I really love her and told her that but she thinks that I love her as a friend but i havent got the guts to tell her the truth because Im scared that she might get freaked and our friendship will be ruined but I really want to tell her how i feel!. Its been 1yr and 3months since Ive loved her and the feelings just dont seem to die instead they are growing!
2006-10-30 00:53:43 · 30 answers · asked by Nikoteen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
then you're gay.
2006-10-30 00:56:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
4rom my opinion I would say you are a bit confused. The reason being,there is no way you can "love" a person of same sex romanticly and say that you are straight. Have u ever dated a guy? How were your feeling then? If you never did, I would suggest you do and find out whether ur straight or not.
As 4 ur friend she needs to know the truth before you can do something stupid that will hurt her and maybe drive her to hate you for good. Most of the people don't like suprises and so make it snappy to tell her and of course be sure of your facts b4 both of you get hurt.
And b careful bcoz what ever it is can ruin you friendship. So it is better to take time to figure this out and prepare urself 4 the consequences. Be in control of your emotions and think this big. Don't just rush into conclusions n say "bcoz I'm feeling this, therefore..." .If she really cares,she'll understand and help you through this.
Good luck my friend.Hope you find a way/answer to this!
K'tee..
2006-10-30 01:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by keatlaretse y 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since u ordy told her before & she thinks that u loved her as a fren, maybe a very best fren, then, just let things stay this way and dont force thing.
Its difficult to keep this feeling to urself but its even more difficult to make her understand such feeling, unless of course, she feels e same for u. what do u urself think???
Maybe u can try confessing to her again but in a proper and calm manner, like telling her that: u hope whatever u r going to say to her wont hurt the friendship. It just that u cant keep it to urself anymore as this is driving u crazy..... Don try to grab her or u know, in a forcing manner 'cos this will really freak her out!! HOWEVER, be prepared if things do turn out the other way that she chose to ignore u since then.
If she still prefer that both of u stay as close fren, then, just treasure the moment both of u can be frens n let things be.....
Im not sure if this is a gd suggestion to u but i hope u can keep me updated if possible. all the best!
2006-10-30 01:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by y t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have sexual fantasies about a person of the same sex you are not straight. You could be bisexual but definitely not straight.
On the other hand if you love her as you would say your sister then you are straight and she is just a very dear friend to you.
You must remember there are many different kinds of love. The intricacies of human emotion are boundless.
2006-10-30 00:58:45 · answer #4 · answered by BlueChimera 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not feeling love. You're feeling admiration. You have this emotion, probably because you admire her and want to be like her. You love her hair, the way she smiles, etc. If you were straight , I don't think you would like to be sexually involved with her unless you're gay.
If you feel that you're attraction is intense, like sexually, then you are not a straight girl. You should know who you are. But be careful, if your friend is straight, I don't think she would return the favor and would only lose her. It's better to find someone else who would love you back and limit your contact with her because it will only make your life miserable. You can't love someone who can't reciprocate your love.
2006-10-30 01:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by mbm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hmm....this aint an easy one. I think the best way of dealing with this issue is tell your friend that you think you are bi-sexual and that you've been having feelings for other girls, without telling her how you feel about her. Then, see how she responds. If she says that she feels the same then you could then go on to say that you've had feelings for her as well. If not, then leave it alone and just enjoy her friendship.
2006-10-30 01:02:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go to her and tell her. It may not be easy but at least you will get it off your chest.If she's a good friend she will understand. She might get scared. If she say that she don't love you ask if you an her can still be friends. It may not be a strong friendship if it was at first but you and her will still be friends hopefully.
2006-10-30 00:58:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think i know how you feel, im a guy, but love dressing up and being girly.. when im dressed i start feeling attracted towards guys. but as a guy im straight.. it's confusing, but i guess if you start feeling attracted to the same sex... no matter what then it's Bi.. lol ultimately thought it's what you feel comfy with.. so like me stick to you're straight,and there's no real harm in being attracted to the same sex.. :)
2016-05-22 07:17:34 · answer #8 · answered by Nancy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
If you know this girl is staight you should avoid freaking her out and just remain friends. Your love for her in time may continue to develop and become admiration and respect as opposed to sexual desire.
Be careful, you are treading on dangerous ground. Once you lick one kitten, there is no going back.
2006-10-30 00:59:47 · answer #9 · answered by jena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So are you sure you are a straight girl? It sounds like the feelings you have are a little bit different. I think you need to decide what you want before you approach this issue.
2006-10-30 00:55:32 · answer #10 · answered by Jon C 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lets think for a moment...
a straight girl?? in love with a straight girl???
ok, lets just say a confused maybe gay girl in love with her friend.
before you do anything why not decide what you really want from this girl???
i wish you all the luck
2006-10-30 01:00:41 · answer #11 · answered by irini d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋