Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

hi all;

this might sound like a daft question but ill ask it anyway - at work I have been talking to a colleague on the phone a lot - seems cool guy and I want to make friends - i know they like the gym - would it look over the top to see if they want to go for a training session (ice breaker so to speak) to make friends ?

Or should I just ask them to go for a drink ? I've never met them but just feel as though we'd get on - I want to boost my social life and they seem cool...

Cheers !

2006-10-29 23:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I am married for last 22 years and have two children. She also had an extramarital affair but I got over it. Her poor interest in sex has caused me a lot of trauma.

2006-10-29 23:32:08 · 20 answers · asked by romantic_v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I never talked to my dad before, not until 2 days before my 16th birthday. He decided to call me. It was cool and all. Buttt. like. I don't know if I want him in my life. I don't know what to do. I found out I have a brother and another sister by him. Which totally sucks because all these years I thought I was the only child. So what should I do? Let him in my life, or push him away? I'm truely confused.

2006-10-29 23:31:20 · 24 answers · asked by [.MamaBugg.] 4 in Family

I can’t think anymore! My bf is mad at me over a stupid stuff, I really don’t even know why he is really mad, on Saturday we were suppose to go to the movies, but I had promise my sister a week a go to babe sit he kids, so I called and said I couldn’t go to the movies, he didn’t really let me finish what I was saying he just said ok I will go by my self, and he said I will call u back and he said bye and hung up, so that night I called him to let him know, he can came and baby sit with me, he didn’t call me back, I called yesterday left a message he didn’t pick his phone up, and I even call him this morning he didn’t answer me. I am trying to consenter in my school work and do my home work, but I cant think street, I am thinking going over his house and talk to him??? Or what should I do please read and answer me pleaseeee

2006-10-29 23:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by sweet84 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean when a girl likes a guy, will she really wait for the guy to make the move? As in she won't initiate the conversation online even though she can drop a message?

2006-10-29 23:30:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 23:29:54 · 9 answers · asked by DOMINATUS 3 in Friends

does anyone know what i can do for a 2year anniversary?? mabey a romantic hotel or present that aint that expensive?

2006-10-29 23:29:51 · 8 answers · asked by blondie 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years and he turned 18 in April. And some people said that he can get arrested for being with me. I love him so much an dI don't want him to get in trouble because of me.

2006-10-29 23:29:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a crush on a guy but he likes my bff , well used to but anyway i'm to afraid to tell him i like him bc he now has more intreast in me WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2006-10-29 23:29:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This maybe a long shot but it is well worth a try as I am at a dead end...... Does anyone know of a woman called Gertrude Evans, formally Gertrude Farr, she use to live in a small village called Hickleton in south yorkshire from or before 1955 - 1968, she once was married to a guy called Fredrick Evans, (she may still be). Her and her husband worked for the Earl & Countess of Halifax.If anyone knows of her or her family, please let me know, I am desperate to find her or some of her family, This is no gimmick. I need to find her or her family, as she is my mum.

2006-10-29 23:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by ojay 2 in Family

My friend has told me that my close female friend believes that I’m dating another girl, who's quite a looker and that she’s happy for me! At the same time, she has been acting weird (feeling down,tired,can't approach other blokes) towards me, gone cold, not wanting to meet, not saying much, practically ignoring me!!!-didn't have argument/falling out. Is she feeling jealous? My behaviour towards her has not changed since I’ve ‘started dating’ this girl, only her’s towards me. A coincidence?

Does this show that she actually fancies/has feelings for me? If she’s happy for me, why is she ignoring me? Why has she not mentioned/spoken to me about this girl e.g. how’s it going, etc surely good friends would?

p.s. I’m not dating anyone, the looker is only a friend who I don’t fancy at all, have feelings for my close female friend.

What can I do? I don't want us to drift apart and don't want to lose her! Help...

2006-10-29 23:28:05 · 25 answers · asked by roadtripman90 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 23:26:35 · 16 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Singles & Dating

Have wish what would it be?

2006-10-29 23:24:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a girl friend. I used to flirt with her, move around, have fun (NO SEX except kissings & touches). But i was already engaged to another girl before i started liking this girl. Now i realise that i am in love with this gril and can't think a life without her. Its a difficult situation for me. I am getting married after 1 month. Don't know what to do?
This 2nd girl is my parent's choice, she is also very cute and a good person from a good family and very cultured. I sense her love for me and i guess it is not possible to desclose about my first love to her. She will die.
please help me.

2006-10-29 23:22:46 · 33 answers · asked by zarar don 2 in Weddings

Why cant i stop being such a chicken, and just frieken talk to him? Im so shy when it comes to guys, how can I get over my shyness, and talk to him? PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!! I hate not being able to talk to him, Im missing out on a great guy!

2006-10-29 23:22:11 · 5 answers · asked by kassie07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i am doin my last yr in skool and our class has planned on bringing out a class magazine.....
could u guys suggest some really creative names for the magazine......

may b somethin abt how we've loved each and every day of our skooling or somethin.....

it has to b short 'n 'snappy


plz help guys.....

2006-10-29 23:21:21 · 15 answers · asked by chocolate 1 in Friends

2006-10-29 23:19:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am very shy in front of a person I happen to know and I am afraid if he knows he will think bad of me.

2006-10-29 23:19:34 · 14 answers · asked by katia 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-29 23:16:02 · 2 answers · asked by tony r 1 in Singles & Dating

If your 21 yr old boyfriend who lives alone got a call in the morning from the hospital to let him know that his mother killed herself shortly after you arrive what are you supposed to do?I stayed while the initial shock left him but then left to give him some space .This was a week ago,now he calls me a heartless ***** for having left him by himself.What was I supposed to do?I told him to call if he needed me.Was I wrong?

2006-10-29 23:15:17 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After my last relationship finish i started a new one 3 days later, some may think this is too soon, yet some agree that i was single and free to do this.

It takes your mind off the break-up and your attentions turn to your new partner.

But how long would be be view as right? Is my ex only upset because i met somebody new before she did?

2006-10-29 23:14:36 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband wants to share sex with another couple or woman just for sex.But, he knows i don't want to, he looks dissapointed and he says i'm not an opened minded person.

2006-10-29 23:14:10 · 16 answers · asked by marielle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a test for you ladies.all i ask of you is that you be completly honest when you answer this question.
If you meet two suitors, one a millionaire who scores seven out of ten in your compatibility test and the other on a sh 10,000 a month salary but scores 10 out of 10 in your compatibility test , to which one would you say yes?

2006-10-29 23:11:06 · 17 answers · asked by Omar 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in the United States of America and why is it that so many women are not virgins until they are married? Why do they want to prove their independence and not need a man? Why do these women think that it is unfair for them to be a traditional wife? Don't they understand that it is the man's job to take care of her financially and her job to take care of him emotionally and feed his ego?

2006-10-29 23:11:04 · 17 answers · asked by Go For Broke 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Sure, its excitting when you have to work to get it. But what do you do when you have easy access to sex, and so the thrill is gone? Not with one particular partner, but with partners in general?

2006-10-29 23:11:00 · 9 answers · asked by pathobby99 1 in Singles & Dating

im realy thinking about fostering have you been a foster carer please help me

2006-10-29 23:10:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am divorced but still use the surname of my ex husband as we have a little boy together and it is easier for our child to understand.

I am now pregnant with my second child with a different father, who is not going to be involved.

Am I able to give my baby my surname which is my ex-husband's even though we are divorced or will the baby have to be registered with my maiden name?

2006-10-29 23:09:41 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Do they cry? especially when they are the ones who ended the relationship. Can they easily convince themselves to move on and let-go? What if the guy always see the ex-girlfriend in school because they're classmates? Does that make a big difference to what the guy might think.

2006-10-29 23:09:15 · 23 answers · asked by joanna08 2 in Singles & Dating

i love my friend ooo my god he is my best friend how could i love him he talks with me about his girlfriend and tells me how much he loves her and i oh mu god i am so bad am i a friend ???

2006-10-29 23:09:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i think ive lost my peter 4 good he moved out of our house gone back to his mams, he says ther no going back now, i asked him if he loves me and he said yes but he will never get back with me. i cant cope with out him he is my 1 true love. i only read his texts and he went mental help!!!

2006-10-29 23:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by x_shephie_x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships