Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

I met a guy through internet dating. Before we met in person, we chatted on the phone and he would text me every morning and night just say hi. There were many flirting and teasing too. Before we met up last weekend- i was worried that he was just after sex. So I asked directly and he said he wanted both sex and maybe more but who knows. We met up then there r so many chemistry btw us so we snogged for 2 hrs! Then he came alone to see me again the next day as we live in different cities. I said I could not invite him to my place because we would jump into bed. He said it was fine just meet me 4cafe- after one cafe he said he wanted to go home to chill out. I felt bad then invite him home for DVDs. i ended up giving him a hand job but nothing more. He txted me in 2days with a hi. On3rd nights we talked on phone but he got an ex stay in his flat.He introduced us over phone latersaid he didnot have sex with her that night 4 unknown reasons. Should i believe him and keep in touch with him?

2006-10-29 02:52:25 · 11 answers · asked by confusedgirl 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 02:52:18 · 24 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

For my girlfriend's birthday, i wrote her a book with poems that i wrote and some by others. How will u guys feel if u receive such a present? Will a book of poems be too much, such that each single entry lose its effect?

2006-10-29 02:52:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 02:52:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My mom was killed 9 years ago by a drunk driver. She was walking home she was in front of the apartment complex next to where we lived when he came out of no where and hit her. He stoped looked at her then drove off. There was witness that saw his licennesse plate # and saw him so that's how they found him. Me and my 2 sister all unage at her death got 73 thousand each. But apart of me have always wanted to meet this guy who killed her and ask if he has changed any. However, I don't feel its my place to go and bring up something he already has to live with.

2006-10-29 02:51:13 · 24 answers · asked by Sondra 3 in Family

I cant forget that my bf cheated me. How to forget it? he is not my bf anymore but i always have to think about what he made. it is like a knife in my heart...

2006-10-29 02:51:12 · 8 answers · asked by xxx 2 in Singles & Dating

hi me & my friend (girl) stopped talking 4 the past 2 years. just misunderstandings but i really care 4 her as a tru friend i want 2 clear all misunderstandings & tell her that i care 4 her. but the problem is 1 of my friend said that if i talk to that girl again he will tell her that i stopped talking 2 my mother due 2 her & that i've been on fasting 4 her sake 4 the past 3 years wishing & praying 2 god that she should get a gud hubby & nice in-laws. i don't want that girl 2 know these things. i've been wasting time whether 2 tell her the actual things or not. what to do? i am not bothered whether she will understand my friendship or not but just i want to tell her that i care for her. any suggestions? don't think that i am obsessive with this girl. normally i do care for everyone. even for my old neighbours & friends (this includes ladies also)

2006-10-29 02:50:35 · 8 answers · asked by Dvij 3 in Friends

What suppose to do when you love someone then you know that she has married 9 years ago.
In addition, she cannot get the divorce.
Please advice me

2006-10-29 02:50:30 · 6 answers · asked by Walid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im sick again thinking about this guy. i just want his thought to stop popping in my head. i cant keep busy every waking moment. im running out of options. even when i have free time the thought of him gaps in and downs me once again. how can i stop this pattern? ive gotten plenty of advice but the thought of what this guy did to me and that he somewhat got a kick out of seeing me hurt just wont go away. ive done all i can. i know he doesnt care and i still keep dwelling on it. i need one last emergency advice cause this sht is killing me. i know it would be like im still letting him take over my life if i continue to this. im aware off all my choices but this sucks and im getting depressed slowly. i feel it coming. plz help. some really stong kind words would do alot of easy this pain right now. he hurt me and i mean bad. and the thought of how he is having fun and sleeping like a baby at night makes me think the unthinkable. plz help someone anyone?

2006-10-29 02:50:16 · 17 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

is it true..that if you love someone, if u let it go, it'll come bak..thats how u kno if its meant to be?

2006-10-29 02:49:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you tell someone about a guy you are in love with and you only 14 years old they just say 'what do you know your not really in love you just think your in love but your not really' or they say 'your too young to be in love' etc etc.
its just not true. and why do some people just think anyone who takes drugs as a loser. maybe they had a reason for starting.

and when i say that i love a guy who is on drugs they just tell me to keep away or leave him. i mean if you were on drugs and were going through a rough time would you want everyone who loved you to leave you?

2006-10-29 02:49:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 02:49:38 · 5 answers · asked by harish w 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband says that i have been saying another mans name in my sleep.Should i feel guilty,or do i really have to justify my dreams to him?I think it might be who i am talking about that really bothers him,but again i cannot control it.

2006-10-29 02:48:33 · 6 answers · asked by Pardon Moi? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 02:48:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 02:48:10 · 1 answers · asked by blue_velvet22000 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 02:47:47 · 14 answers · asked by Romeo (The Original) 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to flirt with a guy but not enough to let him know for sure that I am attracted. I need examples of fun, and maybe even mysterious ways of flirting. Phrases, actions, looks etc. Also note that we know each other and see each other on a daily basis, but we are involved in a work environment and he is my superior. So the atmosphere is friendly but still slightly distanced.

2006-10-29 02:47:19 · 2 answers · asked by bebackhome_safe 2 in Singles & Dating

She used to live on Poplar Ave. in East Kildonan in Winnipeg,Manitoba. My name is Gary , and I would very much like to contact her again. We Knew each other back in 1985. If anyone knows her please get her to contact me. P.S. she may be living in Thunder Bay, Ontario now.

2006-10-29 02:45:49 · 1 answers · asked by lonewolfrig 1 in Friends

My ex and I were together for over five years, about 2 weeks ago I broke off our relationship and asked him to leave. Ever since he left he has been spending everyday around my family members and finding excuses to stop by my house. When he stops over he lingers around. I sat him down and asked him why he was doing this and he said he didn't have anywhere else to go. But he does have a large group of other friends he used to spend time with while we were together. What is his deal? I told him that by being around so much it made things harder for me, but he didn't respond. I think he is already out meeting other women, I saw him dancing with another woman last weekend, and last night he stopped by to pick up a set of keys all decked out ready to go out. I need some input here. I was thinking of talking to him about us going to counseling, but don't know if I should bother.

2006-10-29 02:45:49 · 13 answers · asked by kandekizzez 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Won't those things always be in the back of your mind?

2006-10-29 02:45:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Would you please share your experiences? I'm considering getting certified to be a foster parent. Just want to know if anyone can tell me what its like. Difficulties, challenges. I just want to get a general idea of what I will be dealing with if I become a foster parent.

2006-10-29 02:45:12 · 5 answers · asked by jerrri 4 in Family

Here's the deal: I have known this girl for over 4 years now and we're really good friends. I kinda went crazy for her suddenly about 2 months ago, but wasn't sure what to do because, well, we were friends and I didn't want to ruin that by asking her out. But about two weeks ago I stopped thinking suddenly, and in a moment of bravery ran after her and asked her out. It was probably the worst thing you've ever seen, but she had a big wonderful smile on her face after I asked her. But now its been two weeks and she still hasn't said anything. I mean, we've talked and stuff and done stuff together, but she hasn't actually inclined wether its yes or no either way. I asked some friends, they say its up to her to make the next move, but I don't know what to think. Most probably she is about as shy as I am about it, and that's why nothing's been said yet. Also, there is a dance coming up soon that I would like to ask her to, but I don't know if I should, or if shes expecting me to, or what.

2006-10-29 02:44:33 · 14 answers · asked by Paul W 2 in Singles & Dating

My two best friends broke up. He broke up with her, and ever since he's been acting really mean to her. But whenever *I* ask what's up, he always acts like nothings the matter and everythings all peachy keen. He's been flirting with just about every girl he can come in contact, and he's started burning things again after he stopped. He refuses to just talk to her so they can move on. He's a guy, and so he was really perverted in the first place, but now he's just being over the top--he made a 'joke' about a 14 year old girl and her 4 year old sister sleeping in the same bed!

Why does he do this? Why is he being such a jackass to my friend? Why won't he talk to me, and tell me whats going on, acting like everythings normal even though he doesn't talk to her anymore? What's going on?

2006-10-29 02:44:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my wife is leaving is it possible to get her name off the morgage papers without her signing and how, was told that because she not paid a penny towards morgage it should be easy.

2006-10-29 02:44:10 · 24 answers · asked by okdude2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like everytime i do something wrong
but nothing serious though
I always say
i wish i can go back in time!
dont u have the same thought too?

2006-10-29 02:43:12 · 21 answers · asked by Pinky 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 02:41:43 · 6 answers · asked by diane 1 in Singles & Dating

He sometimes puts words in my mouth and we just dont get along very often.

2006-10-29 02:41:06 · 7 answers · asked by amber_nicole_zachary 1 in Family

I am in love with someone. We had a relationship four years ago and his cousin told him many bad things about me(that are not and will never be true)and we broke up. But, all these years i love him with the passion i felt the first day i met him. But he has his life now and i am alone, next year i am going outside my country to study in a university but he will be in my heart forever. I have never done anything with anyone from the day i broke up with my first love, Mark. I know i must be happy, i mean i will go to Harvard University, me a girl from Europe who isn't from a rich family and she has the best opportunity in her life, but i can't stop thinking about him. What can i do? Help, please.

2006-10-29 02:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by Melany 1 in Singles & Dating

married for 33 years then my husband left me for another woman.

2006-10-29 02:39:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

at monopoly mind you,

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkZNkigbpmXkkw2W_OOADvvzy6IX?qid=20061029072104AAhy2gQ

Some of the answers to this question are encouraging my wife to divorce me, because I'm cheating on her at monopoly.

What kind of advice do you give people with real problems?

2006-10-29 02:38:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce