I am very shy in front of a person I happen to know and I am afraid if he knows he will think bad of me.
2006-10-29 23:19:34 · 14 answers · asked by katia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, it's fine. You're not gonna do anything with him so what's the problem. Just relax and have fun. Good luck. xx
2006-10-29 23:24:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I have learnt that it is natural to have crushes on ppl when you are with someone long term, that is not the problem. I would talk to my partner about it, and be open....but it is what you do with those feelings. If you know you have them and would do nothing about it then it is all right.
I am not an expert, but I have had one crush and my fiance has had 3...means nothing because neither of us were ever going to do anything about it. We talk openly when it happens, and then laugh about it later.
2006-10-29 23:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by chelles_insanity 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
see its the nature of humans to get attracted to new things according to me. it doesn matter if u r married, u can definitely've feelings 4 dat person. but no need to b shy, just b normal n friendly. u seem to be extremely nervous but plez relax coz there's no fault of urs. GOOD LUCK!!
2006-10-30 00:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by DrAmA QuEeN 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are MARRIED! if you had any sense you would not act on any feelings you had for this other person! the only tiome its ok to do so is when you are out of your marriage if it is an unhappy one! Just think of the hurt that would be caused to all involved.
2006-10-29 23:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
my question is are you in a happy marriage because if you was you would not have time for crushing on someone else.. no you not wrong for feeling this way . but you should ask yourself why are you feeling this way about another person.. i think somethings wrong in your marriage.. and you should find out what..somethings missing thats why you are looking somewhere else..
2006-10-29 23:30:45 · answer #5 · answered by laydofluv25 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah, its alright, even if you are married but still you have feeling in your heart. that's happened.....
what is feeling? actually you can not stop your heart to love someone even if you are married, Love is pure and selfless. so, its alright.
no one feel bad if he is know that you have some feeling about him.
2006-10-29 23:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by harry_d 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with your fillings coz u can not control them, so if i was you I'll tell him,and let him think what ever he want,at least you will know where u stand and you can move on.
2006-10-30 03:45:47 · answer #7 · answered by rafik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably avoid that person. Feelings like that could lead to adultery and problems in your marriage, possibly even divorce.
If you're not ready to divorce, keep to youself and mind your husband. You loved him first.
2006-10-29 23:27:31 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
It is never wrong to have feelings for anyone. It is wrong to act on them if your married though.
2006-10-29 23:22:59 · answer #9 · answered by Captain Comment 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is absolutely right and interestingly he will not mind to reciprocate , if you give him a nice cute smile .
2006-10-29 23:34:42 · answer #10 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋