Family & Relationships - 30 October 2006

I would just want to know how a lady wants a gentleman to treat her. Specifically?

2006-10-30 00:56:50 · 12 answers · asked by JaZz 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance proposed to me back in March this year and since then he refuses to talk about getting married. I didn't pressure him into proposing, he just did it before we moved from Australia to London.

Now I bring up wedding dates etc and he always says "I dont want to talk about it". When we return to Australia he wants to get a job, buy a house, etc etc but no where on his plans is there a wedding.

I just wonder, why propose (with a gorgeous expensive ring too - so it's not like it was a last minute thought) if you don't want to get married.

Thoughts?

Cheers!!!

2006-10-30 00:55:15 · 29 answers · asked by Miss K 2 in Weddings

ok saturday my boyfriend, my bestfriend, and me were at mcdonalds and i was going threw his pockets and i found a letter that him and some girl was writing so i asked him and it really wesn't a big deal because he was telling her that he can't cheat on me or do nothing like that to me so sunday i was messing with him and i wa taalking about the letter and this ***** said "but i didn't talk to her i mean she ain;t ugly" ok he could of kept that to hisself so i gat mad because if i would of said that he would of been mad or whateverand then he promised me that he would never leave mad but we did i mean i lve him and tomorrow is our anniversary and i don't want to see him and we still got problems from sunday because he wana flip the script and call me fake what would you do ladies be the bigger person or let him come to me and guys do you think im to insecure.

2006-10-30 00:54:32 · 12 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Singles & Dating

I Meat this person 2 month ago been dating regularly(1 twice a week)what signs can i get to know that this is serious and not an open relationship any tips on how to find out as dont want to drive myself crazy and build myself sand castles

2006-10-30 00:53:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really love her and told her that but she thinks that I love her as a friend but i havent got the guts to tell her the truth because Im scared that she might get freaked and our friendship will be ruined but I really want to tell her how i feel!. Its been 1yr and 3months since Ive loved her and the feelings just dont seem to die instead they are growing!

2006-10-30 00:53:43 · 30 answers · asked by Nikoteen 1 in Singles & Dating

well what if i have knew you for a whole year,,and i've been good with you, and eventually u say that u were just doing a research on me?

2006-10-30 00:51:25 · 13 answers · asked by sniper_llf 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The girl is having a baby with a married guy.

2006-10-30 00:51:07 · 17 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I assume all girls shave there legs! Anyway shower or bathtub? your shaving your legs nice and smooth and you get to the top of your thighs, do you continue and shave your entire private area???? If so,,why?

2006-10-30 00:50:53 · 10 answers · asked by Bobby W 1 in Singles & Dating

Please, I really need your help... I am in love with a man, we had a relationship for 2 years, we lived together for a year, we planned on getting married and having kids.... But he had a serious problem with anger management, and I told him I won't marry him until he got the problem under control. He didn't do anything about it and it kept getting worse, so after one fight I kicked him out of the house. He moved into a hot singles area and I was really afraid of losing him, which of course made me act like a posessive idiot. Then I found his ad on a personals site and broke up with him... I said really harsh things and wouldn't even let him explain himself. It's been over a month and I love him so much and miss him more than I ever thought possible! I saw him this Saturday - 1st time since we broke up - I lost 20 lbs, got my teeth whitened, had my hair highlighted, and I had a really short skirt with fishnet stockings and stiletto boots. He wouldn't even look at me! Help, I need him!!

2006-10-30 00:50:52 · 11 answers · asked by askandanswer 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so depressed , i had a girl friend who was so good to me, i used to fight with her but she always remain calm, sometimes she will answer in a temper but most of the time she is soft spoken. she loved my family very much even though my brother , sister and mother didnt like her. i never have tried to see her positive sides i regret now i am married but my wife is so busy she wont have time to take care of me so i think how my girl friend was she used to spend time as much as she can, she was so caring , she always ask whether i had food, did i dry my hair after shower, to take medicine when i am sick, she direct me towards everything good, she shout and advice me a lot when ever i go wrong, she supported me to help my brothers to buy new house for them, she supported me for charity purpose. i didnt see anything good when i was in that relation , atlast i found reasons and dumped her, she cried and was begging to me a lot i got married to another girl...

2006-10-30 00:50:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My question is , how can I make them(Female friends) understand? Girls tries to be very careful but they r not.Am I right?

2006-10-30 00:47:40 · 3 answers · asked by ogmansur 2 in Friends

we were suposed tovisit his parents but he said we cldn't last minute. this is the second time happening and i had already told ma family abt the 2 visits. i havent said anything since thursday. am so rude to him but i don wanna talk abt it. do you think its best if i deal with it alone without talking to him abt it. i sometimes hate him for it. am deciding quiting.

2006-10-30 00:47:23 · 6 answers · asked by icycharia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-30 00:45:37 · 12 answers · asked by stand4eachother 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I read a lot on this site about women saying where have all the decent men gone, or has romanced or chivalry died. Well I’m a decent guy but get passed over coz I am a large guy.

I’m in my early thirties, tall and quite a large guy, but well proportioned for my height. I live in the Midlands and would love to meet someone.

I’m kind, caring, romantic, trusting, honest and passionate. I love to treat a woman like a woman, with respect and love. I long to be that special someone.

I like pubs, clubs, restaurants, concerts, shopping, romantic walks and weekends away. Basically I enjoy most things.

But coz I am a well built guy I just seem to get passed by, I’ve got so much love to give someone.

Am I right when saying its my size? Any advice would be appreciated.

2006-10-30 00:43:11 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 15 and whenever i date a boy i can never seem to talk to him when im around him!!!!!!!I think its because im shy!!!Is it just a thing that happens when your around this age???
I dont like going out with people becauae i hate ending the relationship!I only like 'meeting'(kissin') boys and i hate when someone i fancy asks me out because i always say yes and then i look like a fool when i can hardly even talk to the guy!!!!!!!My friends say they are like this too and the guy in my school who i fancy at the moment told me he only likes meeting girls too!!!!!!this is all too confusin' for me!

2006-10-30 00:42:07 · 12 answers · asked by ms.biatch 1 in Friends

My father is underging heart surgery right now. Please pray for him, my family and the medical staff at the hospital.

God Bless

2006-10-30 00:41:44 · 36 answers · asked by David M 3 in Family

i was in a relationship with a guy , with whom i was madly in love. then we broke up. n i took 3 years to START to move on from him. n then i started liking a friend of mine , whom i met on internet while chatting. v live in 2 different countries. i fell for him.. n i love him from the past few months. he is like the perfect guy ever. but obviously long distance relationships hardly work out. moreover, i cant bind him down. n he has expressed the same fears that what if in the end ,he is not able 2 commit 2 me , after making me wait for so many years. im 17 n he is 18 years old. now i have no hope. i just don. want to like some other guy. i have these terrible periods of loneliness. all this psychological drainage has caused me breathing problems. i just like this guy very much but it is just not possible. n i just feel helpless and hopeless all the time. im not even able to study. i have tried to divert my mind. but till wen can 1 keep studying or listening 2 music or painting. help.

2006-10-30 00:40:33 · 15 answers · asked by a_caring_girl 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 00:40:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel like my fiance never has time for me anymore..when we first started dating we used to go out all the time.now I feel like hes always got something else to do...when I see him its when hes getting ready to go to sleep...I dnt know what else to do should I end this before I marry him and have to live this way for ever

2006-10-30 00:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i ve beeen with my husband for seven years so none of this is that new, but since we got married (14 months ago) it hasjust gotten more extreme. SEX thats it,thats all he thinks about. im tired,trust me he is not deprived, i have to give it to him at least 1 a day or hes an ***.groping,mallingand overbearing,its like hes one of the kids(constant attention)there is a time and a place for everything.
i could go on for ever about this ,but my main concern is this,porn sites. we just recent got a computer,i know what hes doing ,ive adressed it he knows my concerns,yet still does it.I feel its cheating,and its disguisting. i now find myself tring to be more intrested(even when im exhausted)just to keep him with only me.
my theory is this (its my job to get it hard) lol. am i being over SOMETHING... or does men that only think SEX SEX SEX truely have some sort of problem(like alcoholics) i feel like its putting a wedge into our marriage. can anybody relate?????????

2006-10-30 00:39:04 · 16 answers · asked by KIM F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has been back from iraq almost a month now and i still havent seen him, i bought a ticket to virginia, but that didnt happen, me and him had a big fight, so he didnt pick me up, now hes on leave and is with his other son, which i really dont understand, becuase he went to virginia to see him, he hasent been to see his 9 month old son, who he hasent seen since he was 2 weeks, he said he didnt come because of me, later we started getting along, i try to get a ticket to go and see him, he just has an attitude, so i eventually think he dont want me to come, so i say nevermind, he leaves on wednesday and hasent seen me or his other son, what the ****???

2006-10-30 00:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by butterfly_eyez 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-30 00:37:42 · 11 answers · asked by Feathery 6 in Singles & Dating

She is having financial difficulties. We do not live in the same state. I have not asked her so don't know if she would even consider. She would have her own room and would not have to pay any rent. I am financially stable so don't need help with my rent. She is 43 and I am 57. She also has a teenage daughter that would have to be taken into consideration. I also have room for her. I just wanted some comments before I asked her.

2006-10-30 00:37:04 · 14 answers · asked by douglas50_1999 2 in Family

I have an issue watching tv/movies/media outlets with sex scenes and/or nudity.I feel uncomfortable and embarrassed.The big problem: when it involves my boyfriend.I can't even think about watching those things with him.I get VERY upset when something sexual pops up.I do not want him seeing anyone naked other than me.For me sex is a very personal thing that should not be portrayed in such a graphic/demeaning manner.It takes away a level of intimacy.I'm just another set of breasts.I do not want to be intimate after he has watched something like that.I'm attractive with a decent body but those images and portrayals are not reality.I've asked my boyfriend to stop watching things with sex/nudity.He says it makes him feel like a child.He suggested watching movies/TV with sex/nudity w/out me so I don't get upset.No good.Knowing he saw that stuff is like cheating on me.This is threatening our future together.I do not want to lose him.He agreed to no strip clubs/bachelor parties.Not enough.HELP

2006-10-30 00:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by confused and hurt 1 in Singles & Dating

here's this guy whom i think i like. we usually see each other and greet each other 'his n hellos'. sometimes, we have a small talk (about the weather, school,..)nowadays, i observe i get shy when i talk with him. actually,i get nervous when he is around.i am afraid that i will fall for him for soon for we will be back to our own provinces and might not see each other again so as much as possible, i do not talk to him that much even if he starts the conversation. though i want to converse with him. really, i am confused. any advice,please? :)

2006-10-30 00:36:36 · 1 answers · asked by chelle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-30 00:35:53 · 11 answers · asked by applegrl005 1 in Singles & Dating

i really wanna be with katie and idk if i should move in with her or her move in with me

2006-10-30 00:35:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how long should you be together b4 getting married,which time of the year is the best,if you`ve not got alot of money but want an enjoyable day to remember where aand what should you have

2006-10-30 00:34:07 · 53 answers · asked by morty 1 in Weddings

I'm 23 and he is 26. Before 2 years my husband's father died, and ever since my mother-in-law is volnerable. But sometime she really knows how to cross the limit. For example, if both of us (my husband and I ) aren't home, she feels like her son left her alone and starts crying and says "he'll see for this and weeps which annoys me so much .because of stuff like this , he feels so much for her and we often fight. Please help me or give me some advise how to stop this, because we live together only 2 months and I am freaking.She is not a bad woman, but i dpn't like that kind of behavior.he is my husband now,and i decide whether he comes home late or not, don't you agree?

2006-10-30 00:33:38 · 11 answers · asked by bilezlatko 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a young black male from detroit who loves white women but don't know where to meet them is there any good bars around detroit

2006-10-30 00:33:07 · 9 answers · asked by jason b 1 in Singles & Dating