A while back me and this girl decided to go out and we went out for along time almost 2 years. Back then i really didnt know how i fealt about her and now its more clear then ever.i never really told her i loved her and i am greatly egretting it. The bad part is in less then a month shes gonna get married. I know that she still cares for me from when i spoken to her sister. he sister says she keep a picture of me by her bed and on her at all time. and she sometimes calls her brother by my name. The thing is she seems really happy when i saw her last week. Should i just let it go and let her live out her happiness or should i do something. any advice would help
2006-10-29 19:19:40 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
A while back me and this girl decided to go out and we went out for along time almost 2 years. Back then i really didnt know how i fealt about her and now its more clear then ever.i never really told her i loved her and i am greatly egretting it. The bad part is in less then a month shes gonna get married. I know that she still cares for me from when i spoken to her sister. he sister says she keep a picture of me by her bed and on her at all time. and she sometimes calls her brother by my name. The thing is she seems really happy when i saw her last week. Should i just let it go and let her live out her happiness or should i do something. any advice would help
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2006-10-30 00:39:31 · update #1
Gah stupid double post.
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Update: i buckled down and talked to her and it was like she'd seen a ghost. She latched onto me and didnt let go for a while. She told me she was engaged and i couldnt take so i came out and said it. i told her i loved her, and she cried in my arms for at least an hour. I sat down with her fiacne and the wierd thing was taht he wasnt upset. His words were: " look i could tell by the way she talked about you and the way she looked at your picture that she still had fealings for you, most people arent given a second chance but im gonna give you yours" about 4 hours of talking they decided to break off the engagemnet. To all of you that told me to go for it and talk to her i deeply thank you you have made me a happy man once again.
2006-10-30 00:43:52 · update #2
U might want to tell her as she may have been waiting for U all this time and gave up and thought it best to move on in her life...what can it hurt just to tell her how U feel? Better said then not and missed a chance that may have been but wont after her marriage.
2006-10-29 19:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by any1on 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What is the worst that could come from telling her? one she agrees with you and stops her wedding that could end in the future anyways due to her heart belonging to you rather then her husband. or 2 she goes through with the wedding and only you and her have to know you said anything. as for the other guy, as they say All is fair in love and war. so if you love her don't let your last chance slip away.
2006-10-30 03:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by relms2000 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex sounds like me! I think I got married becuz I didnt have my ex near by and when I saw him 6 months AFTER I got married,,,,... I felt so wierd. Like I wish I NEVER got married. I should have waited for him, becuz he was worth the wait, but becuz nothing was going on and I guess we all need change I did it. But this girl,,,,, your ex,... in deeply in love with you. The only reason she seemed happy was becuz she wants u to think so. But if you call her,... better yet,,... go see her,... ALONE without anyone,... she will drop everything for you. It seems like u were eachothers first REAL love. PLEASE keep me updated, under additional details
2006-10-30 03:26:39 · answer #3 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her how you feel, dont let it go! but dont also get hurt in the process. even though a women may feel something for the opposite sex doesnt mean she will just say ok, i wont get married. you can still care for someone in that way but not be with them. thats life, and **** happens. good luck
2006-10-30 03:24:31 · answer #4 · answered by j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop a hint, don't come all out and tell her how you feel, but just let her know that you are sorry that it is not you at the end of the isle and just see what she says.
2006-10-30 03:25:03 · answer #5 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If shes marrying someone else wake up shes in love with them marriage isnt something people do for a pass time its serious business,leave her alone.
2006-10-30 03:24:56 · answer #6 · answered by penn_av 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try talkin and see how she really feels . tell .hr u love her. She might have been waiting for u to say it all along .On the flip side she might break your heart , but that's just a chance u have to take .But bfore u do this do u really really really love her ?
2006-10-30 03:29:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say at least take the time to tell her how you feel. she may not know that you feel as strongly as you do. tell her yourself, don't go through her sister or anyone else. you will go crazy wonderng "what if", if you don't at least try. i wish you luck!
2006-10-30 03:22:27 · answer #8 · answered by Snowshadow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
watch all of those romance movies where the hero gets the girl in the end.
2006-10-30 03:22:15 · answer #9 · answered by cruddypantz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know unless you ask. Talk to her! See how she's feeling towards you, and ask her if she's absolutely certain she couldn't be happier with you.
2006-10-30 03:22:10 · answer #10 · answered by bezsenný 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋