We went out for 5 years and a couple of days ago she dumped me for my own father! She was cheating on me with him. It breaks my heart that she would do something like this to me. I love her very much and I can't live without her and I really feel like a shithead right now. What can I do to make me feel better?
2006-10-31 05:47:44 · 29 answers · asked by Suave Latino 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow... I can't believe your own father betrayed you as well as your ex-gf...
You probably shouldn't be near both of them and take time on your own to calm down and soul search.
You'll need a lot of time to heal bro...
2006-10-31 05:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by JenGen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's good that your talking about this. 5 years is a long time and feelings just don't go away over night. time is all you got right now in time you will be able to go on. for her and your father to do such an act like this is wrong. what kind of father do u have? and the love u have for this girl will go away. it don't seem like it right now but it will in time.soon u will date. and the sad part of somewhere down deep inside u won't every trust your father. the next girl u get don't blame her and treat her bad. but u will go through it. i hope this x girl and your father not being together in front of u. if so try to look the other way. trust me they will get want is coming to them and it won't be good. please don't take her back. she cause enough trouble in your life and your familys.
2006-10-31 06:08:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I know you have got to be hurting! That is so selfish! You should not have to worry about your father sleeping with your father. Even if your girlfriend she seduced him, as your father he should have not let it go that far!I know this may be hard, but you have to break ties with your father and your ex girlfriend. Obviously, they are bringing negativity in your life, sometimes we have to weed out those people who do not have our best interest at heart. I know you love her, it's apparent that she does not love you the way you love her. You can do without her she does not deserve you or your love. The ultimate pay back is forgiveness. Forgive them and tell them if they want to be together then do so, and that you love them anyway but you just can't continue to be involved with either of them!
2006-10-31 06:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by rain_stars_clouds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A. Divorce your girlfriend..and your father (Bad News)
Take a paper and write down every person that has hurt you.
then tear the paper up in shreds and burn it and poof blow th ashes away from you into thin air.
Now asked for the woman that you want not need but want.
Be generous in your asking. Hair, size, color, heights, character, age,etc.
Then i want you to close your eyes and visualize yourself kissing this special woman.
Then I want you to let it go and go find something else to do but know that you must give gratitude what you have now. Health and a very big heart.
Write me when you get your special girl..Remeber God does not make junk.
2006-10-31 05:54:42 · answer #4 · answered by Sports Maven 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father did a terrrible thing. For him to take someone you love, and not even care what it has done to you is unreal. Apparently he doesn't care for anyone but himself. He has ruined any trust and probably any relationship you had with him..
and as far as your girlfreind, she is just as low. She didn't care how much she hurt you, how dare she! I would leave them both and start over. I know your hurting right now, but that would be the best thing to do. You deserve better.
2006-10-31 06:01:44 · answer #5 · answered by puddy_cat05 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father sucks big time. He should explaining to you what the hell is going on. He's the adult in the family and should be setting a good example to you. Not the other way around. I don;t know what your best option is other than to thrash it out with your dad. (verbally). ther eis no way you can allow this to continue. Tell him he has gotta stop seeing your ex. In addition, I would forget about her too she is totally not worth it.
2006-10-31 05:51:45 · answer #6 · answered by Wibble 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Damn man, you have a hard life. I thought this only happened on TV. I think it shouldnt get farther with your father, becaus you wouldnt want her as your mom! But forget her, find another woman man! She sounds like a B****, atleast a little. Usually after a 5 year relationship, people wouldnt do that!
2006-10-31 05:51:53 · answer #7 · answered by J&B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that the best thing you can do is get over her. Honestly, someone who is dumb enough to leave you for your FATHER?!
Blasphemy I tell you, completely not even worth your time.
I hope your heart heals fast, I'm sure you'll find a better girl just around the corner.
2006-10-31 05:51:08 · answer #8 · answered by Leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:57:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man, the real problem here is your father......how can HE do that to you....what a scumbag. You need to walk away from them both and move on with your life, there is definitely something better out there for you my friend.
2006-10-31 05:52:02 · answer #10 · answered by Scotty 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋