hi all;
this might sound like a daft question but ill ask it anyway - at work I have been talking to a colleague on the phone a lot - seems cool guy and I want to make friends - i know they like the gym - would it look over the top to see if they want to go for a training session (ice breaker so to speak) to make friends ?
Or should I just ask them to go for a drink ? I've never met them but just feel as though we'd get on - I want to boost my social life and they seem cool...
Cheers !
2006-10-29 23:32:51 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yeah I think the gym would be your best option then if nothing comes of it, it's not like you went on a date. Also there;ll be less expectations on both parts.
Having something to do first time always helps especially if the conversation doesn't flow.
Go for it!
Good luck!
2006-10-29 23:41:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would ask them to grab a bit to eat at a VERY casual place. That way there is no possible competion thing, and a drink may not be thier "thing" especially if they are into working out.
2006-10-29 23:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by sonkysst 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should stick to asking them things that are both your interest in hun. That way you dont get stuck doing something you dont like and arent being phony. Maybe a nice hard workout then a drink!
2006-10-29 23:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by btsnpieces 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think asking if they fancy going for a drink is more honest and up front.....Going to the gym maybe a bit stalkerish!!!!! Just ask, be brave, you have to make the effort to make new friends!! Good luck. xx
2006-10-29 23:36:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not, workin out is actually a pretty cool way to break the ice with someone..Go For It
2006-10-29 23:37:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest tell them they sound very interesting and you'd like a nice drink and a chat.
2006-10-29 23:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My advice would be a drink first. get chatting and then suggest the gym. good luck!
2006-10-29 23:38:33 · answer #7 · answered by Unhinged.... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd mention the gym thing ,it sonds like less of a date !!
2006-10-29 23:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by IloveMarmite 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask them out for a drink,
2006-10-29 23:35:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask quesions first. see if you do get on. then go for drink and then do an activity after.
2006-10-29 23:43:17 · answer #10 · answered by russellhamuk 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋