I have had this friends for some time now. Things started out great...we had a lot common. Now, she constantly brags about how many people she knows, has met, what she is doing for them...etc..It gets so old. She makes me feel inferior for not being as "social". I don't care what she does, but it is the fact that most of her conversation revolves around how social she is. Should I continue to hang around her and ignore these comments, or should I go my own way? She makes me feel like I am back in middle school.
2006-10-30 01:40:31 · 8 answers · asked by cathy b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
If you really care about your friendship then you should tell her how you feel. Maybe she doesn't realize that she's annoying the heck out of you. Maybe she thinks she has to say those things to get your attention or that your interested in those things since you never told her to stop.
2006-10-30 01:44:29 · answer #1 · answered by cassyortiz85 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is a two way street. So if she's the talker and you the listener always, then you 'll have to tell her how that makes you feel. you say u both 'had' a lot in common is it that you no longer have much or anything in common? Whose ideas or interests changed?Are they good ones? Maybe she just wants to ginger you up and altho she's doing that wrongly, she has your best interest at heart. Do not just hang around her, be her friend in a two-way fashion and talk talk talk... as friends do, to resolve matters and not to break up. All da best
2006-10-30 02:01:32 · answer #2 · answered by girlfunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gradually back off and if she notices it... it may be when you might bring up you annoyance with her... let her know you don't hearing whats going on in her life ...but she sounds like a broken record and her comments are her brags and not a real conversation... it also sound like you don't have much in common... hope this helps
2006-10-30 02:05:47 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see thats the thing about friends is annoying or not you should be able to talk to them about anything so just tell her that you feel inferior to her and that she doesnt need to brag to think shes cool because you already think she is but yeah if she gets mad and ends your friendship because you told her how you feel well then thats not a friend at alll and you can find a better friend
2006-10-30 02:02:10 · answer #4 · answered by kyle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
understand why you have her as a friend in the first place. ask yourself if she is still fulfilling your need as a friend and lower your expectations or you will continue to be dissapointed.
2006-10-30 01:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Angry Insightful Black 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds sooo cool and popular...can I have her number?
2006-10-30 01:42:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should go your own way that way no one gets hurt
2006-10-30 01:50:17 · answer #7 · answered by samm5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her she can shove it up her @$$
2006-10-30 01:42:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋