2006-10-31 05:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by joblo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be yourself
2006-10-31 05:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by q6656303 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Go places. Normal places like stores, malls, arcades, theaters.
2. Talk to chicks. Not like you're trying to get laid, but like you want to TALK. It's an important part, because this makes you realize that chicks are just normal people, too. While you're at it, practice making *nothing* but eye contact. If a girl doesn't look your way, don't sweat it. Plenty of them won't. Also, don't BREAK eye contact until she or an obstacle does.
3. Learn to be teasy/flirtacious. Be so confident that you're cocky. Be a little bit mean, in a teasy, you-can-tell-I'm-kidding way, or master the art of the "back-handed compliment" ("I like your shoes... are they new?" or "Nice hair. Did that take a whole week?"). And be more FUNNY than either of those.
4. Go out with a few. Be honest, that you're testing waters; don't let one "push you" into acting like an engaged steady couple by the second date. Don't expect it all to go smoothly, and don't time people "to the minute", give a good 20-minute "window", and a *specific* point in a place to meet. And concentrate entirely on having FUN.
5. Expect crap to go wrong. There's girls out there that don't really want to meet anyone. There's girls out there that are already seeing someone they're happy with. There's girls out there that act like bitches JUST to hurt guys. And there's STILL MORE girls out there, that are open and looking - and every bit as nervous about it as you are.
6. Let nature take it's course. Don't ever be in a hurry, and you'll be there before you realize it. Try for it overnight, and you'll NEVER get off the ground.
7. Don't kiss and tell. Being honest about seeing someone is WAY different than graphically bragging about it. Meanwhile, if your girlfriends DO kiss and tell, expect them to want to introduce you, and expect almost all of their friends to want you, too.
8. Do the tango. Tease a girl to the point where you're trying to get *her* to start the sex. It's okay to be horny about a girl as long as she's MORE horny about you. Play that up awhile, and once you're comfortable with one-another, *don't* (always) wait for her to make a move. Make it yourself... just a simple, first move. As easy as pulling her around a corner. Then see #6 again.
2006-10-31 05:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by baconman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes? Why would it be easier for you to look for a girl on web sites, as opposed to in person? Are you shy and insecure? I am not criticizing you, but it seems, to me (only me), that you may have these issues. You should, maybe, get involved in school groups, activities, etc.
Good luck. Meeting people on the sites is very, oh I don't know how to exactly word it, but, it's NOT REAL.
2006-10-31 05:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In College you can just try to find a place where Girls can see u.....i think its the best way to get this......hope it wil b the answer
2006-10-31 05:27:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hit on the pretty ones
2006-10-31 05:25:38 · answer #5 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, I feel your pain
2006-10-31 05:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by MoooDude 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look for one
2006-10-31 05:26:05 · answer #7 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋