we were suposed tovisit his parents but he said we cldn't last minute. this is the second time happening and i had already told ma family abt the 2 visits. i havent said anything since thursday. am so rude to him but i don wanna talk abt it. do you think its best if i deal with it alone without talking to him abt it. i sometimes hate him for it. am deciding quiting.
2006-10-30 00:47:23 · 6 answers · asked by icycharia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If the 2 of you are planning to get married you'd better learn to communicate with him about the things that bother you. If you can't talk to him before your marriage, don't think it will change after. Communication is key to a good relationship. You need to talk to him about it and don't let this bother you so much. There was probably a good reason for cancelling. Why not just ask him? Tell him you are hurt. You have to get things like this out in the open or they will lead to future fights.
2006-10-30 00:56:02 · answer #1 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 23:57:41 · answer #2 · answered by templeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to him and tell him how you feel. If you are getting married you must learn to talk about everything, even the difficult stuff. Marriage is not just a honeymoon but a life time of work to make each other as happy as possible. Learning to communicate is urgent, tell him now!
2006-10-30 01:04:24 · answer #3 · answered by Eileen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to him. We are slow and thick headed. Use small words and speak slowly. The silent treatment won't work, we aren't mind readers.
You have issues you need to address before marriage. I'm not sure exactly what is going on with this problem, too few details, but you definately need to address communication before marriage. Also you should try premarrital mentoring through a church. It helps to go through it to make sure you are both on the same page and talk about issues before marriage so you don't have to counsel for them after marriage.
2006-10-30 01:15:23 · answer #4 · answered by RS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my wife went throw that and but she stop talking to me and start talking to guys online and she got emstionaly ataced to one of them . for 4 year she was like this and i had no clue until one day she told me that she did not love me any more . she move out of are bedroom and she move into another room in the house for 10 week life was tuch and go . then when she found out that how much pain she was make everone she wake up out of her depression. men have a hard time understanding what is going wong in side maybe you should seek some help for doc. or a good caregroup .. Good Luck
2006-10-30 01:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by celticdragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you got it figured out. carry on!
2006-10-30 00:50:37 · answer #6 · answered by rkalch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋