what should i do?

Question

my boyfriend and i split up on monday we have a son together but on friday he phoned me saying how much he loved me and that he was sorry i went round and we made up only to find out today that he had slept with an ex on friday then slept with me she want to confront him tonight and wants me to go with her but for some reason i dont want to lose him

Answer 1

I don't think that he is worth keeping and what kind of example on how women should be treated are you setting for your son?

Answer 2

I'm so sorry for your pain. It is not your fault. You do not have to confront him for any reason, but you do have to take a look at what you are telling your son is ok behavior. He, no matter how young, will see you letting your ex walk all over you and treat you like dirt. You are letting him sleep around and don't want to lose him? Get your backbone girl and find your self-esteem. Tell him it is OVER! You are worth so much more than that. I know the world is a scary place for a single mom, boy do I know that. But I also know it is scarier to stay with a loser who will continually bring you heartbreak. I know you don't want to hear this, but please listen if only for your son's sake: Don't take what you don't want him to dish out. Good luck to you and your son.

Answer 3

You need another boyfriend. As for joining in a confrontation - don't. He wants to look around and play the field. Let him. He already demonstrated gross irresponsibility in putting you in this situation. You have a son with him? He needs to be married, and faithful, to you. But that does not look like it is going to happen. Think about where you want to be, and start taking the steps. They probably don't include him. God bless you and your son.

Answer 4

Go with her...I know it is hard. I know you love him but he is not going to stop if he is never caught and this way he will know he cannot just play like this. Maybe things can still be saved...maybe he would be willing to try...maybe not. But you have a child to teach how to deal with women and letting his daddy dog around is teaching him that it is ok to do that. I hope he wakes up and decides to be a man and responsible to you and that boy but even if the worst happens and he leaves, your boy can have a strong momma he can be proud of. Good luck. My heart goes out to you. I do not know why some guys do this...heartbreaking!

Answer 5

once a cheater.. always a cheater. I did'nt want to lose my ex either, but there comes a time when you have to let go and realize that theres always someone better out there, someone thats meant for you and you only.

Answer 6

Don't be foolish. If he does that to you once he can do it again. Just let go. There will be a better man for you out there that will love you the way you are deserved to be loved.

Answer 7

u should really kick his @ss 3 2 the curb bcuz if he keep lieing to you and he cheated that means he will cheat again and then he will not be there for his son he will be out cheating on u

Answer 8

Go with the other woman to confront him. If you keep letting him do this to you, then you are not earning his respect. Don't let him treat you like pondscum, stand up for yourself!

Answer 9

Hi, if you want to live like that, always wondering...go ahead.
Most would go on down the road..

good luck

Answer 10

if you still liek him, and he likes you, then get back together and instead of splitting up, figure out your problems.. if there is no feeling, just move on.