my husband has been back from iraq almost a month now and i still havent seen him, i bought a ticket to virginia, but that didnt happen, me and him had a big fight, so he didnt pick me up, now hes on leave and is with his other son, which i really dont understand, becuase he went to virginia to see him, he hasent been to see his 9 month old son, who he hasent seen since he was 2 weeks, he said he didnt come because of me, later we started getting along, i try to get a ticket to go and see him, he just has an attitude, so i eventually think he dont want me to come, so i say nevermind, he leaves on wednesday and hasent seen me or his other son, what the ****???
2006-10-30 00:38:09 · 11 answers · asked by butterfly_eyez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
YOU NEED TO FIND OUT WHATS THE DEAL BECAUSE THATS A DAMN SHAME FOR HIM .. EVEN THOUGH YALL HAD A LIL MISUNDERSTANDIN DOESNT MEAN FOR HIM NOT TO COME SEE HIS 9 MONTH OLD SON .. THATS JUST RIDICULOUS AND STUPID ON HIS PART .. AT LEAST YOU ARE TRYING .. AND IT DOESNT LOOK LIKE HE REALLY EVEN GIVES A ****
2006-10-30 00:45:58 · answer #1 · answered by MiZ_PuMpKiN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that. I know that this is very painful. It's kind of obvious that he doesn't want to see you. He is trying to keep a distance for whatever reason. Honestly, I think that he has another woman on the side. Because he is trying to make you feel bad and making you think that YOU have done something wrong to upset him. You haven't done anything. Things will come out to light. If you want to do some investigating. Try this: If you can get a hold of his cell phone records or access to his e-mail accounts. Those are just suggestions. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-30 00:46:09 · answer #2 · answered by loves2dream2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't say that I blame him if he's just come back from the war, the last thing he needed was to come home to a fight. You have to try to understand him right now, He's just come from a terrible place and I'm sure that all he wants right now is a peaceful place to be. Try talking to him and tell him that it is important to you to see him. Tell him how much he was missed and that you've been waiting to see him. I think maybe if you change your attitude thing will work out for the best.
2006-10-30 00:45:06 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldnt be saying "what the ****" I'd be saying "WHO the ****" meaning Who the **** does he think he is treating you like that? or Who the **** else is in the picture? Somethings going on here hun, attitude or no attitude you desrve some answers BEFORE he leaves. You know where he,is get that ticket hun and get some answers!!!!
2006-10-30 00:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by btsnpieces 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I can't help because reading your question made me feel so sad. Only he knows the explination and he sure as hell owes it to you. His behaviour is not that of a loving husband so something has gone screwy in his mind. Maybe he has been brainwashed by your government.
2006-10-30 00:50:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is like that, well eventually he doesnt care anymore. dont push yourself to him, rather let him feel that its his lost not yours. start moving on and live life to the fullest. pamper yourself and take care of your son, thats the best thing.
good luck
2006-10-30 00:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by ems 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are being avoided.It is rather obvious. Maybe he just dont care.I dont mean to be mean but from what you right i would get on with my life.And live for me and my son
2006-10-30 00:40:34 · answer #7 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would give him time to adjust to life here, after combat, if in another month he still has not contacted you I would re-think the situation, it sounds like your life wasn't so great when you were together,
2006-10-30 00:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's another woman for sure
2006-10-30 00:40:35 · answer #9 · answered by potato 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its too complicated mam
2006-10-30 00:40:44 · answer #10 · answered by ^Daphne^ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋