I feel like my fiance never has time for me anymore..when we first started dating we used to go out all the time.now I feel like hes always got something else to do...when I see him its when hes getting ready to go to sleep...I dnt know what else to do should I end this before I marry him and have to live this way for ever
2006-10-30 00:40:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You guys lost spice. He's probably depressed. He may have a problem at work, financially, his family, .. who knows?! Unless you talk to him what's wrong. If you want to build a good relationship, communication is always the key. Ask him how he is and if he's bother about something. Be there for support and a shoulder to lean on. The secret for a good marriage is never go to sleep until you're problem is solved and learn how to say I'm sorry and don't forget the hugs and kisses.
2006-10-30 00:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by mbm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I had the same problem, only it's worse with me, i have a mother-in-law to deal with :) You should give him a time to get use with the idea of being married. He is not single anymore and has greater responsibilities. Talk to him and tell him how you feel. Once you decided to get engaged, that means he is worth it. Ask him about how he feels now, does he feel that some things are shortened to him,give him freedom and talk talk talk. He must love you to choose you.You know we, women get married without much thinking, but for men it represents a huge step. So don;t be afraid to tell him how you feel and don't just give up.That's the easiest thing to do.Always fight for your happiness.Hope I helped.
2006-10-30 00:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by bilezlatko 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confident, you need to stay broken up. the two that, or supply up "breaking apart" each and every time you have a stupid argument. in case you adult men shop breaking apart over junk like this, it relatively is obtrusive there is not any dedication there -- each time the going gets the least little bit tough, you adult men walk removed from one yet another. that may no longer how mature, committed human beings cope with relationships. human beings asked approximately your age because of the fact, frankly, you sound approximately 14 or 15 -- and you think of five months is an prolonged time for a relationship. What you're describing is a typical teen romance -- warm and heavy to start, and falling aside while the least little bit of actuality interferes with the fable that they have outfitted up. it relatively is not nicely well worth the soreness.
2016-10-20 23:57:25 · answer #3 · answered by templeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit him down and tell him exactly how you are feeling, because believe this or not he might not even realize that this change has happened. But you need to talk things out and then if things don't improve you might have to consider moving onto someone who will make time for you
2006-10-30 00:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by Baps . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him girl. Tell him how you feel but make sure you pick the right time. (not when he just gets home from work, or when you are upset or when he is watching T.V.) You may have to try to schedule a time for your talk. He may not realize what is going on. Good luck.
2006-10-30 00:51:08 · answer #5 · answered by Tiny S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you definately need to tell him how you feel. Time is essential for a good relationship. If he doesn't give you the time he needs now, things will only get worse afterward. Nip it in the bud whilst there's hope. Good luck.
2006-10-30 00:43:07 · answer #6 · answered by Sugar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you deffenatly need to tell him how you feel if its getting as bad as you having second thoughts about marrying him you need to sithim down and tell him EVERY thing your feeling...cuz you dont wanna get into a marriage ur not sure about and you need to be perfectly sure about everything...good luck!
2006-10-30 00:45:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
communication is always the key. you need to talk things over and compromise. its the way to a healthy relationship.
2006-10-30 00:54:09 · answer #8 · answered by wingless angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course u shold end it before u married him...do you want hime to be like that in ur whole lifetime? of course not rite....just think about it...and make sure that ur answer is good for ur own self...
2006-10-30 00:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by ^Daphne^ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him, if things don't change then don't marry him unless you want to live this way the rest of your life.
2006-10-30 00:45:56 · answer #10 · answered by S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋