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I have an issue watching tv/movies/media outlets with sex scenes and/or nudity.I feel uncomfortable and embarrassed.The big problem: when it involves my boyfriend.I can't even think about watching those things with him.I get VERY upset when something sexual pops up.I do not want him seeing anyone naked other than me.For me sex is a very personal thing that should not be portrayed in such a graphic/demeaning manner.It takes away a level of intimacy.I'm just another set of breasts.I do not want to be intimate after he has watched something like that.I'm attractive with a decent body but those images and portrayals are not reality.I've asked my boyfriend to stop watching things with sex/nudity.He says it makes him feel like a child.He suggested watching movies/TV with sex/nudity w/out me so I don't get upset.No good.Knowing he saw that stuff is like cheating on me.This is threatening our future together.I do not want to lose him.He agreed to no strip clubs/bachelor parties.Not enough.HELP

2006-10-30 00:36:58 · 11 answers · asked by confused and hurt 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

11 answers

You need to identify the source of your insecurities.. and crush it! You may be from an ill informed prudish back ground or you could just have body image issues and feel threatened.. or it could be a number of different reasons.

If you really want to get rid of your uncomfortability something has to change in you.. not out of you.

2006-10-30 00:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 1

i swear i could have written what you wrote.. i feel the exact same way. sex is supposed to be an intimate thing and it seems as though it is ruined by society and most people probably don't realized how conditioned they have become to sexual images. i suppose i should be told i need to grow up too but i dont' feel special about my body when i have to watch everyone else's all the time

2006-10-30 03:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 7 0

This is very petty Don't let this ruin your relationship! I understand your side of this, but not everyone is like you. It's just TV. There is always going to be something in a way, don't feed it any energy by reacting to it.

2006-10-30 00:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by Tellie 4 · 3 2

It's hard to address this not knowing your age. I would guess that you are both fairly young, though. Shows with some sex are bound to come up, but I'm not sure whether you mean that or watching porn.

2006-10-30 00:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by I saw whatudid 3 · 1 1

Sounds like you have a severe hangup about sex and nudity. You really ought to see a counselor and find out where these feelings are coming from.

2006-10-30 01:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by bad_bob_69 7 · 3 3

Only if Im watching it with my parents or a chick haha

2016-03-28 01:32:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok the first two replies are really funny.

but guys dont make fun of her. different ppl have different personalities.

hmm. the more u do it and immerse yourself in that situation, the uncomfy feeling will wear off gradually.

2006-10-30 01:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by vida 2 · 3 0

thats just childish. that should not threaten your relationship theres going to be a time when he is thinking of someone else while being intimate with you its natural it will happen to you too but it shouldnt threaten your relationship. it should be more about the emotional bond. and you shouldnt be controlling like that or you might end up losing him

2006-10-30 00:45:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 4

yes i do

2006-10-30 00:46:06 · answer #9 · answered by zily 2 · 1 1

GET REAL

you can't avoid some things no matter what you do.

Maybe you should date a blind man.

2006-10-30 00:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jennifer L 6 · 1 6

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