what is it that first attracts you to a guy. what is it that iniatilaly draws you into to a guy without talking to them or knowing them.
pls could girls/women around the age of 20 answer
2006-10-31 05:01:39 · 19 answers · asked by blu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you dnt have to be exactly 20 plus or minus a couple of years..........
just need answers from ppl aorund my age
2006-10-31 05:32:03 · update #1
younger than 20 is fine . nofink younger than 16
2006-10-31 05:41:58 · update #2
I'm 17 so I hope that's okay. I am always attracted to their eyes, as cliche as it sounds. Then I look at their lips, if I'm going to be kissing them, they have to have nice lips. Then, I look in their eyes again to try to see the kind of person they are. Then, I start talking.
2006-10-31 05:04:21 · answer #1 · answered by snowbaby 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i think its their smell if they are wearing a nice perfume then it does attract you, but facial expressions tell a lot too. personally i love 212, i know i have been told its a gay mans perfume, but that was the first thing i smelt on my husband and whenever someone else is wearing it, it is instantly recognisable to me, cant believe my brain still remembers that same smell after 4 years!
talking to a guy and knowing them first has to be the deciding factor in choosing a man, i mean it would b a bit shallow if every girl chose a guy 4 his perfume choices huh!
2006-10-31 05:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by katie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 21 btw...overall physical appearance...dress, mannerisms in the approach, confidence or lack there of, hair style, smile, eyes, lips, body, all that....and if the conversation or "pick up" line doesnt match or something isnt quite right, its a wrap....but be sure that's just as right with how ur looking and all that...gotta look good from the inside out....
2006-10-31 05:08:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His Eyes and I guess the rest of his body, usually you can look at them and know if they are active guys or not! Also they way they are talking to people, sometimes you can tell if they are just the laid back kind or the uptight kind.
2006-10-31 05:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by Tommy's_Sweet_Girl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 19 and its the following: his smile and his eyes. Also, if he looks like he's having fun, laughing and with a ton of friends etc.
2006-10-31 05:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by hannahrarian 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the first things i look at when i meet someone are..his face, is he attractive? the bulge in his pants, underwear or the real thing? and i tend to like stockier men so i look at their bodies. if initially these three things are intact, then i could be really easy to get along with. :P
2006-10-31 05:28:25 · answer #6 · answered by sapphiredreams_69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
swagger. A black man with a confident swagger and knows he is the s*h*i*t is attractive, but he is also cool as hell. Thats what I notice when I am across the street and he just catches my eye, its always swagger.
Now, when we talk and he sounds dumb as hell, i just keep on moving and look at myself like...what the hell was I thinking???He gotta have a swagger and be intelligent to get my full attention.
oh, im 19
2006-10-31 05:05:24 · answer #7 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Eyes
Bum
Conversation/intelligence
Height
Smell
Cleanliness
I'm 25 btw
HTH
2006-10-31 05:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eyes
Body language
Posture
Cleanliness
The way he dresses
The way he act around with his friends, or people
Politness
2006-10-31 05:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Baby Girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
his smile and laugh are usually what do it for me! if he can make me laugh then that's brilliant :) i'm not one to fall for someone solely based on looks... altho i like clean shoes and broad shoulders!!!
2006-10-31 05:54:53 · answer #10 · answered by amzydoodles 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋