Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

2006-10-29 19:23:11 · 7 answers · asked by Michael D 1 in Singles & Dating

ive posted Qs about this certain guy here a couple of times but i cant help asking opinions again.so here goes..
ive met this guy around 2004.were not close then but we met again on camp&became pretty close.were still friends until camp was over & people are starting to question us if we're bfs&gfs. of course we said no since it was the truth.but they continued teasing until i sort of pulled away&avoided my friend. he started asking me if im avoiding him & i told him i was busy w/ school because of the scholarship i have 2 keep(w/c is true.)
its been a yr now & we still see each other because of activites in our org.eveything's akward between us. we cant even look at 1 another!
but ive explained to him everything, right? & he told me that he understood.so whys he now ignoring me? im starting to have a feeling that he's avoiding me because there was already a"something" btwn that we're just denying before i started to pull away.does that he's got feelings 4 me before&still has it?

2006-10-29 19:21:28 · 6 answers · asked by DruNkStripPeR 3 in Friends

fondling, cunniligus or felatio, heavy petting

2006-10-29 19:19:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A while back me and this girl decided to go out and we went out for along time almost 2 years. Back then i really didnt know how i fealt about her and now its more clear then ever.i never really told her i loved her and i am greatly egretting it. The bad part is in less then a month shes gonna get married. I know that she still cares for me from when i spoken to her sister. he sister says she keep a picture of me by her bed and on her at all time. and she sometimes calls her brother by my name. The thing is she seems really happy when i saw her last week. Should i just let it go and let her live out her happiness or should i do something. any advice would help

2006-10-29 19:19:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-29 19:15:48 · 8 answers · asked by genieejj 3 in Singles & Dating

or they just keep flurting with people.? is it good or wrong...?

2006-10-29 19:15:24 · 16 answers · asked by Tosho 1 in Singles & Dating

when a women wearing very little clothes dates you then you use her and you break up what do you say about her. when a women wearing very little clothers passes you or walks like a something what do you say about that? would you rather have a modest dresser out while out the house or a bad dressed lady who has no reapect 4 her self? think about it.

2006-10-29 19:14:28 · 7 answers · asked by servant of AR-RAHIM mostMERCIFUL 3 in Singles & Dating

Married to a verbal and emotionally abusive man for 12 years. We are both 33 and have 2 small children. I had been preparing to leave him but now when I asked for the last time because of me feeling guilty if he would go to counseling with me, he agreed. We have only gone twice and she has been my counselor for 5 months now and has helped me to get stronger even though she never said to leave him. I am wondering do you think that he can change or not? My main problem is, I am at the point now that I still care for him but he has done so much damage to me that I know that I'll always feel that he'll be abusive or that he's just fooling me because it's cheaper to keep her. I was so looking forward to being free from the abuse and him even though I was scared. He has been really nice these past few weeks(longer than he has ever been in many years at a time). I'm just not really buying it. I think that I'll fall into this and be vulnerable and he'll **** up my trust and self esteem again.

2006-10-29 19:12:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 19:10:14 · 14 answers · asked by Jim V 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

what is 4-play?...s*x wise?

2006-10-29 19:07:55 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've being having a fling with this guy for approx 2 yrs and over this time i have gotten to know him extremly well,I know that i have very strong feelings for him however I am not blinded by it as i am very well aware that he is a big liar & that he cheats big time. My conflict is that he has now become available as he left his wife & in a way i want to let him know how I feel but I'm so scared of being hurt and at the same time i cant keep this inside any longer. So in short do I want him or not???? i'm so confused because i do love him & being with him makes me so happy but i just cant trust him.

2006-10-29 19:06:44 · 12 answers · asked by maz78 1 in Singles & Dating

is it like the first few dates, first few months, or does it have more to do with your compatibility?

2006-10-29 19:03:38 · 19 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Singles & Dating

any scientific explanation for that?

2006-10-29 19:03:25 · 10 answers · asked by ok 4 in Singles & Dating

What is that woman dont do that she ends up loosing her man beside dont control him, hold the strings but still hold them tight enough for him to have his freedom, cook, good sex and give him space, not to mention, cleaniless, intellectualism and ambitious..honest and communicative! Should I believe what he always says...and give him a benefit of doubt...help.

2006-10-29 19:03:06 · 22 answers · asked by Msfunloving 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i got attracted to a man since he was not married and he too was showing his int through his eyes without speaking to me. For long we never talked to each other but used to see or meet somewhere coz we had some common friends. When i thought that he is shy guy so started with saying 'hi' without knowing my husband. I was badly attracted to him which made me to take 1st step. Now whenever we meet somewhere in social gathering he shows me to his wife from far which makes me feeling very insecure. He may tell about it to other people and disrupt my family life.

2006-10-29 19:01:58 · 14 answers · asked by simran s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Argument.
I Just Hate It.
Getting Tired Of It.
How Can I Avoid Being In An Arguement With My Boyfriend?
(Stress)

2006-10-29 18:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by Singapore_Lady 3 in Family

i got attracted to a man since he was not married and he too was showing his int through his eyes without speaking to me. For long we never talked to each other but used to see or meet somewhere coz we had some common friends. When i thought that he is shy guy so started with saying 'hi' without knowing my husband. I was badly attracted to him which made me to take 1st step. Now whenever we meet somewhere in social gathering he shows me to his wife from far which makes me feeling very insecure. He may tell about it to other people and disrupt my family life.

2006-10-29 18:58:33 · 6 answers · asked by simran s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get her to understand that my age comes with knowledge? We get a long well and we have a marriage made in heaven. It drives me crazy when does not listen to me with all the wisdom I have. I know I can be wrong, most of the time I am not. What can I do?

2006-10-29 18:57:38 · 30 answers · asked by jo_cage 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when we are together he dosent hold my hand and he hardly ever hugs me....we have only had sex twice....i feel like another one of his friends....he dosent kiss me... he dosent even like to go out...

2006-10-29 18:57:24 · 9 answers · asked by ~Mellie~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 18:56:51 · 22 answers · asked by vidhya 1 in Singles & Dating

We used to have sex at least twice a week. But now, 2 months may pass without any sexual contact between us. Sometimes, when I start, he would not mind and will continue with me. But, what I'm surprised about is that he does not show any interest unless I begin. I'm really worried about this and very bad ideas come to my mind. We have 4 children, 2 boys and 2 girls. 19, 16, 12 and 10 years old. As a family, we are really happy and satisfied. I work 8 hours a day and my husband the same, plus his private job which takes about 3 - 4 hours extra after his normal job. (He comes back home at about 3 p.m. , take a nap and then to go out again till about 7 p.m.).

2006-10-29 18:56:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is always telling me that he isn't cheating on his G/F if he is wearing a condom...he says something to the effect that he is only cheating himself...is my buddy a goof?

2006-10-29 18:55:05 · 17 answers · asked by loofa36 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband crossdresses about once every three months. It never bothered me untill now. I think it bothers me now becase we have a 2 year old and a one month old. Our two year old will be able to remember when her gets older. Help! what should I do?

2006-10-29 18:54:53 · 18 answers · asked by nikalby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

after how many dates, or after how many times of "hanging out" can you then ask a girl to be your girlfriend and how should you go about it so it doesn't blow up in your face? thanks :)

2006-10-29 18:53:05 · 18 answers · asked by lovemonkey 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so im not even new to high school anymore and i thought i got used to all the drama and shittt that happens.
well aparently im not and i have no idea what do to.
all my friends are doing drugs
getting drunk
getting pregnant
im not religious i dont want to be
all the christians ive ever met are terrible infulences
and i feel like it just backs me in a corner
well i do not have a relationship with any of my parents.
my best friend betrayed me [yes its that bad]
i already have a hard time trusting people as it is
im struggling in school CANNOT HAPPEN
i have strong morals for myself but they are so hard to keep.
well ive never done anything to the extent of
drugs//sex//alcohol but ohh godd its soooo tempting.
i jsut want to let it all go and live in the moment.
lose everything and have fun.
but ive learned everything the hard way and im learning
im terrified to go to parties and frightened by life
if i knew it would be THIS hard id started being stupid in middleschool

2006-10-29 18:52:59 · 7 answers · asked by lo 2 in Friends

I know that he loves me, he puts up with my crap...well my families crap, but he never shows me... he has never taken me out on a date...we have been together for 7 yrs. I always have to set up the dates... we have 4 kids all together, we are both very tired by the end of the day, but ... he doesnt even like to give me a peck on the lips... in fear that some one is lookin.. not just our kids but our friends, too. I cant remember the last time we help each other as we fall to sleep, I dont think that he likes me very much and its really starting to hurt... I mean deply hurt..... there are a lot of other things that are a long the some lines but I dont want to get into them be fore bed... but is there something wrong with me... or is there another woman?? or is there something else that Im missing..... PLS HELP...

2006-10-29 18:52:10 · 3 answers · asked by TamBam 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister in law “my wife sister “, Is super nice to me, she always give me flirting signals that I can’t understand.

She confesses to my wife that she loves me and she will do anything to me. She is hot and I wasn’t recognizing her I am 30 and she is 25. I love my wife but I still have this idea of having more sexy female around me.

I can’t resist the idea that she loves me. I feel really happy when I talk to her. FYI she calls me ones in a while just to say hi and without telling her sister.

Is that considered cheating or what?

2006-10-29 18:51:49 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I've asked myself and here before. Before he left, he told me to behave and not be naughty. And then, he asked our mutual friend to tell me to be good and don't muck around. All these are done without so much of him calling from the new country. Does he like me ever?

2006-10-29 18:50:22 · 6 answers · asked by counterculturalist 3 in Singles & Dating

It’s like part of the time I’m crazy about him, then the other half I can’t think of him anything else then a friend. He has told me many times he felt he would never be able to get past me. I feel so selfish because it’s like he is so good to me...and I just don’t know where I stand. I care about him very much...sometimes it’s just friend-ish, but other times it hits me how much I wish we were still together (we had a very short relationship about a yr ago, that I broke off). He is so giving, just the fact that he has stuck through all the stuff I’ve put him through, and the fact that he seems to care about me so much.. I feel like I don’t deserve it. Anyway I hadn’t heard from him in a while, and was getting pretty upset (he hadn’t called me back, wrote me etc.).. If you look at my other ?s you will see that. But he just wrote me a letter telling me he’s been really busy w/ work and is “so, so, so sorry”.
What should I do? Do I tell him how I feel, or do I keep it to myself?

2006-10-29 18:49:09 · 11 answers · asked by jen 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend said he missed my birthday but he did not forget !?

If you were me, how do you feel?

His birthday is coming up, should I treat him the same?

2006-10-29 18:48:06 · 9 answers · asked by candy 3 in Singles & Dating