Family & Relationships - 29 October 2006

I've always been mistaken when it comes to guys. A few years ago I started liking someone, and i was positive he liked me, just by the way he acted around me. Then the day after my birthday I found out he had asked a friend of mine to be his girlfriend. This summer, I liked another guy, and again I was sure he liked me, just by the way he acted around me, and the way he talked to me, and told me everything. The next week he asked another friend of mine to be his girlfriend. And now, there's this guy. I don't really like him, we're friends. But I can't help but think he likes me, because he's always talking to me about stuff, and he'll do anything I ask him to, and he's always playfully making fun of me, like my dyed auburn hair.

2006-10-29 04:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and a girl ive been dating for like 3 weeks went away for the weekend and while we were away we were kissing and i accidently slipped and i said I love you. I was thinking it in my head that i might love her and it just slipped out. She is just getting over an ex and she is special to me and i dont want to rush things and i didnt intend to say it to her then and like that but i did. I was wondering if i can salavage this or have i lost her and just accept it and move on?

2006-10-29 04:36:40 · 6 answers · asked by culby78 2 in Singles & Dating

one of my friends hate me cause i'm going out with one of her friends! but hes the one who asked me out and she had already known i was going out with him! what should i do?

2006-10-29 04:36:16 · 11 answers · asked by eryn m 1 in Friends

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

Additional Details

34 minutes ago
and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

2006-10-29 04:36:06 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I think me and this guy might secretly like each other, but it's SO hard to tell! I mean, I'm not gonna be the one to innitiate a relationship, but I don't know if he ever will either. He's shorter than me, and about the shyest guy I've ever met. I'm one of the few girls he'll really talk to though, even if that is a minimal. What do I do? I don't think I can open up and tell him my true feelings, but I'm aching to do it--and aching for him to grow about 4 inches! What do I do? (BTW, he's older than me)

2006-10-29 04:34:38 · 10 answers · asked by lizzer190 1 in Singles & Dating

if you been hurt by unfaithfull girlfriend or partner does that mean that you lose all your trust in in the next one that you think alot of ? and end up possesive and jealous and scared to get too involved

2006-10-29 04:34:26 · 27 answers · asked by demmi 2 in Singles & Dating

pls help as im doing a survey on courting couples, and if you could state a brief reason why/why not you think if your single?

2006-10-29 04:34:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex was invited to a halloween party but before she went she dileberatly tried to make me mad. could she be seeing someone and just no want me to know about it? why would she want to start an argument and make me mad?

2006-10-29 04:33:00 · 21 answers · asked by mcgomery2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this crush, that said I looked better without makeup, that said girls shouldn't be rockers because its supposed to be for guys, and that he liked me better as a rocker. So I don't know what to do.. I'm not rocker anymore, I wouldn't mind being it anymore. Let's just say I need advice!

2006-10-29 04:33:00 · 8 answers · asked by pixelfairydust 1 in Singles & Dating

yesterday this kid was sposto come over my house to see me. well he was going tocome and then he never did, and never called. i thought he stood me up. but then he tries real hard to get in touch with me and hes all apologizing saying he had to help his friend change a tire on a car and it took a really long time because his friend was stranded.
he tells me this at like 10:30, 11 at night.
then he wants to come over because he ddnt get to come earlier. so we decided id sneak out of my house and hang out with him and wed go drive around.
soooo he gets to my house at around 12 because he lives about an hour away.and everythings going fine. we drive around for a real long time and after we get gas for his car he wanted to find backroads to get a good veiw of the stars. we go on this road noone goes on in the middle of nowhere and we were hooking up in the car. then all of a sudden a cop pulls up in front of us. i was so scared haha. especially cause the kid i was with is 18 and im 15.

2006-10-29 04:31:59 · 16 answers · asked by LongingForYourTouch 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i don't hink we should give up personal privacy so that we all can be safe because giving up my privacy is not protecting me

2006-10-29 04:30:57 · 5 answers · asked by coretha b 1 in Friends

2006-10-29 04:30:52 · 10 answers · asked by Caitlin 1 in Singles & Dating

i wanna stop it, cause i regret it later, could it just be in me?

2006-10-29 04:30:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-10-29 04:30:20 · 9 answers · asked by dejohn m 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-10-29 04:29:18 · 20 answers · asked by emiliobrown 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know he doesnt' love her

2006-10-29 04:29:13 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you won 100Million $ would you tell people or try to keep it a secret... Because once your friends, family, and people you don't even know get a wiff of your being rich status they begin to beg, and freeload, So would you rather just keep it best secret you can, Maybe help out those who in your family you know need it, and then try to not change your way of living to terribly much. Maybe a decent house and car but no 100K$ dollar car or anything? Why would you do what you would?

2006-10-29 04:29:08 · 5 answers · asked by morfusaf 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

would you rather be with you family and your friends (loved ones) or would you rather be rich.

2006-10-29 04:29:07 · 7 answers · asked by LouLou 1 in Friends

Is this weird?? Because my husband really makes me mad..I would rather have my own room..somewhere to go and just have my own space rather then sharing a room with him. No I dont believe in cheating. Nothing else is wrong other then we fight all the time. I hate it and would like some space. Oh and I dont want to get a divorce.

2006-10-29 04:28:28 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She is asian and she has been single for 12 years

2006-10-29 04:27:53 · 7 answers · asked by Philip H 1 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I'm 11. He is in 7th grade and I'm in 6th grade. How should I tell him I like him?

2006-10-29 04:27:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this guy i liked for soooo long went to the marines and we havent talked for about 8 months...now hes appearing online and imed me once so we talk for like like 3 minutes and then hes like i gotta go and leaves and comes back but he doesnt IM me untill i talk to him first which is what i hate....so should i even bother to try to reconnect with him if he doesnt care enough to talk to me first? i know..its kinda pathetic...

2006-10-29 04:27:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Omg yesterday was soo romantic.. i got so drunk in a pub with some friends, some guys started bothering me.. so this guy (my friend's ex) comes and carries me, tells to the others to **** off, took me to eat.. we walked under the poring rain, talked.. there was this connection.. but the trouble is i was expecting to go out with an older guy, but he's a year younger than me..

2006-10-29 04:27:29 · 8 answers · asked by Karine 1 in Singles & Dating

If your bf just couldn't get over his ex, and he kept making excuses as to why he couldn't cut all ties to her, and asked if you'd just step back and give him and her 1 month........would you do it?

She on the other hand detests him. She says he discusts her.

Should I just hope he gets hurt more in the outcome and move on?

2006-10-29 04:27:08 · 6 answers · asked by peggin_beast 6 in Singles & Dating

Won't harm my boyfriend. We are going to his house to pick up my contact lenses. I am white and my guy is black. My ex husband is rascist. Thank you, it means so much.
Could you please take a short moment to pray?
Plus both my parents just died.
I wouldn't be able to stand any more tragedy, and I consider myself strong.
On the other hand I asked people to pray for my parents and they died. I still would appreciate if you you would pray. I'm Scared. My ex is undescribely evil.

2006-10-29 04:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 04:25:04 · 10 answers · asked by roger_kalsi 2 in Family

Imagine this situation, you are on the lonely island with your partner:
If you are a woman imagine that your partner is short, bold, fat, untidy man with the all bad men qualities in him.
If you are a man your partner is the ugliest woman you have ever met in your life.
You are on the island and you will have to live together all your life there. What would you do in this situation? I think that the roots of any devorce is that people know that there are a lot of other men and women around them that they think might be much better partners for them than their current partner. What do you think? P

2006-10-29 04:24:57 · 4 answers · asked by truli u 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

The first time we met, it was surreal. He watched me dance at reggae.I thought he was kinda pervish. Then he said, he thought I would be thirsty. And had a drink for me bloody mary. I told him only if I was his grandma. He wouldn't let up. I usually dance with the music only or friends. He was behind me and moving like the snake, that he turned out to be. I turned around his beautiful eyes. Next you know I was off the ground in his arms and lost somewhere in his mouth. Help he's on his way from Redondo Beach, I live in Perris Ca. Let No be my ATMOSPHERE! HELP ME SAY NO. SUMMYUMS

2006-10-29 04:24:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my fiance for three years now. We have been living together for a year now. He has no interest in staying in the state that we live in. I can not move because I do not want to leave my two kids and I have shared custody with my EX. I have asked when we were going to get married and he said I will not marry you until we move out of this state. I did not know how to repond to this answer. I did not think it was fair because he knows marriage is important to me and he also knows that I can not move. Is he being fair? How should I have reponded to that answer?

2006-10-29 04:24:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-10-29 04:24:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating