Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

Okay so my boyfriend told me on Saturday night that we were through. I was crushed about it.

Well I ended up going to a Halloween party and getting smashed. Then I woke up on Sunday and I was missing the hell out of him.

I called him...HE ANSWSERED, but he had said he wasnt going to answer and for me not to call him anymore. When we were on the phone, he was outside of church and sounded just as crushed about it as me. I got silent on the phone and he asked me what was wrong and I just fell out crying and said "I miss you" and then he got silent and I put the phone on hold to dry my eyes and he had hung up. Then I called back and he answsered and I asked what he had done Saturday night and I said nothing and then he asked me and I told him how I got drunk and he was like "thats stupid" and then I guess he got mad and said he had to go.

We talked Sunday night for about 3 hours and how he asked me to come to his job today and I will see him tonight. Is it really over?

2006-10-30 02:32:46 · 7 answers · asked by PrInCeSs P 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 02:32:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my Mr. Wonderful are incredibly happy together. He was married when he was 17 on spring break of his senior year as he had impregnated his now ex-wife. For 10 years he tried to make it work as she displayed no desire for a family and wound up in rehab for crack. From the whole mess came 2 amazingly wonderful children, a long awaited divorce, and now his second chance for true love with me. The kids adore me, we are all so happy, but there is his ex....acting like a 12 year old. She trash talks me to his oldest (9 yrold girl) and tells her she doesn't like me and that I should "go marry someone else and find a family of my own"... Okay... I understand she's upset. I am NOT trying to STEAL her children or replace her. I want to get along with her and be ADULTS for the sake of these amazing kids. She, however, seems to have an agenda of making us all miserable...even making her own kids miserable. What can be expected in situations like this? How do I handle her gracefully?

2006-10-30 02:32:35 · 22 answers · asked by Jennifer L 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Be honest................

2006-10-30 02:32:21 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-10-30 02:32:08 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when your dad hits you and put you agiant the wall..

yesterday that happened to me is it abusing your child?

2006-10-30 02:31:54 · 21 answers · asked by imsoCOOL_bejealous 2 in Family

My boyfriend and his best friend argue all the time and most of the time I think it i quite funny, and some of the time its about the stupidest s**t. Do you argue with your best friend and how often.

2006-10-30 02:31:37 · 7 answers · asked by the star fairy 2 in Friends

Come on share the experience or joke with me !!

2006-10-30 02:30:15 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For the past couple of months my husbands attitude towards me has been awful. (We are newly weds). He even shoved me out of our bedroom once when he was mad. I found out this past Friday that he has been on steroids for a little over a month. I asked if his attitude was due to the steroid use. He said, "No". I don't know if he says no so I won't make him stop taking them or if he's just being mean sometimes. Has anyone been in a relationship with someone on steroids? What was it like?

2006-10-30 02:29:45 · 5 answers · asked by Dsoftball 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

One time at this party my dad was talking to his friends, they were drinking. Me and my mom overheard my dad tell his friends that my mom liked to toss his salad. My mom got mad but I don't know why. I've seen her make him salads before and she tosses them, so why is she mad?

2006-10-30 02:27:57 · 6 answers · asked by Too Young To Know 1 in Family

I was playing with my friends. we were playing chains[it is a game in which we have to catch each other] Some boys were also playing with us.A boy put his hands around me and catch hold of me from my waist.Now please tell me that he did it by mistake or something else....

2006-10-30 02:27:29 · 2 answers · asked by Kanwal 2 in Friends

2006-10-30 02:27:10 · 16 answers · asked by SANAT 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 02:27:09 · 12 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 02:26:51 · 18 answers · asked by Miss Sunshine Angle 2 in Singles & Dating

would this be a bad move?

2006-10-30 02:26:42 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daughter & friends were very upset when they found the cut marks on her friend's arm...they went to a trusted teacher and are having a meeting with school counselor today...I am worried, but I don't want to make too big of a deal about it as it may upset mine more...any thoughts that can help?

2006-10-30 02:25:53 · 8 answers · asked by Barbiq 6 in Friends

I just read something, not a actual, fact that women would rather choose Height over Money in a man. Don't get mad at me, I'm just repeating.

Let me know.

2006-10-30 02:25:48 · 5 answers · asked by unlucky4utwo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 02:25:17 · 1 answers · asked by missy27 1 in Weddings

2006-10-30 02:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 02:24:43 · 4 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

and well he tryies to work things out but then the next day it looks like he don't even care about me what do i do i really do love him but i also think he has a g/f in this other lil town and i think i know who it might be too becuz when i go with my brother and his wife to party down there well he's like on the phone alot and he acts like he don't even know me but when were back home and we have a party he's like all over me and trys to beg me for chance again and i telll him no so what should i do i have friends telling me that if he ask for another chances that i should tell him YES and move in back with him and live with him for a while and then when i'm with him for a while like 2 or 3months tell him that i DON'T WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. so he could feel the way i felt and well i think i might do it. so ya'll help me out and tell me what i should do...

2006-10-30 02:24:00 · 10 answers · asked by Cindy M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ive been with alot of girls..and im sure most shave it, but prob some grow none at alll too...JUST a QUESTION...dont YELL AT ME...and try and be honest cuz i wanna know if making my girl get brazilian waxes is legitimate

2006-10-30 02:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by GREATANSWERONI2 2 in Singles & Dating

So I have met dumpllin online and I have fallen in love with her after just three short emails. Should I make her leave her husband for me?

2006-10-30 02:22:40 · 23 answers · asked by MrNiceGuy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is a Girl in here...on Yahoo Q & A. Who has no life...has no job...no education..lives on welfare. Hates Gay People.....because she secretly is one...and hasn't been able to come to terms with it. Insults other people in here.....if you make one single bad comment regarding her question/answer or advice to help her out. She is so dumb....because all her comments & personal insults against me & others are always about "being Gay"as it's the only word she seems to know in the whole English Language. Is it better to Ignore or Help her?

2006-10-30 02:22:27 · 16 answers · asked by Citizen 1 in Friends

New man in my life is very jealous. He has ranted so much to the point that I have stopped all my male friends from calling my house,even my best friend whom I had been intimately involved with before him. I know you're probably thinking they should stop calling because I now have a boyfriend ,but am I suppose to let him control who my friends are male or female?If someone male shows up at the house or we are out in public and some male I know approaches he's right there "with bells on". Just itching to know who they are.He never says anything he just stands back and I motion for him to join us so that I can introduce. Even though he just doesn't walk right up while we are talking he should and at least extrend his hand and say "Hi I'm Mike, Karen's boyfriend nice to meet you". He sleeps at my house every night. I think it's his way of keeping an eye on our relationship.I do love him but d@mn he's controling. The upside is he works,he's faithful I (think )and he has a big dick.

2006-10-30 02:21:26 · 22 answers · asked by heavenly28001 3 in Singles & Dating

I dated my highschool boyfriend, Jeff, for 5 years, from the age of 17 til 22. We broke up a few times during our relationship, but always got back together after a few weeks or months. The end of our relationship came when I found out he was cheating on me with his best friend's girlfriend. I broke up with him and walked away from the situation. He dated her and I began dating someone else. Eventually he came back, broke up with the other girl because he still was in love with me and wanted to marry me. I told him I didnt forgive him and couldnt do it. We didnt talk for another 6 months, and I broke up with my boyfriend for several reasons. I couldnt stop thinking about Jeff, and still cant. As soon as he found out I was single, he came back again, and told me he wanted to marry me. I once again told him I was still too hurt and couldnt do it. We have not talked for 2 months. I am dating someone else, but cant get over him. What do I do? Its been 2 years since we were together.

2006-10-30 02:21:18 · 7 answers · asked by Belize 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 02:20:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend had been away for a week. at first i thought he was mad at me, but thought nothing of it cuz i had other problems, my brother was in trouble and was feeling down..his girl friend was getting him in trouble..sooo after trying to clam him down over the net i went to bed and set my IM status as away and said jimmy i love you...just so my brother knows that im standing by his side...
so after a stressful night...i wake to see my bf has seen it and taken it all the wrong way...and now he wont talk to me and wont listen to my reasons for putting it there...i want to know did i really do anything wrong???

2006-10-30 02:19:52 · 18 answers · asked by angelofdeath 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend has told me that my close female friend believes that I’m dating another girl, who's quite a looker and that she’s happy for me! At the same time, she has been acting weird (feeling down,tired,can't approach other blokes) towards me, gone cold, not wanting to meet, not saying much, practically ignoring me!!!-didn't have argument/falling out. Its only with me,no one else. Is she feeling jealous? My behaviour towards her has not changed since I’ve ‘started dating’ this girl, only her’s towards me. A coincidence?

Does this show that she actually fancies/has feelings for me? If she’s happy for me, why is she ignoring me? Why has she not mentioned/spoken to me about this girl e.g. how’s it going, etc surely good friends would?

p.s. I’m not dating anyone, the looker is only a friend who I don’t fancy at all, have feelings for my close female friend.

What can I do? I don't want us to drift apart and don't want to lose her! Help...

2006-10-30 02:19:29 · 18 answers · asked by roadtripman90 1 in Friends

Can u chase a man away by being to nice and loving too hard? Or as they called it being too passive. Help am I doing something wrong?

2006-10-30 02:18:07 · 13 answers · asked by thickfudge 1 in Singles & Dating