Argument.
I Just Hate It.
Getting Tired Of It.
How Can I Avoid Being In An Arguement With My Boyfriend?
(Stress)
2006-10-29 18:59:45 · 8 answers · asked by Singapore_Lady 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
slow down..
ask urself, why do love him..
from when u love him & how can it happens??
try to look back ur dairy, pictures or any sweet memories..
try to talk to him.. talk is the point..
tell him tat ur feeling(tat u dont wanna any argument).. okay.. i think he'll listen to u..
forgive him.. always step back ur foot..
2006-10-29 19:07:09 · answer #1 · answered by Rosia R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to be right, that's your ego speaking, even if he is wrong. Haven't you heard of unconditional love?
Otherwise ditch him. Work on yourself to release this argumentative side of you. Check out alternative healing techniques like Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT)
http://www.emofree.com/
and The Sedona Method (look for cheap book with good revies on Amazon)
Also make sure you get enough sleep, eating good diet of fruits and vegetables (and adequate water [and vitamins, especially B and also fish oil supplement good for moody mind]). Make sure you keep body and mind busy with some meaningful work/study in school and work out in gym..so you too tired to fight all the time.
One big lesson is that he is your reflection. You can learn a lot about people by realizing they are innocent and it is your karma coming back to you. Of course you can ditch him but may repeat problem if it really is problem in you. But oh, isn't makeup sex good? Is that what keeps you there?
You're young, don't worry, I have fath in you. When you get older, and more tired, you will mellow out. And yes, many guys today very selfish and immature so that doesn't help. Sometimes older men finaly grow up, but not always the case. When all else fail...pray!
I don't recommend the counting of 1-10...maybe next you want to argue, go chant the Moola Mantra...very healing. Check out link below:
2006-10-29 19:30:06 · answer #2 · answered by FeeFee le Mew 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear- just go on listening, develop listening habit.
an argument is on only when both the people bark
just u listen and answer yes or no or ok
ur situation will be ok/
but u have to practise a lot for that dear.
and mind u , i am telling a woman to do that,
2006-10-29 19:03:01 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you two need to cool off for a while. It's getting quite unhealthy for the both of you.
2006-10-29 19:14:57 · answer #4 · answered by sheer♥black 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By not having a boyfriend.
2006-10-29 20:58:55 · answer #5 · answered by DrSH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
arguement is part of a relationship. it's either you agree with him or just forget it.
2006-10-29 19:25:03 · answer #6 · answered by DruNkStripPeR 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
agree with him or dump him
2006-10-29 19:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Ynot me 2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no relationship is worth all this............end it immediately
2006-10-29 21:51:29 · answer #8 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋