Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

"Grab your coat love, you've pulled" has always been one of my favourites but I have never been brave enough to use it

2006-10-30 01:51:01 · 16 answers · asked by poguig 1 in Singles & Dating

i started dating this guy and then after like 16 days he broke up with me and then 3 days later he went out with another girl that had the same name as me and then after a week he broke up with her and started dating me, the next day he broke up with me saying he didnt need a gf right now which is what he said when he broke up with me the first time. is there somethin wrong with me or is it just him?

2006-10-30 01:50:39 · 12 answers · asked by Fire 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 4 yrs now. We live together, have a life together, and my son who's 5 has no memory of life without him. We've had problems, but who hasn't? After a stress filled week, I find out 3 days ago that I'm pregnant. We've talked about it so often for the past year that I'm sure he'll be thrilled. Not only is he NOT thrilled, he'd like for us not to keep it. He cites every cliche reason in the book, ranging from us "argueing a lot lately", to the "timing being off" (he just started a new job). I'm 28 yrs old. He knows (& agrees) that I want to have one more baby before 30. For the first time in our relationship, he actually mentioned the possibility of us not staying together; "What if we break up? I wouldn't want you to be a single mom with 2 kids". I have NEVER heard him say anything of the sort before, & if anything, has always been the confident, optimistic one. Does this mean he's never been serious? Am I missing something... a hint? What do you think?

2006-10-30 01:50:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance has 6 groomsmen, there is no questioning or changing that, I have 1 MOH, and have asked 2 BM's so far, I also want to ask my 3 cousins (ages 32-38), their daughters are very close to me, and they are at a weird age, 8 yrs. old, too old to be flower girls, so I was going to have them be junior BM's, but that becomes too many. Help!!!!!! Should I ask my three cousins to be BM's or have their daughters be junior BM's (there are 2 of them).

2006-10-30 01:49:30 · 10 answers · asked by lunastar002 1 in Weddings

ok I like this girl that likes me any i also like another girl and every time i talk to one of them I like tha one im talkin to betta but idk who i should go wit and its freakin confusing? help me out!

2006-10-30 01:49:15 · 9 answers · asked by kraziiwhiteboy04 1 in Singles & Dating

I love to write poems, but am not sure if the response is genuine or just pumping my ego........If a guy writes you a love poem(and I dont write the all rhyming dr.suess type) do you think its nice, sexy, what ?????????????

No gf right now, so I am speaking about the past

2006-10-30 01:48:33 · 22 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and are married for 5 years, she is 26 and I am 47. I loved her a lot but our relationships didn't work out and I fell out of love with her. I provided her with everything up until now amazing lifestyle, she doesn't know what it means to work or make money and is fully dependant on me. In return she always took it all for often rejected me, called me old and bold etc.
Recently I meat amazing girl , loving caring and beautiful and I fell in love.She is 22, from Russia. She wants to marry me and have twp children.I introduced the girl to the wife and explained that this is serios. She didn't take it easily, she started crying and said she doesn't want a divorce.
I would like her to stay living with me in our family residence for the time being and not to disrupt our son's life. I said she is free to date other people. However yesterday I found out she is talking to the lawyer.
Let her take me to court? If yes, how can I ensure that I have the custody of our son?

2006-10-30 01:48:02 · 73 answers · asked by margusenok 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 01:47:43 · 14 answers · asked by intan86 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 01:47:16 · 4 answers · asked by Kristen P 2 in Singles & Dating

My friend, yes it is really my friend, has been dating this guy for 2 years. When she first met him he told her that he and his ex-girlfriend still live together, because of the child they have together. He claims that he sleeps in the basement, and she sleep upstairs. She was fine with it until she fall in love with him. She asked him to leave but he says he need a little more time. Do you really think that he sleeps in the basement? What do you think she should do! Help this girl, cuz I don't know what to do?

2006-10-30 01:47:16 · 11 answers · asked by Sacha 2 in Singles & Dating

Rember the guy im into, well yea now that he knows that i like him he stares at me even more. also his boys are talking to me and i never even spoken to them before. why doesn't he just ask me already?

2006-10-30 01:46:36 · 5 answers · asked by Ieysha G 2 in Singles & Dating

had a date last night, and the last thing he said was i'll ring you. what do we reckon?

2006-10-30 01:46:34 · 34 answers · asked by redsticks34 3 in Singles & Dating

am married and everything i do seems to be wrong. if i go to visit my friends, he gets upset, if i stay home on my off days from work, he comes home and says i have done nothing all day and that i should not be getting off from work. if i go anywere or do something without telling him he makes it an issue. pliz help what mus i do?

2006-10-30 01:44:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had few genuine contacts and a lot of Nigerion 419 scammers or similar

2006-10-30 01:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was going around with a girl and i fell for her friend.. well actually her best friend..and we made out acouple of times too.... but my girlfriend got to know....and broke up with me.. now my gf is her x best friend the one i made out with... but i still love my x.. she has a new guy and i know she loves him alot and so does he.. but i am jealous and i feel that she should love me..
how do i tell her that.. i dont want her to be any one..

2006-10-30 01:43:01 · 18 answers · asked by huh... haha 1 in Singles & Dating

Well so far is thas been 2 days since i have seen my sister. She left me to go to Tennesse. When i was younger i could have left her but no i did not want to leave with out my sister. so i stay. I was beaten and hit amany time but i stayed because of her. But now she has left me. So as of 48 hours ago i do not have a sister. She is considered nothing to me.

2006-10-30 01:42:37 · 18 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family

My parents divorced when i was only 2 years old,i never reli thought about it but i was left wif my father,2 sisters n my brother,things got out of hand,my 46 year old father dated a 21 year old girl named Sherry n she now lives wif me..she takes all the attention away from me..my father doesn't talk 2 me now n both of us r like strangers..,my mom seems 2 hate me very much..and dislikes me in a very strong way,she tends 2 quarel wif me everytime i c her,i smtimes feel depressed..am i right 2 b angry wif my parents?

2006-10-30 01:40:36 · 20 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family

I have had this friends for some time now. Things started out great...we had a lot common. Now, she constantly brags about how many people she knows, has met, what she is doing for them...etc..It gets so old. She makes me feel inferior for not being as "social". I don't care what she does, but it is the fact that most of her conversation revolves around how social she is. Should I continue to hang around her and ignore these comments, or should I go my own way? She makes me feel like I am back in middle school.

2006-10-30 01:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by cathy b 1 in Friends

so my b/f childhood friend is gettin kicked out of their house by wedsnday,, with no money and no where to go also bringing a dog and a gurlfriend and her 2 crazy-phsyco kids, and he wants to move them in our little 2 bedroom home, they like to party live like pigs smoke in the house and drink everyday, no way and my b/f says im being stuck up?? and i need to be nice for once and help them!!!

2006-10-30 01:40:13 · 4 answers · asked by RACHEL M 1 in Family

shes a devil i mean tell me what you think of this , we got this big gift (something hung on the wall) and the next day i started to tear the paper it was coverd with then my mom suddnly shouts at me and says what are you doing are you stupid??why did u unwrap that are you stupid what if i were to give it to someone else?! all in shock i said im not stupid she said YES U ARE so i run out of the room and she folows me and i shout at her and slam the door she was still telling me reasons i shouldnt have unwrapped that in LOUd WORDS i mean that was in the presance of my grandmother i mean shes a devil womaann!! i hate her, why did she do that im 14 years old im not stupid i made a mistake ,,you tell me what kind of mother is that?? do all mothers act like that or is mine just crazy, i mean she made me cry , and called me stupid

2006-10-30 01:39:26 · 13 answers · asked by Nonza 2 in Family

Ok so here is the scenario. A guy I had been seeing for a few months and was claiming that he wanted me in his life but wasn't ready to define it and be in a committed relationship started seeing someone else. I told him that I couldn't handle that and would walk if need be. He kept seeing her for a month but then one of them decided to just be friends. They work together so need to see each other daily and have a lot in common as it relates to work. They have stayed in touch and continue talking on a regular basis. I have caught him lying about her but he says they are just friends and nothing is going on. She has also confirmed this and claims to be seeing someone else. Knowing about me she continues the communication with him. I recently saw a bill with many calls back and forth. He says that it took him awhile to get "there" with me but he is there and wants a future with me. He has been honest about some of the communication with her just not all. What's up?

2006-10-30 01:38:56 · 7 answers · asked by Hopey 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, me & my friend-with-benefits stopped sleeping together a few months ago because I started to have feelings and the timing was wrong because he still has feelings for his ex.

I am very open & upfront and I emailed him yesterday and told him that I am dating someone new. He knew I was talking to this guy anyway, so I doubt he is suprised.

I said "I know you could careless, but I wanted you to know anyway. I am not trying to make you jealous or piss you off. What would be the point in that? I know how you feel. He doesn't know about anything regarding...us. And I'd rather keep it that way. He does know that we are friends though. He & I aren't exclusive. Which means that you can still flirt with me, if you want."

He never replied. So, does this mean that he is cool with it? Is he pissed at me? I know I shouldn't care, but I don't know if he is mad or not. I feel like if I call or ask him what he thinks, it will be pushy.

Anyone have any thoughts?

2006-10-30 01:38:08 · 13 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Singles & Dating

please give honest opinons and don't write me off cos i know i might sound jealous and petty. my boyfriend is moving in with his best female friend just him and her who he fancied when he first met her. she is renound for sleeping around and has no scruples for going after men in relationships in fact it gives her a buzz to do that. she isn't very pretty so it's not like i think she's a real threat cos she's a real stunner and he doesn't fancy her now and nothing has ever happened between them and they have been friends for 2 years. he knows i don't like her and don't like the way she behaves. don't get me wrong i have loads of close girlfriends and usually i'm a real girls girl.

basically can someone tell me i'm not being ridiculous cos he says i am but can he love me that much if he moves in with her when he knows it makes me feel prickly and is it understandable i feel jealous and weird about it cos whether it's right or wrong i just do!!!

elp!

2006-10-30 01:38:01 · 34 answers · asked by fionazzz 2 in Singles & Dating

I was born at 1726hrs, my weight was 9lbs 8oz, and I was 21 inches long.

2006-10-30 01:37:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my boyfriend's sister-in-law wants nothing to do with me.She thinks I've hurt him,I've changed him,and that I took him away from himself.I tried to resolve the conflict directly by calling.She said "Too Late and don't ever call here again","I never want to see you","You are no good for him."She called me names like psychotic.She said I suffer from some mental psychoses.My boyfriend's brother (her husband) got on the phone with me.He started listening to me and understood my side.All she did was yell at him to hang up.My boyfriends mother and father get along with me just fine.My boyfriend has lied to me on multiple occasions.He proposed to me and then told me it was premature.He was living with me and then moved out.Now he is back with me trying to make it work.I have forgiven him.My family accepts my decision.I went through a depression last year & a miscarriage recently.It has been tough on BOTH sides.I did nothing to HER.Should he defend me or allow me to be insulted and excluded?

2006-10-30 01:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by confused and hurt 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a lot of web cam friends and we all have good fun, but what have you got up to on webcam and what was the best fun?

If it is too rude to put here I still want to know, message or IM me.

2006-10-30 01:35:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

would it be ok for me to log on under my hubbys name and talk to his x gf and find out what's goin on? if u havent read my other question the reason is cause he after 9 years got a hold of his x and has been talkin to her fo r hours at a time, and closes the computer when I walk in the door, there's more but dont want to type it all twice!
But should I talk to her and pretend to be him? Or what? i dont care if he finds out, I just want her to thin it's him talkin and not me so it that a good idea?

2006-10-30 01:35:44 · 29 answers · asked by boobear 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Wow, why is everyone so agressive & easy to provoke on here, am only having a bit of fun
Plus, would like to point out that I am not married, nor am I "doing the dirty" on anyone, just chilling after a harsh weekend
Peace & love to all

2006-10-30 01:34:59 · 13 answers · asked by poguig 1 in Singles & Dating

please look up our first list of questions and give us your answers,, also why do so many married girls respond!! we are a couple of college guys writing a essay on the quirks of social sexual opinion! Tks from the whole crew!

2006-10-30 01:34:32 · 13 answers · asked by Bobby W 1 in Singles & Dating

i am close to my aunt. she got knocked down last year and as been depressed. her boyfriend works and she as three daughters two under 5. the problem is she always on the phone to me to go to her house and help watch kids and when i am there i do everything clean watch them

i never have time to go out and have to break my plans. i want to say no but dont want to hate her feelings what can i do she taking over

2006-10-30 01:32:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family