Do they cry? especially when they are the ones who ended the relationship. Can they easily convince themselves to move on and let-go? What if the guy always see the ex-girlfriend in school because they're classmates? Does that make a big difference to what the guy might think.
2006-10-29 23:09:15 · 23 answers · asked by joanna08 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think that was another chance to learn something new and to try to don't make the same mistakes twice. Perhaps a good chance to find someone better, also depends the circumstances of the breaking up.
2006-10-29 23:12:59 · answer #1 · answered by Javy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do repent after breaking a relationship but they'll never make a show of it. After all, men are known to put up a brave face during the toughest of times. You see, if there was a particular reason for breaking up, then there are several reasons for missing the woman they had fallen in love with. But accepting their mistake is like swallowing their bloated egos and playing into the hands of their ex. And if they are in that unfortunate position where they have to face her day-in, day-out, then it's almost synonymous to Chinese torture for them. But, but, but, they'll either pretend not to be affected and be as normal as possible or simply try to ignore the girl and make her feel as if she's no longer needed in his life. But that's never the case. Men do miss their exes, that is, till the time they find a replica of the girl they've split with. And I'm talking about characteristics and demeanour here. But yes, it's quite hard for them to let go and move on. And they do cry, if not outside then surely within. But given a full-blown invitation, they'd go scurrying back to their exes. And since she's made the move, they wouldn't have to take the blame for the patch-up in case there's a spat between them in the future. Heads I win, Tails You Lose!!
2006-10-30 02:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Kamal S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes real men do cry....... it all depends on the intensity of the relationship. And yes if the relationship did not mean a thing to them for whatever reason they are able to convince themselves and move on.
2006-10-29 23:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by srisri c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the guys look emotionally tough from outside, actually from inside they are weak. They do the break-up but cannot re-approach the girl coz their false guy ego comes inbetween and their advisors (bunch of fools) give lots of false ego type advice. My girl friend left me, i cannot able to carry myself but cannot show the world coz the people say that see this guy crying like a girl. Guys have a heart too, not all guys are flirt, same as like all girls are not flirt. Guys have a heart too.nothing to say more.
2006-10-30 00:07:44 · answer #4 · answered by Zakir 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um properly .. i've got had 3 relationships interior the previous and each and all of the adult males have come back .. no longer unavoidably desirous to rekindle the dating yet greater to particular their sense sorry approximately. It relies upon on the guy. From what i've got experienced it ought to take 3 years or 6 months...
2016-11-26 19:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends how much they thought about the woman when they were with her and why he ended. If it's a long time, it wasn't meant to last. You need time to process your feelings and move on before you start another serious relationship, or just start dating for fun and explore new things that you've always wanted to do.
2015-12-19 13:54:51 · answer #6 · answered by Jewels 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Men Don't Cry" Just kidding. I cry once when i broke up with my girlfriend. but she started crying first so i did also cry.
Yes, we easily move on and let-go.
for being a classmate, it's the hardest thing. It's s hurt like burning in Hell.
2006-10-29 23:13:06 · answer #7 · answered by DenRoCK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We guys are also sensitive like girls, the only difference is we dont cry like girls, otherwise we will become the laughing stock of our friends and relatives...
Whoever initiates the break-up, guys have to act "tough" just because they are guys...I agree some weak-hearted emotional ones take extreme steps like suicide or revenge...
2006-10-29 23:15:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all it varies man to man.......but the basic instinct is they too feel sad after a break up. Now since mother nature has made boys and girls with a different mentality so like gals they normally never weeps or cries in front of others..that hurts their male ego.........but they too cry....it is like internal hemorrhage which is too critical and painful
2006-10-29 23:14:01 · answer #9 · answered by deadestport 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i cried when i first broke off. It was a strong relationship for 3 yrs which broke due to the scenario created by her parents. We both cried. I still miss her till day.
We guys too have a heart - as soft as you, but we try to control our emotions.
Difficult!!!! i know.
but MARD KO DARD NAHI HOTA kindoff feeling.
Cheers
2006-10-30 04:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by zarar don 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋