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yesterday this kid was sposto come over my house to see me. well he was going tocome and then he never did, and never called. i thought he stood me up. but then he tries real hard to get in touch with me and hes all apologizing saying he had to help his friend change a tire on a car and it took a really long time because his friend was stranded.
he tells me this at like 10:30, 11 at night.
then he wants to come over because he ddnt get to come earlier. so we decided id sneak out of my house and hang out with him and wed go drive around.
soooo he gets to my house at around 12 because he lives about an hour away.and everythings going fine. we drive around for a real long time and after we get gas for his car he wanted to find backroads to get a good veiw of the stars. we go on this road noone goes on in the middle of nowhere and we were hooking up in the car. then all of a sudden a cop pulls up in front of us. i was so scared haha. especially cause the kid i was with is 18 and im 15.

2006-10-29 04:31:59 · 16 answers · asked by LongingForYourTouch 1 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

so he asks how old i was i told him i was 17 because in my head i didnt know what to do since at the time i thought it would be illegal just for me to be hanigng out with an 18 year old. but anyway the cop took me away and let the guy i like go and i was faced to deal with my parents. all this at 2 in the morning. today my dad made it very clear to me that i am not to see this boy, talk to his boy on the phone, text him, talk to him on IM, or communicate with him any more. i like him and i dont know what to do even though idk if this whole incident totally ruined our relationship.
i dont think its right that my parents tell me who i can and cant talk to. shoudl i keep talking to him anyway?

2006-10-29 04:34:17 · update #1

16 answers

Stop talking to him. You're acting like an irresponsible little girl.

2006-10-29 04:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Try talking to your parents and try to understand what their concerns are. If you speak to them in a mature way expressing your point of view I'm sure they will be more willing to listen. Take on board what they say, but be honest with your feelings and responses to them (without getting in their face coz that will just make things worst). Nobody can make you do something you don't want to, but ask yourself what is the worst thing that can happen if you are all alone with someone in the middle of nowhere - who can you rely on or call in an emergency. My guess it would be your parents. Sounds to me they love and care about you, by talking to them they might give you a bit of slack. And you could end up with more freedom than you ever expected. Discuss your dilemma and problems with this guy you are seeing. If he respects and care for you he will see you anytime.

Don't let relationships rule your life, you are 15, you have so many things to experience. There is more to life than just boys and relationships (and sex).

Be your own best friend - get the best grades at school you can, this will give you more options. If you qualify in a well paid job this will make your experiences even richer (have you ever flown in a helicopter, raced on a motorbike, gone diving in a coral reef, played the drums, gone skydiving, climbed a mountain...) Money can't buy you happiness, but it helps. Don't wear blinders, open your eyes to the bigger picture - your life!

2006-10-29 04:55:38 · answer #2 · answered by steve s 1 · 0 0

now although there is only 3 yr dif in age,its borderline in my opinion, but sways my thoughts is the fact that this boy dosent have any respect for your parents if he is convincing you to sneak out and risk getting both of you in a lot of trouble. not the kind of guy i want hanging around my daughter. if he went through proper chanels i may have allowed some opportunity for u 2 to get to know each other, butnunder these circumstances the kid is bad news

2006-10-29 04:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by larryreallast 1 · 0 0

I'm all for dating who you want to date, but it sounds like he could get you into a lot of trouble. Maybe you should wait until you're at least sixteen to hook up with an 18-year-old. If you'd rather not, don't sneak out of the house to see him. See him during the day. It will help with your parents approving of him at least.

2006-10-29 04:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Nikolai 1 · 0 0

I think you are a little bit to young to be seeing a 18 year old, there are a lot of hot 15 year old out there, like me lol.Well im sure if you find a guy around your age your parents will be cool with it!!!! Hope this helps!!!! Good Luck!!!!

2006-10-29 04:40:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Your parents don't want you hanging out with him because, according to what you're telling us, you turn into a deceitful, irresponsible, slutty girl when you're with him. Just what every parent dreams of. And what a winner this guy is, dragging his underage girlfriend into the cornfields so he can statutorily rape her.

The relationship makes both of you look really bad. Break it off.

2006-10-29 04:37:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0 0

Ask them for a good reason why they don't want you to talk to this guy. It looks like you are heading for trouble. Think very hard for your future.

2006-10-29 04:37:03 · answer #7 · answered by Krishna 6 · 0 0

There may be a good reason and there may not be. The only thing you can do is discuss it with your parents. It may take time but that's all you can do

2006-10-29 04:35:30 · answer #8 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0 0

properly my sister and that i flow threw that lots with our mom and dad. In my journey mom and dad have this weird and wonderful like parental ability that they get vibes from human beings. they could be perfect or incorrect yet its fairly all as much as you. you ought to have your mom and him get to be attentive to one yet another greater useful via doing something they the two like, and save the temper happy. additionally save being pals with the baby yet merely be careful reason those vibes can now and back propose threat.

2016-11-26 02:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by clance 3 · 0 0

Thats not too smart of you. I think you might feel sorry for doing stuff like this later on.

2006-10-29 04:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by Joyce R 4 · 0 0

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