uggg high school ive dicided is a frightening place-help?

Question

ok so im not even new to high school anymore and i thought i got used to all the drama and shittt that happens.
well aparently im not and i have no idea what do to.
all my friends are doing drugs
getting drunk
getting pregnant
im not religious i dont want to be
all the christians ive ever met are terrible infulences
and i feel like it just backs me in a corner
well i do not have a relationship with any of my parents.
my best friend betrayed me [yes its that bad]
i already have a hard time trusting people as it is
im struggling in school CANNOT HAPPEN
i have strong morals for myself but they are so hard to keep.
well ive never done anything to the extent of
drugs//sex//alcohol but ohh godd its soooo tempting.
i jsut want to let it all go and live in the moment.
lose everything and have fun.
but ive learned everything the hard way and im learning
im terrified to go to parties and frightened by life
if i knew it would be THIS hard id started being stupid in middleschool

Answer 1

its ok. you are a normal teenager.

keep your head on straight & keep your morals. high school is so very different from the real world. so, don't worry, you just have to make it through and life will get much better!

as long as you graduate without getting pregnant & addicted to drugs, everything will be fine!

Answer 2

Well, if you've made it this far... why back down? Stick confident to yourself and what you want. Trying things out can be okay only if used in mediation. I drank/smoked/sexed in HS but I was always very careful about who/what/when/where.
If the only reason you want to try it is because everyone else is then you should stick to the path you're going. If you catch flack for it, stand up straight, put your shoulders back and tell em flat out that you just don't want to and if they're your friend, they should respect that. my line is usually, "wow, i thought i got away from peer preasure when i graduated high school"... some line that makes them feel immature for bugging you usually works, because what it comes down to is that they are being immature!

Answer 3

Ok, don't worry hun, you will be just fine. I will give you some really good advice. First of all, be yourself. Secondly, take school seriously. Try your best in all of your classes, even though they are boring. Try to do all of your homework. Believe me, you will feel better about yourself if you achieve good grades. You will be more intelligent, too. And plus you will get scholarships to get into college if you have good grades. Get involved with some clubs that interest you. Try out as a cheerleader, I know, they get a bad rep, but it is really fun. Get involved in sports, they are fun too. You meet cool people when you are active in school, and sports make you in good shape. Do not try drugs, believe me, they suck, I've tried them. You are too good for drugs, ok, always tell yourself that. Go ahead and go to parties, but that doesn't mean you have to get wasted at them, you don't even have to drink, just have fun. Be friendly to everyone, even if they are nerds, and even if they are snobs. Try out for Prom Queen, I know you can do whatever you put your heart into. But most importantly, be good to yourself, be good to others, be safe, use your instincts, do not have unprotected sex, and have fun. Good luck to you :)

Answer 4

From what I gather you are one of the great ones. Keep trusting what you're doing. Try to find sober friends, if not go it alone.

Answer 5

You need to go back now, life is what you make of it suck it up and stick it out.

Answer 6

welcome to the "real" world. Not. Funny thing about high school.
You graduate. Then comes college. The next "real" world.
You'll be fine if you stick to your guns.

peace.

Answer 7

sucks to be you lol!