do things around him that would mack him be attracted, or be supper nice, or send a love note, or tel him how you feel, or just remain a friend and waight for him to fall in love with you, and if he likes a nother girl, or she likes him than mess um up. just be alert.
2006-10-31 14:23:06 · answer #8 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
basically u need to win him back with trust and u can do that by spending most of ur time with him and ummmmmm be up front with him about how u feel and talk about things.
2006-10-31 14:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by gurl_balla14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell the guy how you feel. If he don't want you then he wasn't the man of your dreams.
2006-10-31 14:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by nfld_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋