ok saturday my boyfriend, my bestfriend, and me were at mcdonalds and i was going threw his pockets and i found a letter that him and some girl was writing so i asked him and it really wesn't a big deal because he was telling her that he can't cheat on me or do nothing like that to me so sunday i was messing with him and i wa taalking about the letter and this ***** said "but i didn't talk to her i mean she ain;t ugly" ok he could of kept that to hisself so i gat mad because if i would of said that he would of been mad or whateverand then he promised me that he would never leave mad but we did i mean i lve him and tomorrow is our anniversary and i don't want to see him and we still got problems from sunday because he wana flip the script and call me fake what would you do ladies be the bigger person or let him come to me and guys do you think im to insecure.
2006-10-30 00:54:32 · 12 answers · asked by Mz.Tweety 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be the bigger person, but at the same time, tell him what he said was f*cked up. Guys are retarded sometimes, and need to think before they speak. It doesn't sound like he was trying to hurt you, it just sounds like he had a retard moment. Tell him your sorry, but you were upset because of what he said. Just communicate, hear his side and enjoy your anniversery. Also, you don't sound overly insecure, any right-minded girl would get mad at their boyfriend for that.
2006-10-30 01:01:09 · answer #1 · answered by Kbailey 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You were going through his pockets? You stay mad over a letter that said he would not cheat on you? You have a serious trust and jealousy problem.
I don't know what you mean when you said "he wanna flip the script and call me fake."
You better learn to deal with your jealousy and insecurity.
2006-10-30 09:17:51 · answer #2 · answered by » mickdotcom « 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are very insecure and immature because he told the girl that he is not going to cheat on you. So you should have dropped the subject. The girl is not ugly so that only means that he turned down a cute girl for you.
2006-10-30 08:59:31 · answer #3 · answered by L@M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh geez, he only said that she wasn't ugly. He did say he couldn't cheat, so what's your problem? Guys (and girls) have eyes and they do see people, that doesn't mean that they are going to go after every person that they think "isn't ugly". I really think you should get over it. I am not a guy, but yes you do sound a tad insecure.
2006-10-30 08:57:55 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the beginning, the picture was pretty clear but you kinda lost me in the middle. anyway, it doesn't seem like such a big reason for the two of you to be blowing this out of proportion. you should both apologize to eachother and talk it out with clear heads.
2006-10-30 08:59:41 · answer #5 · answered by sheilanmanny12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im not a lady but i fink u shd jus go n talk 2 him n u 2 shd share your thoughts n feelings
2006-10-30 08:57:58 · answer #6 · answered by emanuel_arsenalfc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would try to get over it you know how guys are they always seem to say the wrong thing at the wrong time but if its your anniversery i would try to get over it and to do something special
2006-10-30 08:58:17 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter went Thur that for four years then married him and it continued now three month later he took the kids and were fighting for them. so think seriously before you go any further
2006-10-30 08:57:04 · answer #8 · answered by furby_lost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn the Queens English first then he may respect you more
2006-10-30 08:57:46 · answer #9 · answered by Elle J Morgan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Somebody is sure insecure here but from your "question" I don't know who.....
2006-10-30 08:59:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋