I am a 24 year old women and every time I see him my heart starts pounding and I feel like I'm going to fall over. I saw him last night and my heart is still pounding from seeing him. I can't get him out of my head. I've been feeling this way aboud him for three years. I am in love right?
2006-10-29 03:41:47 · 9 answers · asked by love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it sounds like you are in love to me .....
some ppl just don't ever get that lucky to expereince what you r feeling and I know i have it I love my wife and I think she is the sexiest thing in the world but she thinks I need glasses but I have been in love with her for over 30 years and even thought of her while I was married to other woman because I did not think she loved me so I was tring to find the next best thing since I did not think I could have the one I really wanted (her) and I have known her for like over 35 years and I thoght she was cute and I really liked her even before she had boobs ie she was 7 years old or so I think!!! I was very young too!!! any way she thinks that one of my ex-s were cute than her a and think no she has always been cuter she is my one and only I know that men look at her and she thinks all men who look at her need glasses but I think she is just modest but she thinks she is not pretty at all and I don't see why she thinks I am good looking I think she needs glasses I am blad headed and old I do need glasses but I see her just fine and I am very hairy every where esle but the top of my head so I don't see how she can love the way I look it has to be love!!! they also say beauty is in the eye of the beholder! and that is true but if you love some one they are going to look good to you even if no one esle thinks they are cute Like ( when my wife tells some one she thinks I am sexy) they always look at me and go eeeeewwww (like yuck)
they say love is blind in my case it is!!!!!!
we really do love each other not the lust think that is what I am tiring to say but only you can tell if it is love or lust but if you only have eyes for him and you don't notice a cute person walking by you cuz you are thinking about him only then you are in love but if you can think of that cute person walking by you and forget the guy you love to stair at someone esle than not really in love but lust!!!!!!
2006-11-01 23:45:15 · answer #1 · answered by numan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may be love or it may be an obsession. Your heart pounds when you see him, other than that, what do you feel? Do you think about him, care for him, see a future with him? What does love mean to you? No one here can tell you if it's love because we each have our own perception of it, there is no standard or generalization. It sounds like you have sincere feelings towards him, but only you will know what love is.
2006-10-29 11:54:12 · answer #2 · answered by coolguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is possible...also possible you are heavily crushing. I mean love is deeper than "oh my god he is so gorgeous he makes my heart pound". If his voice soothes you... If you find peace in his presence, if you and he have the ability to enjoy each others conversations, if you feel at ease with him...etc. THAT is indicative of love. Lust is good but it is not what love is ALL about. Lust plus love...now there is a winning combo. Good Luck...if it is love, I hope he loves you back!
2006-10-29 11:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by felisuncia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think u r but it might be lust u might have to do other things 2 find out if u r like get a kiss or go on a date or somethin like that to find out if u realy love him or no like if u get a kiss and u just want to colaps cuz of it than i would say ur in love so go get that kiss :P
2006-10-29 11:45:49 · answer #4 · answered by loveekla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so talk to him ask him if he has a girl friend or if he would like to go out for coffee or something so it is not like a date let him ask you out ....out but you can ask he out for coffee!!!!
that is how i feel about my hubby and I have known he for 36 years we in love and very happy we have never had a argument even!!!!!!! when he kiss me I almost pass out!!! still!!!!
2006-10-29 12:59:23 · answer #5 · answered by mel416 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is easy to fall inlove but is it really true love w/c is hard to maintain....Is he giving you motive that he is also interested w/ you,...try to be analytical...
2006-10-29 11:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by jane u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are BIG TIME like druling over him!!! so what you have to do is try talking to him and ask him out or just start talking to him for 5 minnuts and he will crack and ask you out. unless he's taken utherwise go for it!!
2006-10-29 11:46:38 · answer #7 · answered by delta_bonds 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
love or lust, hard to say without more details.
2006-10-29 11:43:56 · answer #8 · answered by I'm Trying 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes....
2006-10-29 11:43:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋