Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

im easy to talk to and joke around with
ive been told that im both pretty and have a good personality
im also considered to be pretty smart but im not a bookworm or anything like that and im also athletic (soccer, xc and track)
i like to go out with my friends and just have fun

y havent any guys asked me out???
theyve shown interest in me and i have a lot of friends that r guys
am i doing something wrong or scaring them away some how???

2006-10-29 00:44:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 25/female/London , attractive and a good person, but it seems like I can't find someone to be in a relationship.

After being on Personals websites (Match and Yahoo personals) since the beginning of the year till now...I've finally given up...and I'm getting really depressed about not having found someone to be with.

I've been single forever, and I've never been in a relationship, because I'm waiting for a genuine connection, and I don't want to be in a relationship just for the sake of being in one...but it seems like the price to pay for that is daily lonliness.

I have lots of friends and they are all great, and I love my job and family , etc...but coming home in the evening and being in your flat alone through the night is becoming increasingly depressing...

Having been on countless dates, I'm just really amazed at how far people are willing to go to waster your time!

How can I cope with being single untill I meet that special person...although I've taken a break.

2006-10-29 00:44:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

before we got married, she had appx. 8000 in credit card and 18000 in school debt. we accrued nearly none while married. am i responsible for her debt when we divorce? (again, all debt was before we said "i do", and in her name solely)

2006-10-29 00:39:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

For ladies only?
i met this girl from my space
she is very nice looking
we sent messages back and forth
she did not want to give me her #
but she went with me to a family members party
she even wanted to come watch me play baskettball.
she say's things like maybe me and you can go someday (referring to a trip out of town)
she wants to work on music together.
ladies you know better than anyone else
so my question is~ she does like me right?
and why not the number?
we have not even known each other even a week

2006-10-29 00:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by DUSTY 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 00:36:55 · 11 answers · asked by sumu 3 in Friends

My Bestfriend, Pauline had a friend since Grade 1. Now, we're in Grade 5. Her friend's name is Jash. Once, Pau piched Jash lightly and said "You're so cute!" and Jash pinched Pau real hard and said "You're so ugly!!!!!". I can't beleive Jash. Now, part of our class is against her. I'm glad!:) Jash has BFFs too(I cant beleive she duz). They are Bianca and another Pauline. Pau calls them the treevils since she's weird(She addmitted it). Now, we're trying to spy on those evil treevils. What should I do to stop the maddness?!?!?!

2006-10-29 00:36:12 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Friends

2006-10-29 00:30:54 · 27 answers · asked by serene 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i would like to know the size of my partners ring without her knowing. how do you girls measure your rings. like do larger girls have a bigger ring size than smaller girls.

2006-10-29 00:30:52 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and we now live together. He has always been very open sexually and has never been ashamed about masturbation and porn. It has never really bothered me until recently. I know it is normal for guys to watch porn. But he has so many dvds, and he just leaves them out so when i come home i know what he was doing. We have great sex too, but even on the days when we have sex once or twice, i leave to go to work and come home and see that he has masturbated to a porn. Is it weird that I found that he recently went to the store and spent $60 bucks on 4 new dvds? Am i not giving him what he needs? does he watch too much porno? or is this all completely normal. Do all men who live with their girlfriends have the urge to masturbate to hard core porn?

2006-10-29 00:28:38 · 18 answers · asked by kristinng21 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm part of a small group,where the closest male i know is secretly gay but noone else knows this.and every time i'm around all of them,i feel that they're being lied to and that this guy's a hypocrite-i don't want to ruin my relationship with the guy,or the guy's relationship with the others-but i feel partly guilty for 'encouraging' this 'lie',is there something i can do which won't harm anyone?

or should i just lay back and do nothing?

2006-10-29 00:28:13 · 14 answers · asked by al 2 in Singles & Dating

For example I have a close circle of friends while he knows like every other guy on the planet. I like small get togethers with some alcohol and he likes wild parties. I only dated a few guys and let's say he's not inexperienced with girls. I certainly have no idea what he sees in me but he's constantly sending me sweet messages and he's overall really cute. I just don't know if it's worth even to try and begin something.

2006-10-29 00:28:00 · 6 answers · asked by kupumentira 2 in Singles & Dating

Im really sad and confused now...and i seriously nid some advice..
the prob goes like this...a few months back i met the girl....
she's nice and cute... at first there was nutin other den frens...den after a few months she bcame my pet sis...
den we started talking and chatting via MSN oftenly and even share our thoughts about anytin...i was happy den and oways smile whenver she says sumtin... although its not funny~
nowaday she rarely reply my IMs and SMSes...
i duno why but she is the only girl i think about everytime... i get really worried and down whenever she doesnt reply me...
i already have a GF and i really duno wat is happening to me...
i dun know wat to do ... HELP !!

2006-10-29 00:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by Stalloyde 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok my boyfriend has this one gurl je is friends with. and every time i have seen them together they flirt non-stop with each other. and he is always texting her with seeet stuff he use to say to me. i told him that i didn't like her to much so he stoped hanging out with her when im around. but i was looking through his cell last night and his text box (in and out) are full of her. he told me that they use to "mess" around but nothing came of it. what do i do. part of me says he is but the other is like he comes home with me and he just bought me a car he wouldn't cheat on me if he is paying for a car for me. i just don't know. I love him and know he loves me and i do trust him with my heart and soul but things don't add up. What do i do if i tell him hes gonna get mad cuz i went through his phone (and i understand that) but if i don't talk to him my imagenation is gonna get the best of me. PLEASE HELP

2006-10-29 00:24:49 · 17 answers · asked by gismo 1 in Singles & Dating

see i have to write an essay.
So you please help me

2006-10-29 00:20:31 · 1 answers · asked by jatinder s 1 in Friends

how do you know that this person in your life is the one that you are supposed to spend the rest of your life with? do you believe that you cant really choose who you fall in love with....that even though you envisioned a certain man/woman to be your true love...instead you fell in love with someone you might not have expected.?

2006-10-29 00:20:19 · 13 answers · asked by Vanessa 1 in Singles & Dating

the question sounds completely stupid,but i hope it makes sense.

spunky vs properly combed hair

that's really the dilemma.

2006-10-29 00:19:28 · 16 answers · asked by al 2 in Singles & Dating

She would let me do anything what should I do?
Thanks

2006-10-29 00:19:23 · 4 answers · asked by mullentaylor 1 in Friends

2006-10-29 00:17:42 · 10 answers · asked by Nyasi 3 in Singles & Dating

are they called ftiends if they do this only call me on fridays for clubbing

2006-10-29 00:16:09 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got this friend hu takes the bus with me rite. she's alrite, a nice girl and all but i don't like her in that way, just want to be her friend. I sit with her on the bus sometimes and talk to her during school. latley she's offered to help me with my work and that and i'm just wandering if i'm giving the wrong impression by spending this much time with her. also her birthday is coming up soon and since i am noo good with gifts i came here. wanted something that is nice, but doesn't give the wrong impression that i like her . . .

p.s. she's like 12-13 and i'm lik 17 so bit of an age diff, thats y i dun like her as such, if that's wat ur thinking. it's wierd and i'd get bagged out as a pedo so i mite just avoid that for another year or so . . . anyway any advice on my situation?

2006-10-29 00:14:47 · 9 answers · asked by flaming_ichigo 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 00:13:33 · 8 answers · asked by jillian007 1 in Singles & Dating

There is a guy friend of mine who use to be my best girls man who has intense feelings for me and I cant say the feeling is not mutual there is so much chemistry between us but the odds are great, besides him being my girls ex he's got another girl aswell my sister who is closer to him than I am refuses to hear of us too. When ever we are together we always end up in contact we have never kissed when I say in contact I mean close the feelings are so intense that he came over to my house at midnight, he didn't say or do anything just asked me to hold him, every conversattion we have ends up being about us he once said one day we will end up together he insists that I give us a chance but I cant mainly because of my best friend but I think I love him like deeply because when he calls I get butterflys in my tummy my man started asking questions so now I think I should get over him cause there is no way we can be together too many people will get hurt..

2006-10-29 00:13:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So if i say time,faith, and courage all it took to find magic and love? What would you say?

2006-10-29 00:12:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my best friend are having a fite and i dont kno wut to do i like him and all but he is really annoying sometimes it waznt even my fault and he got all mad....I am 12 and i dont kno what to do....any ideas i go back to school tomarrow......

2006-10-29 00:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What is going on???with my ex?
why does he do this and what does it mean???please help?

he left me and he keeps contacting me. he eventually said he was cutting all contact and changed his number. then he contacts me by pranking my phone and rining my sister. why say no contact and keep contacting me. and why does he keep contacting me like turning up at my house and work?does he still have feelings for me?otherwise why would he still contact me?im confused

2006-10-29 00:06:17 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ever since I was younger, I've always fantasized about being with or doing stuff with older women (25 - 30+ years of age). Are there any women in this age group who would go for a guy my age? If so, where's the best place to meet them?

2006-10-29 00:04:12 · 3 answers · asked by Spencer 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 00:04:12 · 20 answers · asked by ♥ ashtray ♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 00:03:42 · 14 answers · asked by serene 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Please forgive me I know some of you will take offence,but I see so many of you living together with no thought of family or church,using vulgar language,filled with hate and angry at the world.And please don't push me off as some self rightous nut,I haven't always done the right things myself,but I never felt justified in doing them.

2006-10-29 00:02:33 · 14 answers · asked by don_steele54 6 in Friends

2006-10-29 00:01:34 · 16 answers · asked by forfru 2 in Singles & Dating