okay i have an now ex girlfriend we just broke up but she still wants to be friends and take it slow before we have a chance to get back together, I mean we talked about having kids and getting married, i was the first guy she ever gave oral sex to and we were together for 2 years but i had problems and she had problems.And my problem was my anger and her problem was being irresponsible and not wanting to work. But we have been broken up for a couple of months and sense then i have gone to anger managerment and read books about anger and she have become more resposible and gotten a job. I mean i see a change in her and i feel like i have changed. We both tell each other i love u all the time and we still hang out a lot and go to the movies and mall together. Should i just keep hanging with her and better our friendship before we go out again. I mean is starting over as friends a good stragedy to make a relationship work a second time around.
2006-10-31 06:21:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be friends with her for now
2006-10-31 06:23:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ABSOLUTLY keep the friendship building, and keep going to anger management classes, not just for her but for you and any further relationships that you may have if this one does not work out. I mean being best of friends first is always the ground work for a great relationship, keep the lines of communication open and if you are having a problem sit down and talk it out and see if you can come to a compromise. But you both need to learn to be friends first. I give you alot of credit for going to classes and trying to control your anger it takes a real man to do that and to take the firsts steps to understanding what one part of the problem is. Good for you
2006-10-31 06:37:25 · answer #2 · answered by melissa052572 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the status quo might be a good idea for now... Let the relationship take a natural course and if you guys are meant to be, things will work out. I would like to commend you for taking an anger management class and realizing that you are PART of the problem.
2006-10-31 06:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working it out is a good soulution it is always good to get to know each other better before ever going out...maybe u just need to be friends for a while til u guys work out ur differences and if that's working now then great sometimes people are better seperate then together...maybe u guys just need a break just keep doing what ur doing then try to get back together then if that doesn't work then it ain't meant to be...it happens so don worry so much...
2006-10-31 06:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea! It probably would have helped if you were friends the first time! Just take it slow and everything should work out the way it should! Good Luck!
2006-10-31 06:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by panda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she decided a boy named Janice was a little too much like a boy named Sue to be more than a friend.
2006-10-31 06:37:32 · answer #6 · answered by Grist 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-05 09:57:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From what I've read you still dating her. Telling you love each other. I hardly think you "Broke Up" I think you just haven't had oral sex from her in a while...
2006-10-31 06:27:20 · answer #8 · answered by Scott 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on your friendship for right now and then maybe in the future you will work things out with her.
2006-10-31 06:25:18 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your time it does not seem as if she is in a hurry to go any where. If she was I am sure you would of known by now. If she is though let her go.
2006-10-31 06:27:53 · answer #10 · answered by Nicks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right track to me too! Good Luck!
2006-10-31 06:26:10 · answer #11 · answered by angel2005_2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋