and well he tryies to work things out but then the next day it looks like he don't even care about me what do i do i really do love him but i also think he has a g/f in this other lil town and i think i know who it might be too becuz when i go with my brother and his wife to party down there well he's like on the phone alot and he acts like he don't even know me but when were back home and we have a party he's like all over me and trys to beg me for chance again and i telll him no so what should i do i have friends telling me that if he ask for another chances that i should tell him YES and move in back with him and live with him for a while and then when i'm with him for a while like 2 or 3months tell him that i DON'T WANT NOTHING TO DO WITH HIM. so he could feel the way i felt and well i think i might do it. so ya'll help me out and tell me what i should do...
2006-10-30 02:24:00 · 10 answers · asked by Cindy M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should do whatever you think is right. I am a firm believer that if you love the person, you dont treat them like ****. But that is just me.
2006-10-30 02:27:10 · answer #1 · answered by Saint 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart, it sounds really complicated and no one can tell you what you should do or not, besides we can tell you what we think you sould do but you'll in the long run do what you want anywats. I think you should start with being happy with yourself and do not play head games, what will be, will be! Relax and wait for the outcome to reveal itself but do not play second best, he either loves you he doesn't and you have questions about what he does when you are not around and you you questions with his indecisivness so why waste time he needs to be honest with you and you need to know where you stand and you need to be honest with yourself... If you know he can't be trusted and knows some itmes he doesn't want to be with you then why do you want to be with him. Maybe he has some mental or emotional issues but nothing will be resolved until you both are honest be mature and communicate about everything!!!! Not just bits and pieces. Be whole if that is what you two want if only one of you want to be partners then it is probably time to move on......
Good luck
2006-10-30 11:01:37 · answer #2 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends are young and stupid. We are talking about marriage not a boyfriend. It sounds that the two of you have set a bad tone for your marriage. I say end it now because its obvious that at least he is not mature enough to be a husband.
If you love him fine. Divorce and date each other. What I'm saying is this marriage of yours is not good. Maybe in a few years the two of you will be able to have a fresh start or maybe you will fine someone else, but right now I say end it.
2006-10-30 11:52:05 · answer #3 · answered by snack_daddy10 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
divorce him u dont deserve to be with a idiot like this! and dont give in if he begs u or buys u flowers all thats bulls*it! tell him u have had it with the way he has been treating u and that u feel the best thing to do is divorce that way u can move on with your life
2006-10-30 10:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, you should get a divorce. because, if your relationship is like that now, it could get worse down the line. If he acts that way now he won't ever change, and, he mightm really get tired of the marriage 10 or so years from now.
2006-10-30 10:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he is not sincere to u and wanna try cheating u go ahead with u r decision but if he has his private affairs without distubing u r life just leave him and try keep a watch over him and see wether he takes care of u.instead if he tortures u illtreat u u go for divorce and for criminal action against him
2006-10-30 10:35:47 · answer #6 · answered by melchieram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything but don't get pregnant.
2006-10-30 10:26:57 · answer #7 · answered by kam_1261 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring him on jerry
2006-10-30 10:25:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!
2006-10-30 10:44:13 · answer #9 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM
2006-10-30 10:27:06 · answer #10 · answered by momof2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋