Well so far is thas been 2 days since i have seen my sister. She left me to go to Tennesse. When i was younger i could have left her but no i did not want to leave with out my sister. so i stay. I was beaten and hit amany time but i stayed because of her. But now she has left me. So as of 48 hours ago i do not have a sister. She is considered nothing to me.
2006-10-30 01:42:37 · 18 answers · asked by Kay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
spring foreward.....
2006-10-30 01:43:51 · answer #1 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have twin sisters, one that I talk to some and the other not at all. She was really mean to me growing up and always criticized everything I did. If your sister can just have the heart to get up and leave like that then it sounds like she is a little selfish. The best thing would be hold your head up and dont let her ever know how it bothers you. Find friends or a hobby and just try to forget about her for now. She will come back around one day but let her know that with or without her you can make it.
2006-10-30 01:47:52 · answer #2 · answered by Misty b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who was beating you? if it was someone else and your sister was "protecting" you then its a different story. i can speak from personal experience that the HARDEST thing in my life was being the only one taken by foster care, and my 2 sisters remained. It was horrible. I was bouncing from group home to group home, not being abused but also not at home to wacth over my sisters. they went through more stuff that I could've been there to have stopped.
At least when i was younger I THOUGHT I could stop it. A strong thing is a sisters love and now that im an adult and have slowly began to have relationships with my sisters again, its been hard buut worth while.
if you're sick of the beating too, LEAVE, you dont have to take it
however if it was your sister doing it, you best off without her.
2006-10-30 01:51:36 · answer #3 · answered by cawfeebeanz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty sad that you now consider her "nothing" to you. Seems to me that's your way of controlling her life and I wouldn't want to stick around you with that kind of attitude either.
So, why would you blame her?
I can't believe she's held you back.... ONLY YOU can hold yourself back. YOU made your own choices...regardless of what anyone else said or did....
If you don't want a sister than I suppose you no longer have one, but if I were you, I would think about being a positive support for my sister. Smile and love her... wish her well and get busy with your own life!!
Hope that's what you decide to do or you won't be behaving like a sister worthy of having a relationship with.
2006-10-30 02:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by ~Me~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant turn your back on your family. As much as you may want to. I'm sure she has a good reason for leaving. Look at it this way, now you have the chance to break out. Meet new people. And get out from what ever oppression you might of been under. If she was holding you back so much, then whats holding you back now? Go see the world. Travel, go on vacation. Party, if u want to. You're free to do whatever you want. All you have to do is imagine and you can do it.
2006-10-30 01:47:22 · answer #5 · answered by elliott_fortin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have alot of resentment right now. You dont disown her you are just feeling a sense of betrayment and abandonment. There comes a time in life where you have to do whats right for YOU. Be happy for her and support her because she needs that most from you. You can move on too, start over, make a new life for yourself. But be proud of her. Hating your sister is going to get you No where.
2006-10-30 01:48:46 · answer #6 · answered by misty byerly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know the hole story. But try to understand her a bit. Obviously she's not as strong as you are and she could'nt take it anymore. Dont worry she'll call.
Dont consider her as if she's nothing to you, You know that aint true. Consider your options and go from there, Maybe she left and she's comming back for you, Let her get situated. When she calls tell her how she feels but dont judge her. Try to stay calm. Se if you can go with her.
Im sorry for what you'r going through, Dont loose hope and be calm that everything will be ok.
2006-10-30 01:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by chinaz777 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let go and let God. Leave. It doesn't matter what she did, only how you react to it. Did you stay out of love or obligation? Whatever the reason you did what you wanted to do and now she is doing what she wants to do. Let go. Love your sister regardless and start living your life. Don't let these feelings of animosity fester or you will end up a bitter old woman.
2006-10-30 01:46:36 · answer #8 · answered by kyle g 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question here? Nobody can hold you back but you. You did what you thought was right. You feel like you got screwed. Carry on. Be who you are disregarding who others think you should be. In a bad situation? Get out.
2006-10-30 01:46:57 · answer #9 · answered by krisski 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on she has held u back 4 so long now this is the time 4 u 2 think about no one but yrself. enjoy yr life as an individual.
2006-10-30 01:49:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you're blaming your life's circumstances on her.
Unless she is much younger and you're caring for her, or is disabled in some way, and you're taking care of her, you are free to leave at any time and do your own thing. She has done the thing you need to do - leave. Who's beating you? Report them to the police. Why do you take it?
2006-10-30 01:47:47 · answer #11 · answered by cowgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋