i think ive lost my peter 4 good he moved out of our house gone back to his mams, he says ther no going back now, i asked him if he loves me and he said yes but he will never get back with me. i cant cope with out him he is my 1 true love. i only read his texts and he went mental help!!!
2006-10-29 23:04:56 · 14 answers · asked by x_shephie_x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Trust me.........there is life beyond your precious Peter
2006-10-30 00:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by classy&sassy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you can cope without him, stop being so bloody dramatic. He's only a guy after all. Actually, by the sound of things he is the one in control here, not good, not good at all.
First of all, he didn't like you reading his texts. Why?
Plus, why did you read his texts? Do you have any reason not to trust him?
He says he loves you but won't get back with you. Ever. That sounds like anger - at you reading his texts. So what's he hiding?
And you say he's you one true love and you won't be able to cope without him. Cope with what, exactly?
On the coping side of it, he sounds more like a mental crutch than a boyfriend. I would suggest to try coping without him for a few weeks. It will be easier than you think.
2006-10-29 23:12:23 · answer #2 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You only broke trust and vialated privacy. If you trust him then you would not feel the need to read his texts. Everyone has the right to privacy and he doesn't have to tell you everything. Remember most ppl only text their friends, and what guys say to mates are very rarely what they say to their girlfriends, because of the way they interact. And you broke that privacy.
Think about it, how would you feel if he did that to you? Would you feel like he was checking your every move because he doesn't trust you?
I don't know if you can get him back, but if it is ever going to work you need to talk to him, and understand that everyone has the right to be trusted and the right to privacy.
Reading texts can also be only part of a story, and it is easier to take texts out of text because you are not involved in the whole story
2006-10-29 23:13:43 · answer #3 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he went mental coz you read his text what has he got to hide??? Yes of course it was wrong to go through his phone and yes he would be mad but to end a relationship because of it seems to be a bit extreme. Are you sure this was not an excuse for him leave?? This could have been the get-out-clause he was looking for!!
2006-10-29 23:13:32 · answer #4 · answered by Aero 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't force people to love you. It may take a while but you will get over him. Don't spend your life looking in the past, move on and enjoy your life.>
2006-10-30 00:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pletnty more fish in the ur not the 1st or the last this has happen 2 for ur on benifit get over it
2006-10-29 23:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reading his texts inplies to me he had a bad conscience (check spelling, re- jiminy cricket type thing)
anyway... if he says it over, dont go grovelling back... that might be exactly what he wants....
If my g/f went balistic cos i went through her messages i'd think she was hiding something from me...
but i'm a suspicious person....
2006-10-29 23:08:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with silly billy. If you were looking at his texts, you were lokking for something, if you were looking for something then there is a trust issue there. Without trust you have nothing. Move on...Next!
2006-10-29 23:11:44 · answer #8 · answered by Liggy Lee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He must have something to hide, but besides that if he really loves you then he might come back when things calm down and gets over his huff, Does his Mum really want him back.???
2006-10-29 23:12:13 · answer #9 · answered by Ivan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He used that as an excuse to leave. Why do you want someone back who doesn't want you? You need to be strong and move on.
2006-10-29 23:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lioness 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋