what te hell kind of mother is she???

Question

shes a devil i mean tell me what you think of this , we got this big gift (something hung on the wall) and the next day i started to tear the paper it was coverd with then my mom suddnly shouts at me and says what are you doing are you stupid??why did u unwrap that are you stupid what if i were to give it to someone else?! all in shock i said im not stupid she said YES U ARE so i run out of the room and she folows me and i shout at her and slam the door she was still telling me reasons i shouldnt have unwrapped that in LOUd WORDS i mean that was in the presance of my grandmother i mean shes a devil womaann!! i hate her, why did she do that im 14 years old im not stupid i made a mistake ,,you tell me what kind of mother is that?? do all mothers act like that or is mine just crazy, i mean she made me cry , and called me stupid

she neve called me stupid before or just shouted at me for no reason, its just i dont think shell feel sorry and that hurts and what she did hurts i was embaressed, and the present was from ppl i know its not personal and already part of wrapping was torn

Answer 1

Sorry you got so upset!
I'm sure she didn't really mean it - Had she had a bad day?
I know it's no excuse if she had.
It was a simple mistake on your part, and you've apologised - You can't do more than that.
At the end of the day... even if your mum was going to give the present away (ungrateful), it would only need to be re-wrapped!
Don't take it to heart, sweetie.... as there is clearly another reason for her foul mood, and it's not your fault!
Cheer up x

Answer 2

Your mother had no business calling you stupid! She was WRONG, in every sense of the word. It is never, ever acceptable for an adult to call a child stupid. It's actually never acceptable for anyone to call anyone else stupid, but worse when the one doing it is older and supposed to know better.

Does your mother always do stuff like this? If she does, then she sounds very mentally unbalanced and in need of therapy and possibly medication. Since most adults won't go and get the help they need, just hang on until you're old enough to move out.

If your mother doesn't always do stuff like this and it's a recent behavior, then it's possible she's going through menopause. It lasts a few years and in those few years, just lay low and say "yes" to anything she says. Don't argue with her and don't stay in the room with her any longer than you have to. Don't touch anything unless she wants you to. Women going through menopause are literally insane. (The worst part is, it lasts about 5-6 years.)

In either case, just remember that you're not stupid and it's okay to make mistakes. Although, to me, it doesn't sound like you made a mistake at all in this instance. Just hang in there; better days are yet to come.

Answer 3

think you may be over reacting a little bit. Did your mother say the present was for you or that you could unwrap it ? If not you shouldn't of touched it , maybe your mum was wrong to call you stupid but she was probably annoyed that you decided to unwrap it when it could have been something personal, you had no right to touch it and for you to then run away shouting at her and slamming the door you cant blame her for getting angry....you really showed her dis respect by touching her stuff then acting like a baby and then coming on this web site like she done something really bad....think about it from her point of view she is probably sorry she called you stupid but if you want to be treated grown up you have to act it.

Answer 4

I think that this situation could of been handled differently. Your her daughter and whether it was right or wrong, if she was meaning to give the present to someone else then it can be re-wrapped. I don't agree with calling someone stupid/nor devil woman. If you guys don't learn to communicate between each other then you will have animosity between each other and it will not get better. Just remember accidents do happen and if they are minor they can be corrected. Take care of each other and hopefully you guys will be able to work this out in all situations.

Answer 5

I am a mother to a 15 yr old and a 5 yr old, I have had words with my 15 lots and lots of times but I have never called her stupid. I think that is wrong. You know sometimes mothers take out what they dont like about themselves on their children. Please understand that you are not stupid, you made a mistake. Maybe she thought it was a stupid mistake but that is far from YOU being stupid.Also know that ppl say things they dont mean when they are mad. It is hard to believe they dont mean them at the time, believe me I know. I dont think you sound stupid and actually dont think what you did was stupid. Keep ya head up :)

Answer 6

Mothers should not tell their kids they are stupid. Your mother was wrong for doing this. The fact that you started to unwrap a gift is no reason to be calling you stupid. How were you supposed to know that she was going to "regift" this to someone else. I say talk to you consellor at school about your situation. You are not stupid and don't let her make you feel that way.

Answer 7

Yeah.. I'm sorry.. it sucks... but I think all mothers are crazy, I know mine is. I still remember when I was 16 and my mom called me the B word, and I didn't do anything..... I think when kids grow into teenagers mothers go crazy.. hope I'm not like that when my son gets older.... good luck.... you can try talking to her but it may not work, never did with mine.... or grin and bear it and wait 4 more years and get the heck out

Answer 8

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Answer 9

well i don't believe that she handled the situation the best way. but
do you honestly believe that you are handling this the best way by getting online and calling your mom the devil? this doesn't make you right. she is still your mom so respect her. don 't call her names whether it's behind her back or not. try to talk to your mom when she's in a good mood. talk to her about how it made you feel. or maybe you can talk to your grandma about how it made you feel. she'lll more than likely talk to your mom about the situation. alot of times it's best to have a mediator to kind of be there to talk to both sides.

Answer 10

Girl, my mom is like that too. Ok, you have to realize though that people are different. That is the way she knows to handle things. No, it's not good. My mom has called me stupid, has hurt my self- esteem, and has whipped me with belts. Do I love her? Yes. She gave me life. You just remember how she made you feel and promise yourself that you won't be like that with your children. No, not all moms are like that.