I know this is kinda silly but I recently saw photos of all of my bf's ex's. One was average looking, maybe a 7 (on a scale 1-10), the other two I would say were like 4-5's, and one of them was like a 2, and I am being nice about that. Then I remember the one who I rated as a 2, was the same girl my bf says he was the most attracted to. So Im thinking, first, I must be ugly (although no one has ever said that to me) and second what the f was he thinking?
2006-10-31 06:15:26 · 11 answers · asked by HlpMePlz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont mean to sound mean, the "2" cheated on him so its not like she was ms. perfect..I was just wondering if most guys date girls that would be similiar numbers on the "scale"
2006-10-31 06:22:23 · update #1
When you're at a restaurant, you open the menu and see a picture of an entree and think.... ohhh I'll have that! Then when you get a taste of it, it just wasn't as quite as good as it looked! (we have all encountered that)
It goes back to the saying, "don't judge a book by its cover!"
Honestly, it's not looks that ever held a relationship together?
~ Don't Be So Vain ~
2006-10-31 06:35:00 · answer #1 · answered by MsElainious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are putting way, way, way too much thought into this. Get those thoughts out of your head.
Think of it instead in this way:
It took him going out with all those girls to find someone like you who's truly attractive.
See? Sounds much better. ;)
2006-10-31 06:19:46 · answer #2 · answered by Craig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I know exactly what your saying. My bf's ex's are the same way.
Makes you think your not pretty. But YOU ARE! YOUR THE BEST LOOKING ONE YET!
:) cause your a number one hottie!
2006-10-31 06:19:39 · answer #3 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he was more interested in compatibility and personality then how they looked in a swimsuit. Beauty fades. Do you feel threatened by his past loves?
2006-10-31 06:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by dantheman_028 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mean you're ugly it means your boyfriend "identified himself with the ugly ex" which I find dumb by the way. And why the hell does your boyfriend have such ugly ex? what an awful taste or maybe he can't ge any better.
2006-10-31 06:18:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I guess he likes ugly women , some men like 250 lb. women. Ask him if he likes ugly women , if he says yes, ask well, what the hell are you doing messing with me.
2006-10-31 06:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy that he got all his practice out of the way with them instead of with you. you should be asking yourself if he is any good in bed and how can you assist him in getting better in that dept. also, does he treat you like you want to be treated without you having to ask him?
2006-10-31 06:19:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it just means you have found a good guy who Isn't as superficial as you are. He cares more for what is inside. you should learn from him
2006-10-31 06:19:59 · answer #8 · answered by Beeper 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, he could simply just have liked her for other reasons, and not only for her looks.
2006-10-31 06:19:52 · answer #9 · answered by Angela B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know how shallow you are? I don't have to see you to know that you're ugly just by what you wrote...
2006-10-31 06:18:24 · answer #10 · answered by sjrae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋