if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this
hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .
so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?
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and then she just sent this message to him today
"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"
2006-10-29 03:42:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude, she's a frickin' stalker. Dump her and tell her that when she figures out what she wants then give you a call. I can't stand people who still keep in touch with their exes. I understand that sometimes breakups are hard and you still have to keep in touch if kids are involved, but it still sucks. If this guy isn't contacting her maybe it's for a good reason. Maybe it was something that she did. Regardless, she doesn't need to contact him if she's with you. Good luck!!!
2006-10-29 03:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Italionaire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls can look completely happy and fine on the outside but be screaming and sobbing on the inside. Guys aren't the only ones who can be afraid to show their feelings. She obviously misses him. She might be using you as someone to lean on, or she might just be one of those girls who always has to be dating someone. If she dumped him, why is she expecting him to respond to her? She should realize that if her ex is a gentleman, he won't respond as long as she has a boyfriend because he wouldn't want someone else to get the same treatment, and he might never respond back since his heart must have been broken when she dumped him. I advise you to talk to this ex and figure things out between yourselves. Don't invite her to this conversation, and, while I really don't advocate lying, shading the truth, or anything of the sort, I think it would be best if you told her about the conversation after it has already happened.
2006-10-29 03:55:56 · answer #2 · answered by Dancer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know all this, do you read her private emails???
Anyway yes girls can act fine but really be tormented on the outside (although it usually shows a bit). If he hasn't contacted her then he obviously dosen't want anything to do with her. She may just want to be friends with him or she may want to go back to him sounds like she is a bit desperate considering the lenght of time this has gone on. I think you may have to talk to her about this. However if you have betrayed her trust by reading her emails then that may be difficult.
2006-10-29 03:51:43 · answer #3 · answered by midgetryley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of the time, the person you are dating also becomes your best friend. She amy not have romantic feelings for him anymore but she may m,iss the bond they may have shared at one time. It is also easier for girls to stay friends with their ex. Have you brought this up to herr? Maybe just asking her why she does this can make you feel better and aslo letting her know this bothers you when she does this willget her to stop. If she is just using youto get him back then she is not worth your time. Good Luck.
2006-10-29 03:49:17 · answer #4 · answered by Meagan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok what i think is going on is that she making sure he's doing good after their break up, but i think she knows that he isn't good or he's mad at her and doesn't want any thing to do with her. even if she knows that she still might be friends cause i know i can hate some one but i cant be mad at them for ever so mabe thats whats happening just ask her if your still worried
2006-10-29 03:49:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋