my boyfriend's sister-in-law wants nothing to do with me.She thinks I've hurt him,I've changed him,and that I took him away from himself.I tried to resolve the conflict directly by calling.She said "Too Late and don't ever call here again","I never want to see you","You are no good for him."She called me names like psychotic.She said I suffer from some mental psychoses.My boyfriend's brother (her husband) got on the phone with me.He started listening to me and understood my side.All she did was yell at him to hang up.My boyfriends mother and father get along with me just fine.My boyfriend has lied to me on multiple occasions.He proposed to me and then told me it was premature.He was living with me and then moved out.Now he is back with me trying to make it work.I have forgiven him.My family accepts my decision.I went through a depression last year & a miscarriage recently.It has been tough on BOTH sides.I did nothing to HER.Should he defend me or allow me to be insulted and excluded?
2006-10-30 01:36:16 · 13 answers · asked by confused and hurt 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-30 01:39:10 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why would you even want to be involved with this circus? She's only a sister in law. Can she not be ignored in the interest of family harmony? I know I at one time had some in laws. And I would NEVER let them run me out. Or in, or up or down. Screw that if I'm going to let anyone ELSE shape my destiny like that. But hey, you'll get everybody on here saying to dump the jerk, blah, blah, blah. I don't know if dumping him is the answer. But you can't change people. And unless you can CONVINCE him of what you already know, then there isn't much point, is there? OR, you can grow a thicker skin. Up to you.
2006-10-30 01:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by TheOneVersion2.0 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to support you more and just stay away from her, she is the one with the problem"s" and the sooner your boyfriend sees this and keeps away from her the better off you two will be. As far as his brother goes it sounds as though he is well is in a hrad spot and she is just causing problems for evryone and I think I would ask him to talk to her and if she treats you like that again lay it on her stick up for yourself and tell her how it is hold nothing back and lets see how she feels! It may change her hole attitude, tell her whoat goes on in yourlife is none of her business and ask her if you should bring up all her faults and her mistakes tell her to grow up! She's the only one with a problem toward you therefore she is just jealous of you! Rub it in but be perpaired for her to have more outbursts or just ignore her and again be prepaired for more outbursts there is no pleasing her right now kill her with kindness and when she starts to come around blow her off and tell her that you don't need her and her crazy ways of thinking..... Hope things get better soon!
2006-10-30 02:03:38 · answer #3 · answered by sophia_of_light 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like you should leave it alone. This woman has issues that she can't deal with. Everyone has issues and she should worry about the ones in her relationship not the ones you have in yours unless something your doing is hurting hers. Tell her to mind her business and don't call her house. You don't need to explain yourself to anyone espically her. If you are happy in your relationship keep it going and don't give her a second thought.
2006-10-30 01:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Sunshine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The SIL sounds like she has some major issues. She might need some help, also sounds like she is kind of sweet on your boyfriend. You do realize tho that you marry him you marry his family, she isn't going to go away unless they get divorced. Sounds way to strange for words. PS sorry about your miscarriage.
2006-10-30 01:40:50 · answer #5 · answered by HereweGO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What the hell do your boyfriend sister-in-law have to do with y'all relationship (is she shagging him?). Tell the In-Law she's worried about the wrong man and to stay the hell out your business. Then you go to your BF and ask him point blank what is the deal between him and his brother's wife?
P.S: If he lives with you, contact between him and his brother's wife should be very limited. She's coming off as a mother figure or girl friend. Tell your BF to deal with it, if he don't dump him.
2006-10-30 01:47:47 · answer #6 · answered by Daddy Big Dawg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would someone with your issues want to join a family that has issues too? You'll end up on Jerry Springer.
2006-10-30 01:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like there is something more going on there then she is mad at you. Is she in love with your boyfriend? Have they had an affair? If the rest of his family is ok, why is the s i l so nuts?
2006-10-30 01:49:09 · answer #8 · answered by leelou37 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget the tramp. Does she pay your bills? Is there any good reason at all for you to answer to her? If the answer is no, tell her to eat sheeeeeit. It sounds like SHE is the one who has issues.
2006-10-30 01:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go be with his sister-in-law...and then get your own life straigtered out.
2006-10-30 01:39:37 · answer #10 · answered by IGH3Rat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋