Okay, my fiance went to a Giants game with his friends and his brother. I spoke with him at 7 am and then he said "Alright, I'm going to get dressed and call you back." At 9:30, I still hadn't talked to him. So I texted and he doesn't call back until 10:00 said "I really didnt think you'd be mad." WTF? 2 1/2 HOURS?! He said he was talking to his brother and friends in the car. No excuse. Now he's being a dick and trying to hang up and play me out just because he's with his friends.
Shall I proceed to throw all of his belongings in a box and send them to his house? I feel like I have every right to be mad and if I acted that way to him, he would BE MAD!
2006-10-29 03:34:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah okay. If someone told you they would call you right back, how would you feel if you sat waiting near that phone for 2 and half hours?!
I expect for him to treat me the same way that I treat him. Whenever I go out with friends I call him and tell him where I go, if I cant talk to him, I text him. I do not dismiss him because I'm with my friends or family.
I dont care if he goes out, I knew he was going out for a few days. I don't care, I want him to have fun, but I just don't like dropping everything and waiting on him and then he leaves me hanging because he "forgot" to call.
2006-10-29 03:42:05 · update #1
Listen, if he said he was going to call me right back...I expect that to be within an hour or so. If he wasnt, then he shouldnt have told me that. He doesn't have a call or check in time at all, but if he promises to call...I can only expect for him to do as such. I leave him alone when he goes out, I dont bother him unless he texts me.
2006-10-29 03:48:06 · update #2
Keep tugging hard on his leash,.soon it will break and he'll be free!
2006-10-29 03:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by MC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already knew he was a going to a football game with his friends and brother. You should have made plans with your friends and not worried so much about where he was and why he wasn't calling you back. Are you that insecure in the relationship that you need him to call you every 5 mins.
In response to your additional comments, why would you sit by a phone for 2 hrs. It is great that you drop everything for him, it shows what a pathetic person you are. I have been married for 3 yrs and never once have I gotten angry when a phone call wasn't returned immediately. Give him a little understanding and realize that if you keep acting like this and expecting everyone to respond to a calls the way you do then you may drive him away.
You seem to have a problem with people not agreeing with you. Don't ask a question in her if you don't like the answers.
2006-10-29 03:45:25 · answer #2 · answered by goaliegirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You talked with him at 7 a.m.? Honey, you are not tethered to the man at the ankles. He is with his friend and his brother. You know where he is, what is your worry? You have a call in time? Every time you go out with the girls he makes you call every hour? I don't think he is playing you out, sounds like he is taking a breather. For your own sanity, please look at reality. If you are over 18 and able to get married, you are able to understand that he needs time on his own, with friends, with siblings, without you! Nothing to worry about, he needs some breathing room. If I were you I would make sure to make this snit up to him in a big way and NEVER let it happen again. If you are still mad, please, for his sake, box up his belongings (including the engagement ring) and send them home.
2006-10-29 03:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by swarr2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him be for a while. He needs guy time just as you need some time to be with your girl friends. Absence really makes the heart grow fonder. Put in a chick flick, get some chocolate, call a girlfriend and have a good time without him. He cant miss you, if you two are never apart.
2006-10-29 03:42:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A little pissy aren't we? Overly Possessive mean anything to you?
Chill, you're not married yet. What in the heck, 2 1/2 hours? Geez I can shop alone for that length of time. You over reacted, and should probably tell him you were wrong.
2006-10-29 03:39:09 · answer #5 · answered by Alterfemego 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would get rid of his stuff and dump him, because he obviously deserves someone that isn't as crazy as you. It is 7am, not 7pm. Let him enjoy his time with his brother and friends. Who would get mad about that? I hope he realizes what his marriage is going to be like with an overbearing watchdog wife.
Are you going to make him call you during the game too?
2006-10-29 03:38:44 · answer #6 · answered by tightlies 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a lucky man your fiance is to have found out what a silly little girl you are at this stage, rather than after you get married.
Two and a half hours - my goodness me - and to think you could have been waiting for him for the next forty or fifty years. As I said, what a lucky man...............
2006-10-29 03:41:00 · answer #7 · answered by thomasrobinsonantonio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a petty thing to be that mad about! You act like he cheated on you. Take a deep breath and relax. Just talk to him when he comes home, let him know how it made you feel.
2006-10-29 03:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by DaRkViXeN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen, dont be too clingy. Just because u tell him every where u go doesnt mean hes gotta do it too, men are different. Let him have his space, why tell eachother every little thing, ur not leaving any space for nothing.
2006-10-29 04:06:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow you have a trust issue with him... Does he need to check in every 2 seconds? Sounds like your jealous because he's out with his friends enjoying guy time with them and your not with him.. RELAX let him enjoy himself without jumping down his throat because he didn't call when he said he was going to...
2006-10-29 03:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by xcura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes man act like this, do not react,or try to reach him , silence is golden,withdraw and give him silence that will get his attention!be different then you normaly react, men respond to that ,he will ask what is wrong and then you can tell him what does not work in a calm way!
2006-10-29 03:46:15 · answer #11 · answered by windloverbabe 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋