Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

I think my new boyfriend is allready getting bores
should i have sex with him or not
and how could i hav a special night with him that he wil not forget

2006-10-29 03:42:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A few months ago I met with an ex and all the feelings rushed back and I realized I never fell out of love with him - we broke up so long ago simply because we were too young. Now I am married with kids to a very sweet man. There is no future or possiblities with the ex, he is also married with kids and in love with his wife. My issue is that I now realize I am not in love with my husband and I'm just unhappy. I'm thinking of leaving - not for the ex, because there is no future there, but just because living with someone you are not in love with is awful. But I don't want to break up our family because of our children. What do I do? Can this be repaired? I want to be in love with my husband but I think my heart is spoken for, always has been, so in this case am I better off giving my husband the opportunity to meet someone who can actually love him back?

2006-10-29 03:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by I'm Trying 3 in Marriage & Divorce

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-29 03:42:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My daugther is 4 years old. She sleeps by me with me and my husband. Do you think she should stay alittle bit more with us in our bed or do you thinks shes ready to go sleep on her own. If so, should it be in a new bedroom, because i have a bedroom ready for her, or should i put a bed on the side of my bedroom and let her sleep their. What do you think. And at what age should all this happen. Thanks and 10ptz

2006-10-29 03:42:14 · 8 answers · asked by Irene 1 in Family

ok heres the situation. i live in nc and my bf lives in tx. we cannot be together right now because of our ages, but we talk EVERY night on the internet. last thursday night we was talkin on yahoo messenger and it was stormin pretty bad there and he got kicked off the internet. its been about 3 days and i havent heard anything from him. i really miss him a lot because i love him and he means the world to me. i cant call him because my parents have a block on the phone and i cant call long distance. i dont know if the storm could have damaged his pc and thats why he hasnt been back on yet..or if he just doesnt wanna talk to me. do you think that he left me or wat?

2006-10-29 03:42:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 24 year old women and every time I see him my heart starts pounding and I feel like I'm going to fall over. I saw him last night and my heart is still pounding from seeing him. I can't get him out of my head. I've been feeling this way aboud him for three years. I am in love right?

2006-10-29 03:41:47 · 9 answers · asked by love 1 in Singles & Dating

I have met someone I thought and felt was special and vice versa, then she left me for not sure why, and disappeared for 2 years, and then wrote me again (I was writing her off and on, many times no reply) that she dreamt about me and she is sorry about her being weak and a coward, and about escaping from love, from me. We talked for 2 hours, and decided to become sisters, so I felt happy and eased, but she didn't appear again since, and doesn't answer to anything. Why? I never hated her, I was hurt and healed slowly. Now I thought I was ok, she's ok, we need each other, but looks like she set me up again. or what?

2006-10-29 03:41:37 · 2 answers · asked by sissy 1 in Friends

My dtr had planned a big wedding for 7-7-07. Now she has changed her mind and wants to get married around x-mas. These dresses are baha coral and banana. Does anyone know if I can dye them to a red or totally take the color out to go to a beige or cream. I am just not sure what I am suppose to do with 900.00 in dresses that will not go with a x-mas wedding. Any ideas?

2006-10-29 03:41:20 · 13 answers · asked by sweethometexas2000 3 in Weddings

Im quite a shy lass and at the age of 22 yet to experience having a boyfriend sad i know! The thing is i could do with some tips in how to flirt with guys as i think this is where im going wrong. As everyone seems to be meeting their partner and i feel im left on the shelf and is getting me down that ive yet to experience it. I dont know how to flirt and just need some basic tips as theres this guy i like where i work and ive known him just over a year and would love something to happen between us but dont know what else i can do to make him interested. My gut instinct says he likes me but knowing my luck its probably me thinking it as i have no luck with guys even though i dont think im unatractive. Please help

2006-10-29 03:40:12 · 11 answers · asked by joanne100uk 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend but he's constantly tellin gme he loves me and im only 13 && he's 14, i don't know if he's in it for all the same reasons as me? how can you tell?

2006-10-29 03:38:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which friend do I like and what should I do?

Chris- He's one of my close buddies and is kind and very funny. He's in all of my classes exept French. He has a cute smirk he wears all the time and is short amoung the rest of the boys in my grade, but is still taller than me.

Davie-
I knew him longer than Chris and he is also my ood buddy. He is only in one of my classes and is very smart. He's very kind and funny. My friend used to like him and he has a cute smile.

Who do I choose? Very funny of very kind

2006-10-29 03:37:52 · 8 answers · asked by Spring Royal 1 in Singles & Dating

I think this dream means nothing it's from last year but im wondering anyway, in my dream there was this big thing that looked a refridgerator and there was this big line of people i got in line, when i was finally in front of it i realized it was supposed to tell you who you were going to marry it said Andrew then his last name. I know that Andrew and i hated him but now a year later he's getting nicer but i still don't like him like him.

2006-10-29 03:36:55 · 8 answers · asked by california 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-10-29 03:36:35 · 24 answers · asked by xxx 4 in Family

2006-10-29 03:35:58 · 45 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend says he is "sick of women", not becaue of me, but because of his son's mom. She has been unfair with visitations lately, lots of arguing. Although he says he isn't mad at me. He also said he doesn't want to "make babies", even when I am on birthcontrol and he knows it.

2006-10-29 03:35:30 · 11 answers · asked by h.marieh 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i already am fortunate to have my family so i would love to find my dream man!!...sounds soppy but its exciting having someone to buy presents for apart from the family isnt it??

2006-10-29 03:35:27 · 34 answers · asked by Lydia K 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 months now - yes still early days but it has moved quite fast and we have fallen in love.
The problem I have is that his ex wife continually calls him to see where he is or what he is doing. He answers the calls as he thinks she is calling about the children but it never is and it is now getting very tiring. He has told her to stop mithering him but she just won't get off his case. He says she didn't used to do this when he was single but now she knows he is with me she just won't give in. Any advice how we can deal with this?

2006-10-29 03:35:04 · 22 answers · asked by loveable_lively_leo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, my fiance went to a Giants game with his friends and his brother. I spoke with him at 7 am and then he said "Alright, I'm going to get dressed and call you back." At 9:30, I still hadn't talked to him. So I texted and he doesn't call back until 10:00 said "I really didnt think you'd be mad." WTF? 2 1/2 HOURS?! He said he was talking to his brother and friends in the car. No excuse. Now he's being a dick and trying to hang up and play me out just because he's with his friends.

Shall I proceed to throw all of his belongings in a box and send them to his house? I feel like I have every right to be mad and if I acted that way to him, he would BE MAD!

2006-10-29 03:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm so confused about the guy I've been dating on and off for 6 months. He shows he cares about me. He tries to satisfy me sexually, we hold hands, we go out when we can, we can talk about nothing. But then what pisses me off is something happens that makes me think he doesn't care about me. Just recently he asked me if I would do something with him on webcam so that he could see other people do stuff on webcam. Another time was when we were talking and we were talking about living together, he brought up how he'd want me to go on birth control so that we could have sex without a condem. He was also giving me bullshit about a condem feeling uncomfortable and how birth control has a 96% chance of not failing. I said I wanted to use a condem always no matter what because I don't want to have children anytime soon. He's also been wanting to have a threesome with his friend (a guy). I haven't given him a clear answer on that yet. Feel free to comment if want to say anything.

2006-10-29 03:34:03 · 14 answers · asked by hearts99992000 5 in Singles & Dating

If you cheated on your husband/wife...and eventually left your husband/wife for the other person...were you able to stay faithful to the other person? Or did you continue to cheat?

2006-10-29 03:33:36 · 11 answers · asked by Bella 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Someone commited fraud on my accounts 14 months ago, and caused me to suffer severe financial troubles and now my credit is ruined. About 2 months after this happened, I was a month behind on the mortgage and could not afford to pay it at that time. She has a good paying carreer. After 8 years of marriage and paying the mortgage, my wife flipped! She asked me to leave and why I am still there. She suffers from depression. Not a month later, she calls me to wish me a happy birthday. Her kids, which I raised since they were 7, still call me dad and still call 3 times a week to ask for help on stuff.
We used to dance together and after the first month, she started returning to the dances I attend. Over the year,I have brought her to dances, bought her flowers, taken her out after the dances. She calls me with all her problems. Last night, she said she wants to be good friends and we need to get the divorce done. I dont know what to do???

2006-10-29 03:32:42 · 9 answers · asked by Tomy B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i split up on monday we have a son together but on friday he phoned me saying how much he loved me and that he was sorry i went round and we made up only to find out today that he had slept with an ex on friday then slept with me she want to confront him tonight and wants me to go with her but for some reason i dont want to lose him

2006-10-29 03:31:15 · 19 answers · asked by meadowmal2000 1 in Singles & Dating

I have just done a best of 3 coin toss for a wireless router with my soon to be ex-housemate. I let her call, let the coin fall to the ground rather than palm it. She loss the toss.But now she is saying I lied because she did'nt see whether it was heads or tails because she could'nt be bothered to get off the sofa to look.

2006-10-29 03:30:58 · 7 answers · asked by Stephen F 2 in Friends

I'm married, but my single friend says that she's tired of dating guys who live from pay check to pay check.

2006-10-29 03:30:34 · 31 answers · asked by Butterfly Princess 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 03:28:57 · 4 answers · asked by Frink 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 03:28:42 · 12 answers · asked by dustin g 1 in Friends

but they dont really say who theyre mad at?

2006-10-29 03:28:17 · 7 answers · asked by nodumgys 7 in Friends

2006-10-29 03:27:39 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend for 3 months, is in the depression . He has been perfect BF until his birthday more than 2 week ago. He got depresed ( midlife crisis) and blew off our last date . and refused to talk to me on the phone at all. I called anyway and found out that he so deep in depression doesn't want to talk to anyone at all ( I don't think he lied) and told me not to call anymore. I asked if he want us to end the relationship, he can't even answer that either ( I don't want to but will be fine ).He said he will call me if he feel better. Not even sure he will call at all. And I am not the type that will dump him at this down time and move on. How long should wait-not hear from him for a week now ? - to move on or to call him? or what else you think I should do?

2006-10-29 03:27:36 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What can i do? i can't have a relationship because the temptation of cheating is always there

2006-10-29 03:27:12 · 24 answers · asked by Bruza 17/uk 3 in Singles & Dating