2006-10-29 02:52:04 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
does ur x feel the same? regardless if he does or not, dnt jeopardise wat uv got..uv got a husband and kids..think logically..u could lose what uv got..stay away from ur x..its psycological..u just want wat u cant have..if u left ur hubby, ud prob want him bak cos u cudnt have him. STAY AWAY for ur own good..xxx
2006-10-29 03:16:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is it love or lust?
everybody can condomne you but i know from experience what it is like. The only difference is that i wasn't married. I finally married my ex, and it all good. Lately I gave birth to a baby girl and believe me, i think she is now the most important thing in my life.
Do I still love my ex? to bits! but when it comes to my baby the choice is clear, I want her to be secure and I think for that, she needs both her parents, loving parents. they will have to deals with so many problems and i don't think it is a good idea to be one of them.
Remember they are all human beeings and they hurt.
you can dump the husband but what the ex is not what you are expecting? are you sure he loves you and commited to you. what if he dumps u? sometimes love is so confusing .
Be honest with yourself; if your marriage is any good then stay for those kids. Remember love will never answer you the day you will ask it why??? anything can happen!
2006-10-29 07:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by Mex d'or 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say wether you are happily married? If you are then I would advise you too stay away. If you are not happily married then follow your heart. Always putting your kids first they are your priority, but think why is he an ex? Obviously wasn't so good in the first place.
2006-10-29 02:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GROW UP! there is a reason an ex is an ex. of ur not happy in ur marriage then start getting happy. stop fantasizing about some blast from the past like a tragic loser - its pathetic and pointless. ur kids will thank u for it.
2006-10-29 03:27:13 · answer #4 · answered by bettie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is something u have to really think about...if u dont love ur wife and u love ur ex u should be w/ the one u love!!
b/f u divorce ur wife tho think about these things...
ur kids!
will ur ex want u back?
sit down and talk to ur wife maby she can get a little more active and u could actually make this work but!
also talk to ur ex and see if theres even n e thing that could happen between yall!
2006-10-29 03:17:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still love an ex maybe you shouldn't of got married.
2006-10-29 02:55:09 · answer #6 · answered by Tara 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Too late! You are re-married and you made the choice yourself. Don't try to go back to your past but build a better future with your present. I'm sure you will be happy in the long run!!
2006-10-29 03:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by chints 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This problem is faced by many, especially if your ex is your first love. It is always very difficult to erase these memories. They always impact you for long..You should however be discrete and not disturb the apple cart and never resort to anything which is not socially acceptable. You learn to do this as you mature in worldly ways.
2006-10-29 02:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself why you left him in the first place, and get on with your life. It rarely works going back to an ex.
2006-10-29 05:53:09 · answer #9 · answered by F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave the ex well alone. or you will get hurt so will your husband and kids. he is an ex for a reason
2006-10-29 02:54:50 · answer #10 · answered by debbie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well,theres nothing much you can do but to just accept the fact that you are no more a kid where as you have responsibility of a family on your shoulders and learn to live happily with what got has granted you with!!good luck!!
2006-10-29 03:04:20 · answer #11 · answered by country_girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋