2006-10-30 01:47:43 · 14 answers · asked by intan86 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is a tough choice to make. I would say that you should talk to someone that can help you. See if there is someone at your college you can talk that really help you make the right choice.
But I would say personally say get the abortion. Why have a child you're not ready for have that child suffer for your mistakes.
2006-10-30 02:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel u are not ready for all the responsibilities that will be required of you, I would abort. Trust me, I was faced with the same problem a few years ago, and Lord knows I wouldn't have been able to deal with it. I am still attending college and I'm almost done, and if I hadn't aborted I would be a stay at home mom:( That alone is very pathetic.....My schooling comes first, later on when I make the big bucks it will all be worth it. So, u do what's right for you, don't let others decide for you. It is ultimately your decision and no one else has the right to decide for you. Just remember you DECIDE what goes into your body and what should come out of it......
2006-10-30 01:55:03 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, please don't abort it. You will regret it for the rest of your life. If you are thinking along those lines then give it up for adoption. There are so many loving couples who cannot have a child and look to adoption.
If you have to, take some time off from school until the baby is born if you cannot continue while you are pregnant.
2006-10-30 01:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Tcb222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't agree to abortion. Since you are already pregnant, why don't you tell your partner about it. I believe that both of you should face the problem together and your partner should not let you face the problem alone.
If he doesn't want to be responsible, then you still can turn to your family for advice. I think that they were support you and respect your decision.
At this moment what we could do is to advice you base on our views. So the best advice is from either your bf or your family members
2006-10-30 01:55:28 · answer #4 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of cuz not, that's a human life you are talking about! but then again, you are only this young and have yet to try out so many things...that is unless you can live with it for the rest of your life. for aborting your own child. giving birth to it and letting couples who are unable to have children adopt your kid will be a better option.
bring the baby into this world will definitely makes you a better person. good luck, babe.
2006-10-30 01:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by Ms K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your old enough to have sex, then your old enough to have this baby, or at least think about adoption, there is always that alternative, at least give your baby to a family where it would have a nice stable home, abortion is something I would never consider, I'm sorry this is a touchy subject fore me, but I hoped it helped some=-)
2006-10-30 01:57:04 · answer #6 · answered by Lin_82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What done cannot be undone.. there is no right or wrong.... you are still very young, life is so much ahead of you... if you going to have a kid tag along with you... trust me.. life is going to be very different...
if you gonna keep the child. firstly, is your boyfriend and you going to be together for a long time if you guys get married? secondly, do you have the financial means? thirdly, are you ready to give up your singlehood life and go into motherhood?
alternatively, you can give the kid up for adoption but you probably have no chance of recognising him/her in future.
it is gonna be a tough choice, face it up. talk to your mother. In situations like this, nobody is more important than family... talk to them... better now than trying to hide it.
and DO NOT GET MARRIED for the sake of doing so.
2006-10-30 12:44:53 · answer #7 · answered by alfahomme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
CLICK ABORT CLICK ABORT. well im pro choice, and life..lol..well it depends on the situation. youre only 20 and a undergrad. you will be screwed with a baby. seriously, you should get an abortion.
But the question is, why are you having unprotected sex?
2006-10-30 01:50:58 · answer #8 · answered by Slevin Kelevra 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a touchy subject, and a very difficult dilemma. You are going to have to look into your heart and decide for yourself. Talk to someone that you trust. If you don't know who to talk to, most universities have counceling centers. I suggest that you take advantage of the university counceling service if you can.
Also, don't let the angry Christians influence you. You aren't going to go to hell if you decide not to have the child.
2006-10-30 01:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't abort. No one deserves to have their life taken from them like that. The fact that you're pragnant is not your baby's fault. Give it up for adoption if you can't care for it or whatever. But don't give up it's right to live.
2006-10-30 02:41:41 · answer #10 · answered by bsmart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋