i'm in love with my long-distance boyfriend we have had this relationship for a few years now, we met before and spent time together, but live in diffrent places, recently he asked me if i would consider marrying him and i told him yes, but a couple weeks ago i started getting closer to someone i have been friends with for some time and this happened because my long-distance boyfriend cheated and confessed so i felt betrayed, was pissed because i had never had sex with anyone the whole time we were involved,
anyway me and this guy have been friends for a few years, and we started getting closer and eventually ended up in bed, it was not planned but it happened so quickly, i am wondering if i would be wrong to continue a romantic relationship with this friend or have sex with him again cuz it was great
i love my long-distance boyfriend very much, but cannot be sure if he is cheating again or not and and i don't want to be a fool
2006-10-31 04:58:24 · 11 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for the sex and maybe it will lead to more, if the boy freind cheated once he will do it again, and you cheated too
2006-10-31 05:04:05 · answer #1 · answered by manfromblueriver 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been in a long distance thing before, she cheated on me too and confessed right away.
I SHOULD have ended it right then and there, but we continued, we actually ended up moving in together and fought ALL THE TIME. Yes, it was a good learning experience, but I'm saying it's probably a really bad omen he did that.
I'd say make the decision that will let you sleep better...
2006-10-31 05:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by Js_5 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to marry someone who would cheat on you? And if you would marry him would you have to move and leave your family and friends, or would he come here. I say you should break up with the long distance guy and enjoy your friend who is here.
2006-10-31 05:03:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget your long distance relationship, those never work, and start a new one with this friend of yours. You will be happier when the man you're with is near by!
2006-10-31 05:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by wantstoknow 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well long distance relationships never go to well and u just might want to assume that he is cheating on u b/c u can't know for sure. so u might want to start a new one with some one that u can talk to face to face.
2006-10-31 05:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by ☠Rockerchick☠ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like neither one of you really want to be in a long distance relationship...ya'll are cheating on each other. start a new relationship with your friend.
2006-10-31 05:01:30 · answer #6 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you've answered your own question. i think you know what you need to do. long distance relationships never work. you need emotions and satisfaction that are close by, not pining for it while this other guy's porkin' other women.
drop the dead weight. seems like you're both dead weight to each other...i mean, sure you care about each other, but let's be pragmatic here....MOVE ON.
2006-10-31 05:04:51 · answer #7 · answered by shortbus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all comes down to trust. How many times did he cheat,,etc..,. You might give him a last chance, who knows It might be better than the last time you were together.
2006-10-31 05:05:02 · answer #8 · answered by Blackjack 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start a new one
2006-10-31 05:01:02 · answer #9 · answered by tanky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you think he is cheating, drop him.
2006-10-31 05:01:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋