How do I do this?

Question

Okay so my boyfriend told me on Saturday night that we were through. I was crushed about it.

Well I ended up going to a Halloween party and getting smashed. Then I woke up on Sunday and I was missing the hell out of him.

I called him...HE ANSWSERED, but he had said he wasnt going to answer and for me not to call him anymore. When we were on the phone, he was outside of church and sounded just as crushed about it as me. I got silent on the phone and he asked me what was wrong and I just fell out crying and said "I miss you" and then he got silent and I put the phone on hold to dry my eyes and he had hung up. Then I called back and he answsered and I asked what he had done Saturday night and I said nothing and then he asked me and I told him how I got drunk and he was like "thats stupid" and then I guess he got mad and said he had to go.

We talked Sunday night for about 3 hours and how he asked me to come to his job today and I will see him tonight. Is it really over?

Answer 1

It's over. He's trying to be polite about it, but you're done.

Answer 2

I would say that it's NOT over, however, you should find out what his intentions with you are. There is something going on that caused him to break up with you in the first place...see if you can find that out.

I don't recommend crowding him either...give him space and don't always be available when he wants you to be.

Good Luck!

Answer 3

it seems to me that he is trying to move on, however, he can't because you won't let him. if he liked the sex, he will have it with you and then he will remember why he broke up in the first place and it will continue to be on this viscious cycle until he finally gets fed up with the charade.

Answer 4

It is over. He might miss you like you miss him, but that doesn't mean you will get back together. Sometimes its not meant to be.

Answer 5

answering phone calls can tell you how a rrealationship will go

Answer 6

not yet

Answer 7

YEP !!!!!!!!!!